justwonderingkid

just a little note: im in 10th grade, shes in 9th.. we see each other practically everyday excluding weekends sometimes this girl i like randomly asked me why i liked her.. i guess she found out through friends and such.. so i told her and then i asked her if she liked me and she said she "really wasnt sure yet" what does this mean!?

well he could truly just be scared of comittment (i have a few friends like this), but just cut back on talking to him, still talk to him but dont sound like you'd give heaven and earth to be with him. right now maybe he knows that he can be like that and hold your interest. you have to show him that you liking him isnt just a convienence! im not a girl so i guess i cant know a few things but i definitely think that he wants to be with you if he said that.. and if we find out he doesnt then he really needs to watch what he says. best of luck to you!

well if you're just randomly calling to say hi, then i think girls expect you to call, but if she asks you to call make sure you defiinitely do or else she'll think you didnt care enough to call. i think shes just trying to get more attention from you (she probably definitely knows you like her), and the reason she can do this is because 90% of the time it works! i remember i went crazy over this girl i like (and im only 15) and she seemed to just be a good friend to me. Then i stopped paying so much attention to her and talked to her, her friends, and my friends all about equally. and now its a couple months later and i really think i have a chance with her! (and just a little side note, i messed up big time with her nearly a year ago) so just dont seem needy, but show you care.

im about 15 years old and i was wondering where is a good place to ask this girl i really like to be my gf... some of my older friends have done some really special things and i do too.. any advice?

honest to god, it almost doesnt matter. if you're going to a wedding or something formal wear something formal, if not be comfortable because us guys think you girls look beautiful in anything

a few months ago i had already apologized for hurting her feelings and her best friend and i dont see each other anymore, we're just friends

you are in a pretty good situation, it seems most girls say that because they want to get to know you better before getting into a relationship and i think thats a great thing. just keep talking to her and getting to know her more. haha you're in a great situation man. im hoping to get to where you are now

im in 10th grade, she is in 9th. i met her when i was in 8th grade and when i was in 9th we liked each other and we both knew it but since she was in 8th she was still in jr high and i was in high school so we promised each other to wait till she was in 9th grade.. over the summer from 8th to 9th, i met her best friend and i began to crush on her. the girl i originally liked was broken hearted.. things moved on till i was just confused about what to do. recently in january i began to realize the girl i originally liked was all i ever wanted and i want her back, so we began speaking more again like we used to. i feel like i dont deserve a second chance and that i may be offered one. me and her talk on messenger almost everyday but during lunch we dont talk to each other since we both hang out in different areas. i spent time with her last night but it was one of the very few times i hang out with her outside of school due to both of us have busy schedules and what we do also has to go along with our parents. is there any way to know whether she is interested or if she likes me? people say a change of attitude around me is a big sign but ive never been able to notice that with any girl.. any other tips, and how is a good way to ask her out? some people have told me to tell her i like her then a few days later ask her out. any tips on any of this?

what do you guys think of this poem? good, bad?

it was just one year ago i wish i could go back i let you go, thats my regret back then i was so whack but then i made it worse, had feelings for your friend turned out she thought she liked me things with us began to end months later me and her were done and i just pushed on i began to realize what i did both of you were gone now im wishing i had you i know just what i lack i lack your love and comfort i really want you back... exactly my thoughts

not to burst your bubble but most of my friends are girls (im a guy so my opinion may be wrong?) and it seems like most girls dont like more than one guy..well at least all my friends anyways

how will i know when the girl i like is ready to be asked to be my gf..as in, well i know she sorta likes me i guess but i wanna know how ill i know when she will be comfortable enough to easily say yes to me.

i think its a good thing, she had fun with you and thats pretty much all that really matters. just act the same way you have been and make sure you dont sound too desperate to see her, from what ive found out bing desperate can be a big turn off for women.

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well as for me i guess ive always been attracted for thier personality and then them having such a beautiful personality, to me i saw them as a beautiful person. in time you will feel that way most likely as well

well its not like mean teasing we both know that our friends teasing us is just playful fun for them it just makes things a lil more awkward, should i have her friends be around and ask her at like a park or something or should i ask her alone on our way back from school..it seems like those two seem to be my only options unless someone can suggest a better alternative

she could have been suggesting indirectly that she likes you but its sorta hard to tell if it was good or bad.. ask her if it was good or bad and update this post

she probally is just someone who flirts alot..dont think too much of it, besides if she leaves her bf for you, then she will leave you for someone else.

well i can still see her just im not sure by herself, she would probally be with friends..since she is a year younger i dont know any of her friends either.. so im a little bit quieter and alot less likely to ask her around her friends since its just not really the same, i mean..from how her parents are it seems like i have only a few choices, one is while she walks home ask her out (so i might be able to get her by herself) but there would be no really scenaric thing or sunset, wait and try to get her to see the sunset but she would be around her friends which i forgot to mention constantly tease her about me(same thing about my friends) , or she could sneak out and then have scenaric place and sunset..but i dont really want her to sneak out. help what should i do

you shouldnt worry about your hair unless it looks completely wild, and yours does not. if you are trying to make your hair look good for a girl...then from what ive found out girls take confidence more than almost anything. if you be someone they feel they can trust and make your actions with confidence almost any girl will like you. if thats not why you want to change your hair then all i have to say is that it looks good the way it is

you move from left to right on tempo to the music almost all the time..i dont dance. i do the slow dances pretty much thats all

im not so sure telling her parents is the best thing because well in my opinion they do some really insane things.. last i heard she got in trouble for brushing her teeth too loudly so her mom hit her several times.. so from knowing that me and all of my friends know that her mom is pretty unfair (and she says her dad is worse) so i really dont know what to do

also, how am i going to get her to this perfect place..should her mom or dad drop her off there..or should i walk there with her, i think the biggest problem still is her parents because, out of every protective parent ive ever heard about hers by far is the most protective so i guess the biggest problem is finding a way to be with her in a scenaric place at the time of a sunset..any advice?

it really depends on the person because i personally think the words i love you mean too much to be used around loosely but others use them like its nothing..so its almost impossible to know..because he might have been too shy to say it normally or he truly could have just been kidding..but i personally think he was just kidding around

hey i saw you reply to my post too! haha well. the biggest thing to look for is difference in behavior..like i was at great america and when the girl i liked came i became almost completely silent (me usually being the most outgoing person around) that is a really big one. if you can catch them looking at you and then when you look at them they turn away thats a really big one too but sorta hard to catch so ask a friend to look for it! lol! uhh alot of smiling is a good sign, tapping you to get attention instead of calling your name, actually any touching what-so-ever...well thats all i can really think of right now but i really hope this helps you! thanks for the reply in my post too!