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well it sounds like you got things pretty well under control, i dont recall reading that you asked her to be your gf? thats i guess what you should try next..me and the girl i like arent as touchy as you guys are but im also trying to find a good time to ask her out as my gf too! but one thing you must really keep in mind is that just like there are girls that are flirty almost all the time with anyone there are also guys that do that..alot of people say i flirt with too many girls! we dont mean it to be hurtful even if we know someone else likes the person we are flirting with but its just who we are but i guess there does come a point where sometimes a guy can go to far. but you didnt explain it too much and you dont need to now. anyways i have a post in the attraction and flirting on asking people how to make a special way to ask someone to be your gf so if you want you can read that, if she is this touchy with you and not your gf yet then im pretty sure she is just waiting for you to pop the question. well i hope this helped you and good luck to you guys!
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i think i will wait until school starts but its still good for me to plan this out earlier i guess, as for what you thought before, i live in fremont, california not santa clara, and we did go to great america. another thing is i gave her the first real hug from a guy she ever had. she said she danced with other guys at dances and stuff before but never let any other guy give her a hug so that made me happy. also...i guess im sorta shy around her, out of all my friends by far im the most outgoing but around her i tend to be a little shy..well not as much anymore but i guess for a while i was, she told me she likes sunsets and beaches but there is one thing i have to say about her parents, they by far are the most protective parents ive ever heard about, they took away her instand messanger so that she couldnt talk to guys..and thought that was like wow! so the chances of being able to get to a beach with her with just us two is really small but i really want to give her the sunset but i dont know where would be a good place.
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im 15, the girl i like is 14, we will be going to the same school in the fall but her parents are really protective...im pretty sure she likes me, but when i ask her to be my girfriend, how can i make it like extra special so that it will be something she will always remember? i want a special way to ask her out for a really special person
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we will both be going to the same school in the fall so i think i should probally wait until school starts to ask her out? i probally wont get to see her more than twice until school starts because her parents are completely guy paranoid.
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we havent seen each other that much but i talked to her alot on IM and ive seen her a few times. and i know her really really well but mostly from IM
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should i ask her out before i ask her to be my gf?
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jna35, i havent received your pm's. and maybe i should add she has never gone out with a guy before or had a bf, if that makes any difference
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but isnt asking someone out, and asking someone to be your girlfriend different things, and if not..which one is better to say: will you go out with me, or will you be my gf?
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im not sure i put this in my initial post but we did somehow get to the topic of me asking her out while i was talking to her on IM and she knows i will ask her out eventually just not when, where, and how...because while we were talking she was even like: dont tell me how you are going to ask me out keep a surprise. yeah knowing that she already knows sorta should be good right?
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this is a really weird situation for me...i guess ill start with telling everyone reading this a little about myself for backround. I am 15, and will be going into my sophomore year of highschool this fall. the girl i really like is one year younger than me and will be starting high school this fall as a freshman. i really like her and she likes me too. this is probally the strangest situation ever but...i know that when i ask her out she will say yes because somehow it came up. i havent seen her since 4 or 5 months ago however because during school since i was in high school and she was in jr high it was too hard for us to meet up and during summer so far her parents have done a good job of letting her do anything so i havent seen her. this coming wednesday i will see her at great america(for those of you who dont know what that is, it is an amusement park). however since she knows that i am going to ask her out..should i ask her to be my gf there? and how do i say it? i always thot that i should just say: would you be my gf? but is great america a good place to do it? should i wait until maybe the next time we go somewhere? please keep in mind that neither of us can drive, her parents are paranoid about guys, and that i havent seen her in many months.
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ill 2nd what heloladies21 said, many times that has happened to me
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its really hard to say without any more details.. from what you said it seems its just lust not love for sure
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yay Im so happy I actually got the balls to call. :)
justwonderingkid replied to QTpie87's topic in Dating Advice
well one of the biggest things you should not worry about is looking bad in front of her, when you worry about that you tend to do things that arent yourself which leads off to a bad start, just be yourself and good luck -
If you catch a girl watching you and smiling...good or bad?
justwonderingkid replied to NN2's topic in Dating Advice
well smiling around you is good but mostly look for how much attention she gives you..thats how i end up being really obvious.. talk to her for a while and walk away and do something else and watch to see if she is still watching you or follows you over and little things like that, watch for attention! -
also you dont want to look desperate.. if you look like you are trying to hard well actually i read this in an ebook... dont try! dont act anything different than you would with any other friend, she could end up getting attracted to you more..as for asking her out the movie thing i just said would work and many other like it
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i dont see what advice your asking for..is it what to say? if so... bring up a good movie coming out and ask if she wants to see it? anything like that.. if she says no...watch for something that she wants to do it some other time, if she doesnt ask to go somewhere another time then that could just be an excuse to not go and she wants to let you down lightly.. if this isnt what you wanted to know then re post well i hope this helps you
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well she hasnt really said anything more about breaking up with her bf or anything, what signs should i look for that she might be interested in me though?
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I'm shy and need advice.. I dont know what to do...
justwonderingkid replied to club33's topic in Dating Advice
i think he likes you, staring is a really big thing... whenever i go to my crushes house and i stare at her all the time except i usually dont let her see because i sorta feel weird haha well its a really big sign, but like the other guy said, he isnt sure you like him so he isnt going to make a move on you most likely..make the first step and go talk to him when he is with his friends, if he gives you his full attention when all his friends are around thats another sign, while talking to him slowly(and i do mean slowly) get closer to him (always facing straight towards him), if he has feelings for you he will like you enter his "personal space" which is usually around 12-18inches without turning away from you, i hope this helps you! good luck with this guy -
me and this girl i really like are both 15, spend lots of time together and i really like her. we call each other and talk to each other alot, and i just found out she has a bf. today we talked for a while and she revealed to me that she wasnt so sure that she liked him anymore, and well i REALLY am crazy about her. but im thinking possibly she likes me because well, today for example i spent the entire day with her, she playfully pushes me around and i guess sorta flirts with me a little bit, we shared a mocha at starbucks, talked about our previous love life to each other and stuff.. i cant really ask her to be my gf while she is going out with this other guy, but if she doesnt really like this other guy then maybe i should. im very confused on what to do..help[/i]
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there is this girl i really like and were pretty close friends.. i have her number, email, etc. i want to ask her to be my gf but i dont know how to ask her..like what should i say?
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i dont think there isnt really anything to worry about here, he definitely really cares about you and you two certainly share a very close and special relationship, just remember that guys like him will always notice the small things.. to people like him small things can mean the world
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she could of been just casually flirting.. i know some girls like that but it doesnt hurt to ask.. you dont even have to make it sound like you're asking her our.. i guess you could say something like you are giving her a gift in return or something.. haha girls love something that sounds sweet they really do well.. best of luck to you
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well i really like this one girl, we're both around 15 and go to the same school and we have 1 class together (though this year is ending on thursday), i want to ask her to be my gf but i dont know how i would say it.. also she has had one bf and that guy was really a bad guy never really spent time with her and well i want to show her that i wouldnt be the same as him and i dunno just how should i do this..?
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i have her number because i asked her for it..like a long time ago, about 8 months ago...and i KNOW she is at least busy on saturday, havent heard about her plans on sunday
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LtAwesome Posted: Thu Mar 10, 2005 2:03 pm Post subject: I dont really agree with the rest...if you asked her out, and she was really busy..like ACTUALLY busy, but she still was interested in you, she would have said "maybe another time..." or offered another time. If anything, you should have gotten her number. Personally, I think it was just an excuse to let you down easy....dont ponder on it...move on. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- maybe i should have been more specific, i DO have her phone number both home and cell, during our only class together which happens to be pe while everyone else is walking outside where our class meets its just me and her and i guess im always flirting with her and she flirts back (according to pretty much all my friends in that class), when i first said something about the weekend she sorta giggled, and then when i asked if she wanted to do anything she just said im really busy this weekend sorry