butterfly girl1607306442

Just because u like this girl it doesnt mean that u can dictate what she can and cant do. Your not with her. She is her own person and you dont own her. Its pretty alarming if you are already feeling protective of her and u both arent even going out. Imagine if you were going out with her and how possesive you would be then! I think you should relax...and i mean...relax a LOT

Well i cant tell you what every girl likes..but i can tell u what i like The most important thing for me..is that they are a real gentleman. Some girls like them rough..but i think sweet, and sensitive and a guy who knows how to treat a lady is the best turn on eva!! Also...besides being a gentleman..they should still have friends and be independent. Just because ur a gentleman doesnt mean u have to drop all ur friends. So still have a life outside the relationship..but when u see her..make sure that u know uve been hanging out to see her all day. Thats it for me!! hope that helps

Hey hun, looks like uve got urself into a bit of a mess..but when things get tough in our life and we are searching for something or someone..we can tend to get off track and resort to drugs, sex and alcohol..and all sorts of things. Firstly..you need to go to a local doctor and discuss things that will help you with your baby. I understand that your mum does not like the boy who got you pregnant, but she is trying to look after you. But she also needs to understand that it takes to people to have sex..thereforeeeeeee she cant blame it all on him. It is a VERY good sign of responsibility that the father of your baby is wanting to see the baby and you. But you have to marry for the right reasons..not just because of the baby. Sit down and talk to your mum and discuss what options you have for your future. Keep at school and dont give up. Goodluck sweety

EVErrryone gets jealous..i get jealous of my bf's ex because i think about how good they would be together ect but then i have to say to myself 'get over it emily, they are broken up for a reason.' Everyone is also insecure at times..but dont let ur insecurities eat you alive. And especially dont give up a good relationship because of them. ull be fine

i didnt even get anything for valentines and its been 9 months..ur lucky

Hi, well first of all all my life i have wanted to look good and have been really picky about my appearance. I've always liked boys..and consider myself to be girly in a sense that i want to marry..have kids ect. But after a really traumatic experience with my bf who i really love, i feel that perhaps i love him less. And i also feel that im sick of pretending to be someone im not around him because he hates going out/drinking ect and thats something that i dont mind at all but i have given it up for him because i want to make him happy. Now im thinking that because my friends dont expect me to be someone and they like me for me...it is making me feel like i could be gay. Or is it that i just dont love him anymore after the way he treated me? i am on anti-depressants because i dont know how i feel about anything anymore..but i think if i broke up with him..i would realise that im not gay..and that my feelings are real love. what do i do

i think if your relationship is based on sex and just pleasing one another, then something is seriously wrong anyway. If you arent pleasing her and this means the end then forget it. That person isnt worth your time, and you deserve more than that.

I have an extremely jealous boyfriend who digs up the past, questions me when i go out with friends to see if boys were there..and so on. I know 100% that this is wrong, but i know it all stems from his insecurities so i put up with it. Will he always be like this or is there any possible way to make him less jealous? if not i can not be with him anymore. I know i love him with all of my heart and we have been together for a long time, but is it fair to say he doesnt love me as much because of the way he is?