anitsirc

So there is this girl at school. I know that she likes me and I like her back. I often catch her looking at me when she thinks I can't see her. Whenever she enters the class, I am the first thing she looks at. But when she knows that I am looking at her she tends to look at other guys. Especially if she sees me turning my head to look at her, she will quickly shift her gaze and start looking at some guy. So is she playing a game, or does she just like all those guys? She never looks at the same guy, just the one in the best position for me to see her looking at someone else. Could she be doing this on purpose. Do girls do that to guys they like? Do they try to make a guy jealous by looking at other guys when he is watching them?

Well I didn't ask them.

Ok here's my problem: There is this girl. She liked me for about a year now, but I've just started to "notice" her recently. And we had this "thing" at our school and apparently I was supposed to ask her out. She really thought I was gonna go for it, and when I didn't she became really upset. But I didn't know that she was waiting for me to approach her. I guess she saw that I like her now, and thought that I was gona make a move. Now she's not like other girls I've met. She likes me ALOT, I don't think I've ever had anyone like me that much. I can see why she was upset. So a couple months later I decided to ask her out. I could see that she still likes me none the less. But when I asked her out, the unimaginable happened. She told me she had a boyfriend. I laughed a little inside. I am pretty sure that she doesn't have one. I mean first of all he doesn't go to our school, and she's only 15. I doubt she knows some one who lives far away. Second, she still keeps looking at me, but whenever I look at her she looks away. She looks at me when she thinks I can't see her, and I always catch her. It's as if she is playing hard to get. Why would she do that if she has a boyfriend? Her friends know about me. I would catch her glance at me, then say something to her firend, and her friend would look in my direction. And all in all I know her, and most all of my female friends are her friends. I didn't ask them ofcourse, but I doubt she has a boyfriend. It's like if you didn't know that one of your friends has a boy/girl friend. Now I understand that maybe I only see what I want to see. And maybe I reject the reality. If that's the case, and she does infact have a boyfriend, well nothing much to do here. But what if I am right, it is a possibility. I just want someone to help me figure her out, give me and insight into the female mind. COuld it be possible that she is doing this to hurt me? I mean she liked me for a long time, and I paid 0 attention, and I didn't ask her out when I was supposed to. Could it be that she is playing a game with me, maybe even torchering me?

You don't have to flirt with some1 to know that they like you. You can feel it. And she goes out of her way to look at me. Her pupils get large when she looks at me. And her eyes start to sraprkle, she smiles.

So I asked this girl out and she told me that she has a boyfriend. Now I know for sure that she doesn't have one. I wouldn't have asked her out if she had one. And I also know that she likes me alot. I didn't just ask some1 who rarely looks at me. I can see that she likes me in her eyes. So then why did she say she has a b/f? I'm thinking that maybe I came on too fast, or too sudden. When I was asking her out, she looked surprised, she didn't expect it. Also her friends were with her. Could it be that they had some influence on her? Or maybe she just isn't ready yet, and just needs some time. Either way, at least now she knows, and if she decides to change her mind, I'm there.

Just tell me what you like about guys. Their appearance, how they treat you etc.

I'm 15 and in grade 10. She is in grade 8. I don't know her at all. We just took the same bus after school a couple of times, cuz I was going to the mall with my friends and she with hers. We saw each other. I liked her, she liked me. We started looking at eachother. Then we started noticing eachother at school. We keep glancing at eachother alot in the caff. I've never talked to her. But I know that she really likes me alot. One time we were wlaking in the same direction after school but on the opposite sides of the street. We were walking at the same speed. So I could see her with the corner of my eye, but I had to turn my head to get a better look, and she was doing that too. Well while we were walking ( Also alot of girls like me, and one of her friends likes me for sure and there is this other girl with whom they are kinda friends. Her other friends look at me alot, I think they probably know that she likes me. Maybe knowing that her friend likes me she won't go out with me. She isn't her best friend, I rarely see them together, but they are often in a group of friends.

Hi, you might remember my previous post link removed = Well, I think now I understod that I do love her, and I can see that she likes me too. I think we were made for eachother. I am sure that she already knows how I feel, but I want to tell/show her myself. But I don't know how to do it. We are in deifferent grades. I don't have any friends that know her or her friends. So how do I approach her? I want to do it without coming on too hard. Like I can't just go up to her and tell her. She might think I'm weird. What can I do to show her how I feel? I really like her alot and I can't stop thinking about her, and from the looks of it she likes me alot too. I was thinking like when I catch her looking at me and we look into eachother's eyes for a while, I could like kiss the air, as if I'm kissing her.

1) It is probably because you are really in love with her. When you, constantly, daydream about having sex with a girl, she probably doesn't mean much to you. 2) Does she like you? If yes then she definitely thinks about you alot. maybe not 24/7 but alot. Chances are she only likes one or two guys link removed so probably she likes just one guy, you. What else will she do when she is bored? And even when she is very busy ur still on her mind.

Hi people. As you probably have noticed I have been posting lots of problems here for the past month, but I think I realized the source of all my problems. I am never happy or satisfied. I mean if u see me u will think that I am the happiest guy on earth, cuz I'm always smiling and laughing. My friends keep telling me that they've never seen me sad, I'm always happy. But deep down inside I am actually not so happy. The things that make me unhappy are so insignificant. When I think about my life, I should be the happiest guy alive, I am very lucky, girls like me, I get good marks at school without even trying. And still I can make the worst out of every situation. I don't know what to do. I think too much, when I keep thinking about something, I started thinking in the what-if format, and come the worst possible conclusion. I mean that may be useful when playing chess, or other logical games, but life isn't a game. They say fools are always smiling. Well they are smiling for a reason, they are enjoying life instead of analyzing it. How do I shut my brain up? I do not want to be smart, I just want to be happy. People with a low level of intelligence are always happy, and the best thing is they do not realize they aren't smart. I don't want to do drugs, so please don't suggest sniffing coke or something. I'm just wondering if anyone has mastered their brain enough to make it stop thinking. It's not a depression either. It's not like I'm always unhappy, there are days when I am happy, but those days don't last very long. If I am happy then soon I will be sad again.

Could it be that girls like older guys because women in general like to stay young? You will never see a women who purpously wrinkles her skin and folds lugage under her eyes. When a girl is with an older guy, anytime she feels like she is getting old, she can just look at her b/f and say "Well I'm not as old as that dufus." And now it just became an instinct for all women to like older guys.

She is the most beautiful girl in the world to me, or at least she was. I had a dream about her, I dream lots about her but this dream made me realize that she isn't the most beautiful girl in the world. I now see that there are other girls that are way prettier. I think before I what I saw in here was what I wanted to see. But now I see what is truly there. I still keep thinking about her, but alot less. There is a dance coming up at our school, and I wanted to ask her to go to the dance with me. But now I don't know what to do. I feel really awkward now. Cuz she thinks that I love her. Should I even go to the dance? What if she asks me to dance with her? It will crush her if I say no. She might think that I am an extremly shy moron who is scared of his own reflection in the mirror. I really think I should back away from her. If I start going out with her, eventually it will start to show that I don't really love her. How will she feel then? She will feel pretty bad now, I can't even imagine how she will feel then.

So there is this girl at school. She's always liked me, well actually shes only been going to my school for about a year now. So um she really likes me alot. And she really had a way of showing it. Like I knew right away that she liked me. I could tell by the way she looked at me, and how she wasnt able to take her eyes off of me. At first i didnt like her, i mean i wasnt attracted to her physicaly. But then after sometime, maybe around 4-6 months I noticed that she still likes me no less then she did before. And i started to want to like her back. I dont know why i wanted to like her back, maybe i felt sorry for her. So i started thinking about her. Seeing the look in her eyes when she looked at me made me feel good. And i believe that now i have grown to like her. But i keep thinking in the back of my head that u cant fool ur heart, and maybe i dont really like her, maybeits all just my imagination. I think so because i didnt fall in love with her at first sight. And i dont think i was ever going to fall for her. But those are all minor arguments which can be ignored. What really troubles me is that (now i that i think i like her) every time i look at her now, it doesnt make me feel good anymore. Instead it makes me feel worse. I feel bad inside, and i cant reallyu describe the feeling. But i just know that that isnt what u feel when ur in love. Now when i c her i become upset. I dont know why this is happening, she still likes me just as much. Now that she thinks that i like her she tries not to look at me as often, u know like she's trying to avoid getting caught. I still catch her alot. So i tried to "stop loving" her. but i cant, i just cant stop thinking about me. It's like half of me thinks that we belong together, sometimes i feel like she will always be there no matter what. But if i love her then why does it make me upset when i look at her. i think that maybe its my heart telling me that i do not love her, and i cant fool nature. I dont want her to get hurt. but the only person hurting right now is me. so what should i do? and what is this feeling im experiencing? thanks!

Alright, thanks for the replies. But why does every1 always say that I am lucky that she still likes me? If her love isn't worth a dime then she is the one who is lucky. When you love some1 u love them forever, you love them until you die, and even after. Well atleast that is how i feel. If she looses interest that quickly then she isn't worth it.

Hi, every1! Ok so here is my problem. At school there is this girl whom I've liked for a couple of months now. Now she just moved here before summer break, like a couple of months before. Well I really like her, and she really likes me back, or should I say liked me back. Before summer break, she would constantly look at me and I at her. When in the caffetorium she would keep looking at me. I noticed that she looked at me whenever she had a chance to do it with out me catching her. Also I think she told her friends about me too. Sometimes when I see her friends, they would smile at me. And sometimes when she is sitting with her friends talking, she would ask her friend something, then her friend would look at me and then look back at her and nod. Also I take the bus to school and back, and she would often go by the bus stop after school. And before school she would try to go by the bus stop at the same time as the bus comes. So um it doesn't take a genius to figure out that she likes me. Well I didn't want to approach her to quickly, I mean she just moved here. So i've decided to ask her after summer was over and when we go back to school (guess I'm a coward huh?). So anyways, now that school started I think she is trying to either avoid me or forget me. She rarely comes to dine at the caffetorium anymore. I never see her in the mourning, when the bus comes, and I never see her after school. Well actually I did see her one time at lunch, and that time she still looked at me as she did before. Whenever I see her in the hallway she does everything she used to do before. But yet she never comes with the bus anymore. I'm just woundering is she trying to forget me? Or is she playing hard to get? I got some advice on this from a very wise friend. He said something about some sort of a effect or phenomenon or something like that. In other words what he said is this; (now he hasn't talked to her and it's only his assumption) Before summer break she and I were really upset that we weren't going to see eachother for three whole months. And just those last couple of weeks of school she would try to come with the bus, and get as much chances to see me as much as possible. And you only remember the good things in life. So during the summer I only thought about those last few weeks, and now it seems like she was always like that. So what he is saying is that she hasn't really changed, it's just that I'm used to her looking at me like she will never see me again. And to be honest I can't really remember how she acted before. Those last couple of weeks seem to overflood my memory. While I'm thinking that she's either playin hard to get, or maybe she's forgotten me. But then again she still looks at me, and tries to avoid me catching her. She doesn't have a boyfriend. From what I see I'd say she still likes me. So um advice please. wow this is long. Thanks in advance.