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dude thats just wrong, your 17, and hes 31. he has a famiyhe has kids. leave them alone. there life was happy befor you came into the picture, so why are you going to mess up there life for your pleasure. thats just being jealous. you cant have what you want, so your going to ask him to leave his wife. think it through, he has a life, and YOUR NOT IN IT. 0X

I loved this girl for about 2 years, i really loved her. i always asked her out, but she always turned me down. then about a week ago, she finally said yes, we went out, dinner movie, the works, it was great, she had a great time. so i didnt call it as going out, just as friends still. i saw her 3 days later, and she was very excited for some reason, so i asked her whats up. she said that there was this guy that she just meet, he asked her out, and she said yes. so they went ou, and thats why she was so excited. as soon as she said that i just got up and walked away. that really hurt. really badly, for 2 years i have been trying, and this guy she just meets asks and gets a yes. i dont get it. i feel so angry right now i dont know what? i got to go.

Hey thanks guys for the ideas, ill keep them in mind.

hey ya were not technically dating yet, btu who knows. i just saw her yesterday, and she seemed really excited, so i asked what was up. she told me that this guy she just meet asked her out, and she said yes. that hurt, cuz ive been trying for 2 years, and she just meets this guys and says yes already.

i actually do tell her how i feel. i talk to her alot. she knows how i feel about her. so we talk and i ask her if she does like me and she says yes, but then theres times, were she is being really mean, then she says that she doesn't like me. i dont know what to do anymore. thanks for the help.

lol...thats great you forgot your own age...sorry thats just hilarious. ok you need to get her number, start talking to her. and EVENTUALLY i put a big emphsise on EVENTUALLY after you go out with her a few times. Then you can tell her that you really like her. but if you say it to soon you will lose it. Girls dont liek guys that rush right into the line. Stay close, but not to close. take your time. just keep talking, and most of all, the best advice anyone can ever get about a girl is LISTEN TO HER, LISTYEN TO WHAT SHE SAYS.

ya you can...ok being shy is good for a while, but it can also be anoying if it goes on to long. try just talking to them, the most basic line to use is hi, how are you? just try talking to them, you'll be amaized on how well it works...lol. just be yourself, and if they dont like that, then thats there loss, becasue there probably losing out. You'll find someone that you can just open upto easily. It will come.

ok being shy is good for a while, but it can also be anoying if it goes on to long. try just talking to them, the most basic line to use is hi, how are you? just try talking to them, you'll be amaized on how well it works...lol. just be yourself, and if they dont like that, then thats there loss, becasue there probably losing out. You'll find someone that you can just open upto easily. It will come.

ya shy can be cute, but it can also be anoying if it goes on to long. Ya body laungage is a good idea, but try just talking to them, the most basic line to use is hi, how are you? just try talking to them, you'll be amaized on how well it works...lol. just be yourself, and if they dont like that, then thats there loss, becasue there probably losing out. You'll find someone that you can just open upto easily. It will come.

Dude why would you want to gain weight. Its better if your not huge. you can do alot more things.

Any thing would be greatly appreciated. i can think of a few things but a few more would help.

ok i agree with the both of you, the whole ignoring thing is the way to go, not right off the start, once you go out with her once then start to play the game, not to much or you'll never get out on another date with her. If your constantly phoning her, then she see's that your interested, but girls always seem to want the other guy, so play hard to get. go out with her, then dont phone her for a few days. Then she'll phone you. you first have to get the date with her, befor you play the game. thats my opinion, btu i like the whole rosses thing that a good idea, ill try that next time.

Dude you have to end it. If the chick wont even let you go to france with your parents for a holiday. thats just meast up. By the things you say, and what she does, and what else has been posted, shes not for you. you need to go on this trip, let her do whatever. its like what kitty said, if she does somthing it is her own choice. you need to take backt he control in your life. Go on the trip, come back and youll see that things might even egt better because you showed her whos boss, that you run your life the way you want to. so dude seriously GO ON THE TRIP. have fun.

You know its the way things go, you might be the most perfect guy for a girl, you might really like them, hell they might even really like you. But it is the way things just go. All girls say they want a guy who is there for them, good look, and things like that. But when you really get down to it they always go for the bad guys. So yes you could change who you are but that just woudnt be respecting yourself. if they like you, they like you for the GOOD GUY that you are. Try taking them out on a date, if everythings goes well they will say "oh i had a great time, lets do this again" or somthing along that line. so for the next few days ignore them, so this way as what you call being the bad guy, your being mean to them by not phoning her. and if she reallys like you like she said, and does want to go out again. Because its the laws of Women to always go for the bad guys, she will phone you. Then you set another one up. IT is really meast up why girls do that but its true. GIRLS WILL ALWAYS GO FOR THE BAD GUY. So ya play the bad guy once in a while, but dont go changing yourself just to get the girl. BE YOURSELF.

I dont know what it is, i really really like this girl that i see every week at least 2-3 times (not on dating purposes but for others). We meet last year, it has almost been 2 years. Formt he first time i saw her i really liked her. we get along great. we talk all the time. she says that she likes me at times, but then sometimes she says she doesn't. so i turn away from her for a week then the next time that we meet she is all over me. we'vegone out once, and she said that she hasd a great time, and wants to do it again. so i dont know what to do, she likes me then she doesn't. is it me or what. i dont know what to do anymore. any advice would help. thanks.