ceeboogi
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Not to take away from those who were in short term relationships but I would like to here some experiences from those like me who were in long term relationships (mine 7 years) And how you have been able to deal with the breakup. Has there been NC? Has there been contact? Has there been sex after the breakup? Did things become better or worse? Did you get back together? I ask these questions because I think with this amount of time invested in any relationship things are and will be very difficult to detach from. In my situation we have had limited contact, lots of fights, sex, crying, hurt and confusion. Still not back together nor do I think we will get back anytime soon. Too much damage has been done. But I love here so much that it is so hard to let go after all this time. Thanks for listening
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Hey guys, im home with friends but I still can't stop myself from thinking about her and wts she is doing tonight...I am only on 3 days of NC (sad I know) when will i be the person i used to be!
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my the best come 2 you!
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It gets harder to do NC with every broken NC
ceeboogi replied to Anotherday's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
Hey, I would love to give you advice but unfortunate I am on the same boat, Yesterday I seen my ex and told her that I was starting NC, but today I folded and called. No will power what's so ever? Its like you said it's an addiction witch is kicking my * * *! Not sure how long you were with your guy, but me it was 7 years with her. Be strong don't call him. Life goes on….as long as you have the air in your lungs…there is life after love! lol that's what I tell my self every night Good luck -
i think i will try this 2, i just feel like i have no hope nor energy to make myself feel better Thank you all for your comments
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i am saying they wont ineract with anything
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Yea i here you guys...im not on any meds so i am going to try the herbal way since i would hate to get on any kinds of meds...isnt it funny how just one person can make you feel so low...oh where did i go wrong
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Any one have any advice or experience on taking any of these like Sam-e or stjohns wart? and has it hellped you deal better with healing? Thanks
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First off I want to thank all of you for your advice..... I know that I am not the best at putting words together. with that said, I think what the problem here is that I have always used her as a comfort pillow...even to the point of being co dependent...I don't want to feel like I need someone to make me happy and I think I feel so down cause I think I cant live without her....I believe in "true" love the kind of love were I will love you till the end.....shame on me for letting myself get fooled into thinking my partner thought the same.....what a waste of seven years this is going to be if it doesn't work out...I don't see how I could ever love again....there is so much I need to fix on my part work, career, school, working out, as I write this she just called to chat.....jeeeeeez! * * *.... I turn into pudding and we tell each other we miss each other and that things will work out for the best...guys when I tell you that I love this girl with every inch of my body its just an uderstament....why must I hurt like this....how do I become heard and strong and think positive thoughts and keep going...I feel like my world is ending.. Sorry for the rant but I feel like I have no where else to vent...thank you all
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Thank you... I know al this is true...I just need to find the will to get through this. I hope that at some point she finds out how much I love her and everything I did for her...hoping that one day she will come back.....I know is silly to say...but 7years of being with her I feel I need to at least keep the door semi open...no?
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The first time they kissed the second time she was "supposedly" telling him that she couldn't see him anymore, either way it's over...Im just so hurt
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Hi all, Just need to vent, at the moment my girlfriend of 7 years is upstairs packing her stuff. from my last post when I caught her cheating we had said that we were going to take some time apart for us to think about everything that has happened Long story short she is confused about or relationship as she has never been with anybody but me. She says she loves me and one day will! Marry me but needs space. She says the guy she cheated on me with is nothing and she felt terrible for what she did, so I told her I need her to end things with him if we were ever to have any kind a future down the line. so tonight the crazy man in me came out and I tracked her down to her school were I saw her with this dude and I went nuts on them...after she tells me she was only with him to tell him that what she had done was wrong and just needed to keep things professional. witch in my heart I believe...but I cant take these secrets and lies any more even if she was doing what was right....guys im so confused...how can you give a person all! And think you know someone but then they turn around and hurt you....why! Why must people play with others emotions! How do I even start to move on from her after being with her for 7 years!!!!!! Help me god!! I feel like not even living...........
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The level of what I did is so much more extreme from what she did I would even say it's out of this world....but please people believe when I say that I have real pain in my heart from what she did and I know it's a double standard. I know it's not right what I did but for some sick and demented reason I am mad at her for what she did... i am just so confused. I don't cheat any more. Maybe this is what I get for not being honest with her. but I also know that this is life and this could have happened without me cheating....arrrrgggggg I am so lost....I love her soooo much...how can this be fixed without jeopardizing what I hold so dear to me witch is her love
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Wouldn't this just add more conflict to a situation that is very hot at the moment?
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Hi, Thanks for your advice and yes they only kissed and I do believe that... So know comes the hard part how do I learn to forgive and let go as she is begging me to please try to move on from this I told her I do forgive her witch is true because she has been nothing but a great person with me for the past 7 years so I owe her that now I just need to stop thinking of all the bad stuff in my head and move on... There’s one more thing I need to get off my chest to see if I can feel better. I myself have not been faithful to her these past 7 years, I just never got caught...so why do I feel as if this is karma paying me back. Any advice is appreciated