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  1. maturity does not come with years, but thx maybe i am making some excuses but i forgave her for it. Every day i wake up i realise some things i should have done better. Things i have to remember the next time i will have a relationship. In a way I do have learned from this. I really do just want her to be happy and I am prepared to put my personal interest aside for this. I talked everything out with her and it's worth it. I feel better day by day, the pain is mostly gone and replaced by emptyness now. This was all i have to say for now, thx for all the advice. Thankgod for these types of forums. It helps to know you're not the only one having to experience these type a things.
  2. to be honest, i have no clue how she feels now. I thought i knew and look how that turned out. She's just so incredibly hard to understand, there are things i hate about her but it all just fades away when i recall how perfect she was at teh same time. Guess ill see how i am a month later on or so. Thx for the support, appreciate it. Ill let you know how it goes.
  3. im just a bit messed up now.. she seems so cold towards things, guess she really does feel nothing remotely in terms of love. So thinking bout how hard it is for her really doesn't come to mind
  4. the guys you date are pathetic then.. were not all stupid like that
  5. ty for your advice. I know I have to stay away for a while, seeing her would only make me feel worse again. I have no idea how I would feel if I saw her if I ever get over her. But I'm trying. I am now talking to her now and then and it just feels good. She appolagised about her behavior and i forgave her for it. Im still hoping that by some act of god i get her back but my mind is telling me this is just my hart speaking and not my common sense. I lost her, i realise that, it hurts but i'm simply fed up now with thinking about it constantly for days on end. I don't know what the future holds and how it works out, I just can't see her now, i hesitate to even give a sentence sometimes. It just feels so fragile which it is. She made it clear she now feels nothing but affection on a pure friendship basis towards me, it sux but i'm just glad i still have something. It just feels a bit easier to digest then losing her completely
  6. we live some distance apart so I won't see her. I told her I did not want her to try this out of pitty for me and she say'd it wasn't that. I want her more then anything in the world, but reality came crashing and it's just not gonna happen anymore. Like I said i asked her to give me time and I really hope i can get over her or turn my love into friendship back again.
  7. A couple of days ago my gf broke the news that she stopped caring. My world was devastated. I am still sick with this awefull thing could love. After much pain I disided to talk things out, to my surprise i actually feel a bit better. She means too much to me to just leave out of my life. Is it possible to save our friendship? I talked to her and it felt really good, I missed talking to her. I forgave her for being so cruel to me and asked her if she gave me enough time to get over it. She agreed. I just want her to be happy, is it possible to salvage at least the friendship? I feel like I have to cut my loss and salvage what I can no matter how it hurts. I just seem to walk away and not have her in my life on whatever base. Has anyone had the same and will it work.. I am giving it a shot no matter what you say but at least I know what to expect...
  8. i can't eat, i can't sleap, i can't stop thinking what i do wrong. I know it does get better, the meaning of the sentence just seems so meaningless now
  9. well she dumped me, it appeared she had no feelings for me what so ever anymore and was just letting me hang until she found the need to actually mention this. i hate life, i hate love and i want to shoot myself
  10. There's nothing wrong with being picky. You'll know who you want the second you lay eyes on her.
  11. be honest and just tell him, it's the best for the both of you
  12. be glad when you're past it.. oh yeah..don't eat cheese or drink milk, that works
  13. Ok, here's the thing. Im with my gf now for a month, month and a half or so. We live about thirty kilometers apart and it's a bit of a fuss to see each other. At least, so it seems. Everything was fine except about a week ago. Suddenly she overflowed me with crappy degrading comments of would not say anything at all. ( this was true messenger though cause we live a bit far away ) I asked her what was wrong but she would not answer. Today she sounded normal again to my surprise but every time i keep asking her when to hook up she blows me away with some stupid argument like; not feeling like it.. She just seems so cold sometimes, she has no initiative to do stuff together what so ever, she blows me off every time i suggest something lately and she suddenly hates it when i call her anything but her name. My question, when do you know someone still really wants you or just holds you on a line as some thing. I love her to death already and I'm just being blunt the second I talk to her again cause I'm simply fed up with being treated like I don't exist except when needed. I'm just so confused about things now.
  14. like us girls have different types, it's the same with me. half thinks you're a handsome looking fella the other half thinks you're just a bum
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