jbsing1

I have been having stomach pains and tender breasts for about 4 days now.I am on the pill religiously mind you and i won't start my period for another week and a half but it feels like gas almost but why would my breasts be sore?Is it because I'm ovulating because i've never had these symptoms during ovulation.Also my stomach is very bloated and i swear if i poke it with a needle i will fly away due to pressure.

Get a blood test their the most accurate and if that comes back neg then your probably not pregnant.

Ortho tri cyclen lo worked for me i never worry anymore about getting pregnant i also take it every morning this way if i do forget that morning i have all day to remember to take it.

I've been there i was pregnant last year due to a messup on the nurse at my dr office.i missed a pill and she told me how to fix this but she messed up and I had sex that night and then she calls me the next day and tells me that she was wrong.Well i wound up pregnant,already had a 5 yr old and a 4 yr old stepdaughter so i did the unthinkable i got an abortion i won't lie to you it is a very stressful thing to go through but i did it and i had some guilt after but i'm ok now.Some people have to go through therapy just too get on with their own lives after.But if you and your bf are not ready then i say do it bbecause i thought of the whole adoption thing and realized that i woud just end up wanting to keep it if i saw it when it was born.I wish you the best of luck with everything i hope all go's well whatever desicion you make!JB

I was in a 2 1/2 yr relationship and it ended quite suddenly.I was so depressed that I put myself in a hole for a couple of months.But then I just had enough and started to write down everything I was feeling and it felt so good!I then took a year off of dating and just took it easy I now am with one of the best guy's in the world we have been together for about a year and a half now.I'm so glad I took that year off for myself it made a big impact on my life and plus there were no rebounders in my life!Rebound relationships are probably the worst and that year off prevented me from doing that.Good Luck,keep your head held high!

I can't say it will be no but he knows where I'm at in my life and it makes me feel good to know that he knows that.He's just changed alot in the past month like everything is about me and he has always showered me with gifts like yesterday he bought me a hottub wow huh?Not very small intimate gifts mind you.I'm a very giving person in other ways like cleaning out his truck for him or making his favorites meal.He has been very needy these past few weeks and I can't help but feel like he feels the need to propose to hold onto me.He's never possesive or anything and he is always paying me compliment s even though I'm an insecure person.He always says that he wants to grow old with me no matter what but for some reason I get the feeling that he feels the need to be married to help me with my insecurities which is not what I want at all.Maybe I'm crazy

I guess I'm not sure if he has changed his mind about not wanting to get married and is trying to get a hint on whether I would marry him or not.He mentioned it again last night.I have to have my motion in to the courts before Oct.1 so I can avoid the $200 fee for changing my name back.I asked him if he could throw my envelope in the mailbox for me and he said why so you can change it to (his last name)?I love him so much and I know he loves me and we've always been on the same page about not getting married but now it seems like he's hinting around for a clue from me.He's been so different the last month,for the better I mean he's very attentative and loving more than so.But I'm kind of afraid he'll pop the question yet I'm not sure.I guess in my heart I could see myself married to him but in my memory is where the sting of my last marriage stays.It took me $25 bucks to get married last time and a whole lot of court trips and fees to get divorced,all in all it took me about 4 yrs to get divorced.My ex would always drag me to court for something new.I love my boyfriend to death and I would do anything for him but the thought of getting married again scares the crap out of me.I mean doesn't a woman usually have an intuition about this proposal crap?

I have been with my bf for over a year and he is the absolute best.We were rocky in the beginning but now everythings great.I recently got my divorce granted and was reading the paper when he came over and saw it and said what you reading and I explained that it was a motion from the courts for a change of name back to my maiden name.He said oh are you gonna change it to(his last name)?I said no I've waited this long to get it back I'm not gonna change it again.Now we have had the marriage talk and neither of us are ready we were on the same page or at least i thought we were.Now my question is is would he bring that up if he was just kidding or hinting around?I would never say no to a marriage proposal from him but I guess I would have to say it would be a very longgggg engagement.

I am 25 and I was married to my son's father for 3 yrs with him for 6 yrs.Two months after we split, I found out that he had cheated and had been for 6 months before our split.I was not devastated about the split but relieved.I was however hurt by the cheating for I had been faithful for so long.I then met my next boyfriend who I was with for 2 yrs and it was a very different relationship and it was great.I was very insecure with him and he knew my past even the cheaters before my ex husband.Every Sunday I would get up and make breakfast for me and him and my son(tradition)and one morning he just woke up and said that the relationship just wasn't working.I was shocked because I had no idea that things were bad at all,he never hinted around that anything was wrong and neither had I.I left him and about a month after we split I received a letter from him saying that the reason he broke up with me was because he had not been faithful to me.WOW was that a shock.I took off a year of dating completely and just hung out with friends and spent time with my son.Well May of 2004,I met my now boyfriend and he has a little girl whom he has custody of.I've had a few issues with him in the beginning but never had proof that he cheated.We've been together about a year and a half and things are great except for the fact that I'm always terrified that he'll get bored and cheat or leave.It's gotten to the point that I feel like I'm going nuts,with all these thoughts inside my head.I love him and the way we met was so weird that I almost feel as if he is my soulmate.His grandparents grew up with mine(how weird)and he had all the same friends that I did growing up yet we never met.I would die for him.I just want to know if there is anyone out there like me.Help!!!!