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Thanks for your advice people, i have talked to her about how she really feels and she has said to me, shes not been distant..and yes she wants to be with me and that everything im assuming about her not giving me that vibe is wrong.. i guess i just have to be patient, and like you guys say just give it time and just go out with her for dates and have fun and then from there i can really see what we both feel towards eachother.. previosly it has been the ol just cause i cant have you i want you more.....but i dont know i believe now it isnt like that i dont feel like that..i actually wanna see her and take her out and really get to know her in that way. cheers guys.

guys i need help here. i know a girl for about 5 years now she is 20 im 26. i have hooked up with her in the past. this girl once had strong feelings for me.. now the tables have turned..now im the one who wants to be with her. we went out a couple of days ago had a chat watch a movie it was all great it felt good. anyways i thought to myself how much of an idiot i have been for not wanting to take things further with her.. so i emailed her the next day..i basically told her how i felt and suggested for us to be together make something official..at first she emailed me back which really didnt tell me if she accepted to be with me or not she said she had to fully think about it....but anyways i went out with her again. and we had a good time once again and at the end of the night she told me that she thought about everything i said in the email and that yes she wants to be with me and make it official..i asked her if she was sure and she said yes yes. im happy about that..but the problem now is...it just doesnt feel like she is my gf... this girl works alot, has strict parents, thereforeeee i will hardly get to see her..i just dont know if i can handle that...im also not getting that vibe a guy and a girl feels when they are together, where both contact eachother and cant wait to see eachother or even just talk to eachohter...im not sure what to do.. thanks for your help.

Hey guys thanks for your advice..i think ill let it go for now..she has got my number..on the msg i sent her i said that i was going to be free on saturday and if she wanted to do something to let me know..maybe she will call sometime soon..tomorrow is saturday..anyz if she calls she calls if she doesnt, nothing lost nothing gained..i will give her call eventually..to see whats up but i think ill wait a few days ...i mean she could have not got my msg or lost my number or something like that but i very much doubt so.. cheers.

Hey people,i need advice on a girly i have know for years... some back ground info..we went to junior high together..i remember she liked me at time..but i was very shy, i guess we were just kids ....but anyz..this girl was a year lower then me, so i finish junior high and went to highschool..when she finish junior high, she went to the same high school i went to..i still knew she had a thing for me..but for some reason i never really took notice of her, even though she was pretty..i was interested in other girls or playing too much soccer.. anyz while at highschool in year 9 and 10 she used to hang out with the same ppl i hanged out..we didnt talk much..but occasionally..i was pretty shy.. once at a teen party..we did hook up..and well i can say i lost my virginity to her..we were very young soo i mean we hardly knew what we were doing but we got together...anyz that doesnt really matter now since is soo long ago about 11 years...after we hooked up for some reason we never talked again..we never dated.. years went passed we got older..i finish high school and never saw her again..until recently, last week to my surprise i bumped into this girl in the city..i couldnt believe it..we talked for abit..and we were pretty happy to see eachother..i was gonna ask her for her number but she beat me to it and ask for mine..so we exchange numbers and she even suggested we should go for a drink sometime..i said definate, ill call you..anyways this was last friday.. i didnt wanna seem desperate or anything so i waited to call her till sunday afternoon..it was a short conversation, i asked her if she wanted to get together sometime this week. she goes yeah sure..i ask when she would be free she said she was pretty tied up with university but on the weeknd would be cool..but i told her this weeknd most likely wasnt going to be good for me..she then said well how abouts i give you a call during the week to see whats happening? and i said yeah ok, sounds good...it all sounds great..but this is the problem...i waited for her call since monday.. its thrusday now and she never called...i sent her a txt msg last nite and got no reply...now my question is..whats up with this girl...did she loose interst in having a drink with me....should i call her again..or let it go

hey guys.. you might have read my previos posts.. anyways the girl im interested in broke up with her bf of 3 years about 3 weeks ago.. i see this girl on the bus every morning.. one day i causually said to her hey u should come and hang out with me.sometime .she said yeah it would be good.. so i ask for her number she started giving it to me but my ph battery died so i said to her if she could text me sometime so i could have her number.. the weeknd past and i never received a text msg from her.. anyways monday morning comes. i see her on the bus.. we talk friendly as usual.. i never reminded her about the msg she was suppose to send me...we left it at that.. at lunch time when i was at work i receive a msg from her saying hey u, hows ur day going so far., here is my number.. next day i msg her from work just saying hello and i never got a reply from her.. anyways.. wednesday night i picked up the ph and decided to call her to see what she was doing on the weeknd. she says oh on sat i have to do something during the day then going out with my friend and on sunday not too sure.. so i said its cool, well let me know she goes yeah sure.. the next day i see her on the bus again.. she goes oh sorry about the weeknd but on sunday im going out with my friend again..and she goes but maybe next weeknd? i said yeah sure its cool no worries.. now i feel like i did get shut down.. cant really decide on what to do.. any suggestions i do understand she came out of a long relationship but still im abit comfused cause now i dont know if she really likes my company or not.. im thinking of not getting the early bus with her all the time..but not sure if this will help should i ask her out again.. should i just wait..or just get the bus as asual? cheers guys

hey guys over the weeknd i waited for her text msg but never got one.. anyways.. i saw her this morning on the bus.. she was talking to me happy as usual and when we stayed quiet i would just look at her and she would look at me smiling i did this like 2 or 3 times.. anyways i didnt ask for her number again or mention anything about her sending me the text sms....i walked with her when we got of the bus she went her way and i went mine at lunch time out of the blu i receive a text msg i was thinking could it be her.. and it was her... saying "hey u, having a good day so far? here is my number c u later.. jennie about an hour later i replied to it.. asking her how her day was and all.. she didnt reply but. hey atleast she sent me the text msg without reminding her could this be a good sign?

ok guys ill try to keep it to the point i met a girl a while ago i really like who i knew had a bf, i only see her in the morning on the train..i met her thru a friend.. she is very friendly and sometimes i feel she might even like me..she is a very outgoing girl she breaks up with her bf of 3 years..(i was starting to think i was the reason she broke up with her bf).. and starts telling me how she is soo relified and she looked really happy. and told me how she wants to go out heaps and hang out with friends and all..once she said that i took the opportunity to say. hey you should hang out with me sometime. and she said yeah and then added that it would be good smiling and looking at me.. anyways i didnt ask her for her number. the next day comes i see her again talking friendly as usual to me. so i gain courage and i said to her hey jenny is it ok if i can get your number she goes yeah . and i added cause you know how i said you should hang out with me sometime i just wanna give you a call as soon as im finish with my university this semmester.. anyways she ask me for my number too i gave it to her.. anyways she started giving me her number and my phone battery died unbelievable but it did die...so i said oh damn my phone battery died and i said hey u wanna text msg me sometime so i get ur number..and she goes yeah ok.her body language was cool no hesitation. anyways this was yesterday.. i still havent received any ph text msg from her.. im comfused.. cause if i was on her mind she would have msg me already. what could be going on... if she doesnt msg me what should i do should i ask her out to a movie and make an specific day. pls ppl i need help cause im very bad a the dating game... thankyou

i really like her but she has a bf.