Helpme86

I've been cheated on, make me feel better....Please?

I know that, just that when I ignore her that was the only time I really got any contact straight from her. Its been a week since I last contacted her now and I've blocked her from all being able to contact me online in anyway. And if she ever called, I have more will power to not pick up a phone call than to not answer an instant message. So thats good, I think.

Well what threw me in loops(that how the saying goes??) was when I would try and just stop talking to her(the two other times), she would try and contact me a lot, but I would never make contact back. The last time I contacted her was the 7th, lol, so thats a long time for me and not talking to a girl I like. You did tell me so, but I never wanted to listen to you. Thanks for the help.

Maybe its just me being negative, but all you women say you like sensative, funny etc....guys but really isnt it looks that get women first. If a built tan, fit, clean cut guy is walking through a door, who are you going to notice first, the tan built guy, or the nice shy guy holding the door for him and the old lady behind him?

Update, again. I've given up on her for the third and hopefully final time. She complains about not having friends, and not having someone, but when I call she ditches, and just pushes me away. I'm not "respecting her decision", I'm making my own. And that is to forget and ignore her. Why should I "respecting her decision" when its just too rude(shes just rude to me now and flips on me over simple questions, like why did you ditch me(we had plans)). I'm going to try just to not care, pretend like I never met her before. Thanks everyone.

So a follow up to what happened today(supposed to hang out). She ditched me, out right ditched me for someone else. This has not been the first time she has done this, infact she has done this a lot but I've over looked it. It really hurt this time and I think that will be the last time. Sigh......

She told my other friends(that are girls) that she liked me. They all suggested I should go after her. So I did, but nothing happened. Were supposed to hang out tomorrow so I guess I'll just see what happens then.... Thanks.

Lil bit of background...I met this girl back in August, I found out she liked me(more than a friend), I liked her (more than a friend), but nothing ever happened. I finally told her I liked her too....but for whatever reason, I got the I like you, but only as a friend responce. Ever since then she and I act the exact same around each other, but I never get a hug or any (non sexual) contact from her like I did before. So I had a GREAT night with this girl(tonight). We both had a lot of fun as a matter of fact, not just me. Its been a long time since I last did something with her so I was happy to see her. So long story short, she got out of my car, said she had a nice night, but I did not get a hug, just a goodbye and she told me she had fun. I dont know what to do here. I remember like the second time I ever talked to her she asked me for a "meaningful hug" because she has not gotten one in a long time and when she left my friends house one night I said goodbye to her and she was at her car but she ran back to give me a hug and said goodnight. So whats wrong here, all I want is a hug!!!!

Whoa, so many replies, stop people, I can't read them all at once!!!!

So I've noticed, but when I bring that up too, they get real defensive....Go figure.

So I've got a large group of friends for the first time in my life. But the two main girls in the group keep telling me how much they "love" me(frindship wise) but when another male good friend of mine comes by they COMPLTLEY ignore me, like all together. Its not like they want to date him at all. But it really hurts when they jump all over him for an hour and a half and when I get up and leave they think I'm being the jerk. They say things like how he is their favorite and how much they love him. Meanwhile I'm sitting less that than two feet away getting their feet in my face cause they are busy crawling all over him to see me. I cant say I'm jealous(well maybe) but its agravating that I become invisible to them when he(or others) are around, but when I'm there alone with them, its all good(sometimes). I got really pissed the last time this happened so I have not talked to either one of them for two days and I have been ignoring their calls and IMs. Its nice(yea right) how they are calling me a jack$%^ for not talking to them and ignoring them, but when I point out that they just use me as a tear soaked pillow, they FLIP out......What should I do???#-o

Digging up the dead I see... I dont talk to her anymore...No loss. Thanks anyways.

Use a heavier weight in your left arm. Also, at the end of you workout do maybe 4 sets of 4 reps with that same weight only in your left arm(or left side).

Quoted because its true and really really agravating.

Did you ever act interested twords him? If you didnt, he prob came to his senses and is trying to move on. If he is the one putting all the effort into it and you dont do much(making plans or IMing, or calling) then hes prob thinking why bother....