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OK GUYS SORRY FOR ALWAYS WANTING HELP ON SAME SITUATION LOL Well i was out for the weekend for the memorial holiday.. the girl i like who i work with was at work friday and we hadnt talked tomuch befor that becuz she had just graduated and had been going to grad parties and requested off work for 3 days.. Anyways, she comes back friday and we talk and tell each other how our days were.. the whole time we were talking at work she was twirling her hair and what not constantly playing with her hair.. that was a first for her.. Anyways i decided to not talk to her the whole weekend 3-4 days and monday i text her saying whats up... she replys pretty quick and says nothing much just blah blah and asks how my trip to miami was.. i say good and what not then i say "we should see a movie some time this week" and some other stuff and she relies ya or food! and some other stuff she seemed a lil happy cuz she was saying lol alot and tried to be funny lol.. but my question is : I didnt exactly scedule a specific date with her.. and i dont want to be aggressive or come on to strong.. so i was thinking of calling her or texting her tomorrow saying "Wednesday at 7pm dinner and then mayb a movie and list the place where we will eat" just to be playful and demanding but in a joking way any other suddgestions? should i wait a lil longer to ask her to the date or what?? comments are really appreciated!!!

I have a question on this post.. say u think u came on to hard....... and then u act stand offish.. should uwait for her to come to u? or should u randomly be like hey whats up? and see how she responds? im in that situation.. its been about 3-4 days and we work together i have no texted her or called..last time we talked was friday and that was at work.

Well i mean this girl im talking about.. shes really confusing.. and she gives me good signs and bad signs.. The only thing i think i did wrong was being to clingy.. but that was only asking her out twice in 1 week, which to me isnt alot..but she has alot of friends and hangs out with them alot.. I call her but i notify her in advance with a text that i will be calling her that night and she will say ok blah blah blah but when i call her she is busy sometimes and i ask for her to call me back and she will say 'no, u call me back' or something like that.. shes asked me to lunch befor and and weve been to the movies and dinner a few times...and she has called me befor but thats only when i ask her... but other than that she is very strick on her rule of guy calling the girl.. we have had a long conversation on the phone for an hour one night.. but i mean what is to much? Im afraid she doesnt want me to ask her out anymore.. im just not sure! ugh

Hey guys, can the girls and guys too please list clear signs of playing hard to get, and just plain un interested.. As far as phone calls, and canceling dates and anything else u can think of.. Thank you, the help and advice is really appreciative.

I knwo it just really bugs me that i spent alot of time on her (3-4 months) i think she knew that she could get with me anytime and thats what made it bad, i should of been more resistant i guess.. lesson learned.. hopefuly after not talkin to her for awhile she will get the hint and mayb want back in dating again i dunno..

Well honestly i dont want things to die off.. i want her to realize what she wwants and i would love to go on more dates with her.. but its w/e she flirts alot with me and alot more things signaling shes into me..

Hey guys.. the girl i work with i went on a date with to the movies last wednesday and this week she tells me after school that she has alot of make up work to do for school and she cant do anything the whole week.. Well i put it as her blowing me off and trying to make an excuse, so i told her thast.. Anyways i told her i would call around 10, and i call her and 10 mins into the conversation she says "well im returning home so im going to go now" so i thot that was alot of bs.. So i text her saying wow thats great i call u to talk for 10 mins.. um no?? wow. and she replies bad. I dont like talking infront of my dad especially when i havnt seen him and it would be rude. Why you getting so worked up about it. Im sorry And i say: Im not i just kind of find it weird that u cant talk or go out with me all this week, i just want honestly are u trying to blow me off( Something like that but not exact at all) She replies sorry. Your taking it the wrong way. your cool to hang out with and everything its just im a bizzy complicated girl. lol we can stil hang out here and there just please dont get offended when i got things going on. I Dont want things to ever be awkward or bad between us. I mean we work together and i dont want our friendship to change.. I reply dont either and its hard cuz we work together.. really weird. and last thing i want is things to be awkward and im really not one to get mad but i get upset at times i think u look at things the wrong way for sure i ask to meet up together because i enjoy ur company and want to get to know u more but i dont get the opportunity much though, so i start to wonder ya know. She replies: Ya definatly lol. I just cant help it if i got other **** to do. i mean we hang out every day after school and every once n awhile even more. I get good laughs with u.. just please dont get upset or offended when i cant! If i didnt like your company i woudlnt meet you up or be explaining myself right now. well im pretty exhausted. soo seven eleven tom plzzz? *where we meet befor we go to work for 30 mins. I like this girl alot, but i mean its been along time since weve been 'friends' and i want to move on to more.. i dont want to just hang out once every week or two weeks at that.. and i definatly dont want to just be her friend.. so today at 711 i told her i dont want to meet up after school nemore, and this will be the last time we will be hanging out.. I dont know guys.. all my friends tell me to stop wasting time with her because she doenst know what she wants.. I really need advice. I was going to text her just now saying I dont know what it is with me i just came to the conclusion that i dont want to be ur ''friend'' i have enough female friends ,and they actualy hang w/ me alot.. I mean i may be weird and dont take it to offence at all. If u still dont want to hang thats cool but ya im kind of awkwardness lol.. but i just decided to wait for replies// Ive tried my hardest not to be clingy to her or needy.. I would just ask her out every other day during the week and she would say yes to places shes changed plans twice on me, and went on 1 date with me within 3 weeks.. i just dont want towaste any more time wth her... i want to move on or let her see the picture that i dont want to be her friend..

Hey, yesterday in the car befor work (we always meet up befor we go to work for 30 mins) we talked about stuff and i brought up the next date.. I said so next week when are u available.. She said she doesnt know at the momment and she has alot of math work to do and she said she doesnt want to give me a date and her not be able to go again.. So i mean next week sometime i guess, i have no money now so i dont know what to do as a date haha... ALso this saturday is prom for her and she is going with her exp boyfriend which they are friends but they broke up 3 weeks ago.. We will see how that goes

Well me and my co worker went on the first date sorta, weve met up at differnt places befor, but we went to see a movie for once so i consider it a date... During the movie I would make comments about certain parts and she would giggle, she liked the movie alot as well. During the movie i also noticed her legs were slanted opposite direction of me on the chairs and she was kinda leaned towards me more, our shoulders were touching each other alot, i dont know if thats good or bad. But I did notice she would copy some of my movements hehe, i would put my hand on my chin to rest it, or i would cross my arms and she would semi mimic the positions after i did them. I didnt ask her on another date that night, nor did i make any moves.. I really dont know if i should wait befor asking her out again, or ask her tomorrow befor work if she would like to meet up again some time? Im not sure.. Comments and advice would be greatly appreciated

So i called her at 9:15 and no answer at first.. then she called back 20 mins later and we talked for about 15-20 mins and laughed and joked around. Then she said she was just about to walk inside ( she had been driving back from herfriends) her house and talk to her mom and talk about prom and she would call back after.. Well she didnt call back and at 11:00pm i got a 3 page text from her saying how she didnt forget to call back and some othr stuff but she was real busy and had to prepare for her award ceremony tomrow and good night.. Ok i dont know what to do haha we are supposta go to the mall wednesday but why wouldnt she call back when she said she would.. Um wow go figure hah

Hey we scheduled a date for wednes day, cuz she told me she was free wednesday and thursday... Anyways today we talked about it, and she said "the guy is the one who is supposta call the girl" And i said "Who made that theory up" she said thats just the way ive been.. So im thinking she is interested she just wants me to do the calling.. today after work i said to call me kidding around and she was like "nope" and i said fine when is a good time to call u, she said i dont know when eve.. i said give me a time estimate, she said 8:30 .. after she said that i said "good cuz im still not calling haha" but i think im going to call her tonight around 9 ish..

Hey girls, if a guy that you like asks you to call them that night because you two didnt hang out that night, would you say "no you call me" or would you go ahead and call.. Im in that situation. Thursday night i asked a girl im interested in to call me that night so we could talk or what ever, she replies "no you call me" and i said no, "how bout you call me" and we went back n forth joking around, well i told her i wasnt going to call, she said she wasnt either and she said she doesnt call people.. could she just be very subtle? or does she not want to call because she is uninterested? Im not sure. Opinions would be appreciated

The job thing is no biggy. Its a part time job at a day care, and when i graduate im going to the service.. so i mean im not going to be working there longer than a year from now.. Our job is small, our boss's are couples as well..

Also i sent her a text last nigth when i called her cuz she said to call her tomorrow.. i said in the text "why should i bother to call u tom when u say no when i ask u to go places sometimes" and sum other stuff she replied saying "wow um ok later" (we joke saying um ok later to each other alot kind of an inside joke thing) and i texted her back saying K great cant wait for u to call tomorrow! good night! ttyl! and she replied " your mean "

Hey girls.. This girl and i work together and we talk every day and sometimes after work we go and chill and eat for a few hours.. Anyways, attraction has been building up between me and her, but im jsut not absolutely sure she likes me.. she is very subtle i think... We talk in my car befor we go to work and she tells me about her stress adn her problems and what not.. she flirts at work alot of touchy feely stuff lately.. But im always the one asking her to chill after work usualy (shes asked once or twice) My big question is that she refuses to call almost.. i keep telling her to call me that night and she just says "no u call me" and i will say "No you call me" Is it weird for a girl to be like this?? why?? I dont want to be the one chasing her and calling her all the time ya know?