Santorini

hello there, hmm... im sorry to hear about the fight btw u and ur wife. But actually i don't think watching porn is a problem. My ex-bf watched porn also, and i knew that, but i didn't think this is a problem at all.... I think u shouldn't tell any lie. If u did watch porn, u should tell ur wife that u are overcoming, u are trying ur best. And i think that u should have a talk to her also. As long as u love her, i think it's ok. Watching porn doesn't mean anything, maybe this is just the visual need for a male. And can u watch with her ? or does she mind if u watch with her ? i remember some doctors said watching porn together can improve a couple's relationship. If your wife doesn't like u to watch porn, of course u should try all your best to get rid of this habbit. BUT if u can't get rid of this habbit, u should TELL HER, have a talk to her. Tell her u are trying ur best, but you need time. you shouldn't lie, this is called communication, rite ?

hello there, hmm.. for your theory of Love, i do agree with u to a large extent. Love is really a great thing. "love can move mountain". If we really do love someone very much, we can do everything for him/her, even to scarify ourselves. But nowadays many people say "I love you but i can't be with you", I think it's like an excuse more actually. I think this sentence should be changed into "I don't love you much enough to be with you". If we really love someone so much so much, we must find many ways or method to be with the one we love. (except we don't love them much enough). yea, this is what i think. i hope u can find your next girlfriend soon, and be with her forever, haha.

hello there, Im sorry to hear that u've broken up with ur gf. But actually, really no one knows if your gf would miss you or not. If she doesn't love u so much as in the past, Or if she doesn't have that feeling anymore, She won't have feeling also even she listens to those songs or watch those programmes. so actually no one knows. I broke up with my ex, i think of him and miss him so much when i think of the things we used to do in the past, the food we used to eat in the past... etc etc. But for him, he won't miss me. For him, these memories are just like some past story of him. So im not sure about your gf. hmm.. i agree with swingfox's suggestion. You can call her and ask how's she doing, or u can say u miss her also. But Remember, don't force her to make any decision, don't keep begging her to get together with you again. Otherwise, she would think u are forcing her and u don't give her space. good luck!

hello there, hmmm... if u talk about body, first of all, i would look at their height. hahaha.. sound interesting ? maybe because im a Asian. You know many Asian guys, chinese guys are very short. Many of them are even shorter than girls. So i would look at their height first. And then, i would be like cutelittlechef, i would look at their arm also or their body shape, see if they are thin or strong. Then i would "study" their face, hahaha.. yes "STUDY". bcuz you know many guys look like a player and liar. sometimes, you can know if they are player or not just from their face and appearance.

hello there, Hmm... I know u love this guy but u haven't get ready to give him anything. He asked u to prove your love. But i don't think SEX is the only thing that can prove our love. There are many ways to show and to prove our love besides sex. Actually, what does he love? He loves you or he loves SEX ??? If he really does love u, he shouldn't force u to do anything that u don't want to do or to do anything that is against your moral, right ? Ask him to prove his love too. If he really love you, why can't he wait for you ? why can't he let u do the thing u want to do ? If your bf decide to dump you because u don't give him, I do think he doesn't deserve your love actually.

hello, i do agree with hazel eyes, experiences do shape someone's life. I am not old, im just 19, but i can tell you, what i was thinking when i was 15 yrs old and now are totally different. I m very sure one day u will find that you are very silly today. girl, love is mutual. It's meaningless if u love him so much, but he treat u badly. Pls always remember this sentence "No man worth your tears. The one who worth your tears, won't make u cry" Just love the one who deserve your love pls. Don't hurt yourself. I did love a guy very much when i was about 15-16 i think. But now thinking back, i was really silly at that time. But it's ok, it's a part of my life and just learn a lesson. Remember, love someone who deserve your love. If your bf dare to say out "probably i don't love you", he dare to say that !!! why don't u forget him???? Pls protect yourself, the one who worth your tears, won't make u cry. I know it's hurt and u must be sad if u break up with him. But everyone is the same no one is happy when we break up with our lovers, right ? but what to do ? this is a part of our life. And im very sure u will find someone who know how to love u, who really understand you.

hello there, True !!! it's really difficult to maintain a long distance relationship. My ex is at Canada and im at Hong kong. There is 24 hours time difference between. We did have wonderful time, but of coz, we broke up at last. So actually i don't think netherland and one of the eastern european country has a great distance. "love can move mountain" She said she still love u, but she don't want to maintain a long distance relationship. I think she is getting angry with u actually. Maybe she thinks your job is more important than her in your heart, that's why she is angry. If u really love her, If u really can't live without her, why don't u move in to be with her ? Does your work really so important ? I am sure she will be very surprised and happy when she know u move in to be with her. It's very hard to find the one we love. Please treasure her, ok ? don't let her go so easily. If u really love her, try to move in with her. Distance is always an obstacle for us. Distance always change people's mind. It will be too late if u regret someday. So just go and find her if u really love her. If u don't decide to find her and don't decide to move in, then just forget her.

Hello, I've broken up with my ex-bf for about 3 months. He dumped me because he loves another girl. They are very sweet now and they go on very well. I wanna know if he would miss me sometimes ? Would guys miss their ex-gf even they have a new gf ?

hello there, I am sorry to hear that. I understand your situation. My ex did also made many promises to me, he said he will love me forever, blah blah blah, we planned for our future, we had great times before. And he dumped me because of another girl suddenly. 1 day before we broke up, he still said he loved me. But just one day, he dumped me. I was so shocked and so helpless. When the nights come, i m so lonely. All our memories come out from my mind. I miss him so much so much. I cried everynight on the bed, miss him, think of him. But now, i feel better. Because my friend told me something, she said : "no man worth your tears. The one who worth it, won't make u cry" u see, they are so bad, they don't worth our tears. They never considered our feelings. They find us when they need us, they dump us when they dont need us. Pls don't be sad for him. He doesn't deserve it !!!!

hello there, I understand your situation. Before, my ex bf broke up with me, he said he need time to be alone too. And i felt very afraid, i was afraid i will lose him forever. I couldn't control myself and i kept calling him, sending him message and he was mad. He said i didn't give him any space. So i suggest u not to find your girlfriend. If she want to call you, she will call u, right ? if she love u so much as how u love her, she must find u back, right ? if she doesn't love u so much now, it's useless for u to keep contacting her. You know everything is possible in this world, everything is changing, even human's mind and character. She is working now, she meet more people, she has more experiences. Maybe her thinking has changed already. Maybe she is not the one in the past anymore. Maybe what she need is not the same as before. So u have to prepare for the worst. She has changed! But there is another possibility. Maybe she really need some space to refresh herself, to make up her mind. You know we always need space for a long-term relationship. We always have to think if our partner is suitable for us or do we really love our partners so much ? we always need space. I m not sure for the reason because i don't know your girlfriend. But from what u've said, i think your girlfriend has changed. Maybe she is tired in this relationship, or maybe she become different from the past after she goes out to work. You know jobs always change people's mind. Anyway, hope for the best, prepare for the worst. Don't keep finding her if she says she need space. otherwise, she would think that u are troublesome. So, just wait for her and prepare for the worst. If she is yours, she must be yours someday. Anything u can reply my msg, i will try my best to help u, good luck

hello, I don't think u did the wrong thing. You are correct !! You know i have the same case as you. I loved my ex bf so much. But he dumped me because of another girl !! Later, he found me back and wanted to date me back. OK !! i gave him chance again. Then later, he turned to that girl again. I was so sad u know. I can't bear to talk to him. SO HURT !! I ignored him. and i asked him not to find me anymore. I said i wont and i can't be his friend. I did the same thing as u. We have no fault. we did the right thing. They are the one who betray us. Have they ever considered our feelings ??? So don't worry !! u've made a right decision. It's hurt to be friends with our ex while we still love them. They didn't care about us.

hello, actually i don't know whether this website is only for US resident or not. I searched it in google and i found that it's nice. Im a 19 yrs old gal from hong kong. I really wanna find my soulmate who can share everything with me. I want to know someone who is honest, sincere and true. Maybe u would think that im young, haha. But does this matter ? haha.. as long as im serious and true. I hope i can find my soulmate here. I don't think nationality and distance would be a problem at all. Leave me a msg if u want to make friend with me

hello, Im a 19 yrs old gal from Hong Kong, haha, im young, rite ? but im very serious with love. I had been hurted deeply before. I really want to find my true love. (if there is one) I want to find someone who is honest, serious, sincere and true to me. People from all over the world are welcomed. Bcuz i don't think nationality and distance would be a problem if it's true love. I hope we can share our experiences and life maybe.