beaglelover_06

I agree with you that you want to express how you feel to your girlfriend. If you have something to say, I would write it out on and then read it to your gf. As far as her getting upset that you did not move in with her, well, I think that you made the smart move in not moving in. You do need your space and even if it means living with roommates. She needs to respect the space and time you need with friends and she also needs to try to be friends with yours. She is making it all one sided and wants to keep you to herself which is not possible. You have been accomodating enough for her and she should do the same if it is suppose to be a relationship. It is a give and take situation. Best of luck!

oops...I did not read your last post but good for you for breaking up with your bf. I wish you luck in finding a much better one and plus one that treats you well.

I would have to agree with some of the other posters here. Your bf should of known to at least get you a card or some flowers for VDAY. As far as breaking up with him, I don't that you should but instead talk it over with him on how upset you were with him not caring to show how special you are to him on that day. I also think that he was BS when he said that he bought you something for Christmas and it never came because of some unknown reason.

I agree with everyone else. You really need to dump her and get out of that relationship. One thing is she lied and two she is talking to other guys in a sexual manner and was even willing to meet them. GROSS! You can not and should not have to live like that. Don't fall for her excuses. Good luck

Interesting question. The reason for not falling out of love with your family or child is because they are blood-related. You can't choose if they can be in your family or not unlike a spouse.

I agree with Jayar that you should be the one to break up with him and not wait for him to do it. You don't like being in that situation, well, YOU should make the announcement that you want to end the relationship. There is nothing wrong with that. Make yourself happy like I had said before..

I must admit that after reading this, it almost seems like a one of those tv talk shows...I won't say which one but it does. I think that you should not even consider wanting to be in a relationship with him or to even talk to him anymore. I would cut all ties with him. NO guy should be talking to you like that no matter if you had done something wrong like cheating. He is just toying with you in being nice to you one day and then treating you like crap on another. He knows that you still have feelings for him and he is just PLAYING with your emotions. Stay away from him and don't communicate with him anymore. Good luck!

It is possible to become friends or even best friends with your ex. It is definitely NOT for everyone though it is possible too. One of my exes and I are still close friends. We talk and hang out still.

Believe me I understand where you are coming from. It was not wise to go to his house though and force your way in but it had already happened and so there is nothing else you can do about it. Relationships go through many arguments but there needs to be a sense of communication between both parties. You just have to see if this type of no communication is frequent everytime you two get into an argument. If so, I can assure you that it will be difficult to talk to him about anything else that may upset him. It is a shame too but a true fact. I wish you luck on your decision.

It is difficult to go through a breakup and totally agree with putting in every effort, emotion, heart and soul into the guy that you had thought loved you very much. It is unfortunate when they don't respect that and lose sight of it. It is alright to follow your heart and your head but yet it is sometimes to listen to both. It always ends up being one or the other sometimes. The best thing that you can do is just learn from this experience and then move on. If you are done with that relationship, then move on. If my bf does not respect me or the things that I do, then I am ready to move on immediately. Why would I want to be with someone who does appreciate what he has? Instead of worrying about him having a gf, why don't you go out and find yourself a bf that will suit you best. Make yourself happy.

It is when you find out that the person you are dating has not been honest or truthful. Without trust and honesty, there is no need to save the relationship or at least be in it.

I think that the both of you should just break up. My ex would not communicate with me either and it bugged the hell out of me. We couldn't even talk about what was bothering each other over the phone but except through email. What a way to have an argument and then later by email. So in otherwords, if he does not communicate with you in a day or two, then think to yourself if you can deal with a person like that in the future. I knew that I could not and decided to end my own relationship with my now ex boyfriend.

When you find out that he has not been honest or truthful.

I have to agree with vandgsmom. If you had to deal with him and not trust him for the past four years, then I think that you should call off the relationship. If you have not trusted him for that long period of time, then you will never be able to trust him in the future. You will always be faced with the questions of is he lying to me or is trying to hide things from me. After you had expressed to your bf about how uncomfortable it makes you if he did go to the strip clubs, then he should of respected your feelings. Isn't that what a relationship is all about? He would not be comfortable with you if you had decided to flirt with some cute, hot looking guy, would he? I had unfortunately gone through two serious relationships where my I felt that my signifcant others were not honest with me even after I had expressed my concerns or how uncomfortable it makes me. They maybe hearing it but not care just as long as they don't get caught. It is one of those "don't ask, don't tell" situations or "whatever she doesn't know, won't hurt her." Either way, I wish you luck in your decision. I still think that you should find someone else who will respect you as you rightfully deserve.