justwonderingkid

i asked this girl i really like if she wanted to do anything this weekend and she said that she was very busy this weekend and was sorry, is she just trying to not hurt my feelings or do i still have a shot

give me examples of what body language

thing is im not shure if she is just being playful or does she somewhat like me

books will never be completely accurate because all girls/women are all different, like different things, and whoever writes the book could have the perfect way to get together with some certain types of people but may not work with others, thereforeeee books are almost pointless to me because the stuff that is 100% true with all girls/women is going to be obvious , being nice, good manners, funny, etc...i hope this helps

there is this girl i really like and we are like sorta flirty already i guess but what obvious(but not REALLY obvious) things can i do to show her that im intrested without really say anything just so that she knows and then how do i know if she likes me back

so then how can i know later if we are bf gf or just close friends, do i ask her to be my gf??

its just so hard for me to just pop up the question because normally im ok talking with her and stuff but when it comes to asking her out and to dance i just get really nervous

her friend asks me if i think that she(the girl i like) is cute and i always say sure

well she sometimes will say oh yes im madly in love with you haha just kidding but most of the time its just stuff in general about me

there is this girl i really like and she is sorta popular too but she has never had a bf and she asks me to carry her book for her like everyday for one passing period and she says alot of stuff and replies just kidding alot, and well how to know if she likes me or not (F.Y.I. sadies is like in 2 days and i know she wont ask me unless i speak up about having feelings for her because as far as i know right now she isnt going and this is the last dance of the year for us freshmen) please give me advice on what to do

haha thanks and yeah i do really like her

ok well here is the situation me an my gf - im 14 she is 13, im in high school(fresh) she is an 8th grader..jr high..so we go to different schools and we dont get to see each other much..the big problem is, her parents dont let her do anything i mean like she cant even go to a movie unless its rated G and only her best friends are there with her, probally the biggest "freedom" she has had in a long time is being able to study at the library with her friends...so what should i do to be able to see her more often?

well like...ok maybe you dont understand like TRUE asian parents eh i know some asian parents who wont even let thier daughters TALK to guys i mean its very crazy, she hasnt asked her parents if its ok to be with me because she is afraid they will say no, and well i know my parents are ok with it because they know and yeah...

well im in 9th grade and i am sorta going out with someone in 8th grade but we go to different schools (jr high/high school) and she doesnt know but she thinks her parents wont let her see guys..and i barely get to see her and we both miss each other alot, we talk on aim and email and phone whenever we can but maybe the question im really asking here is what can she ask/say to her parents so her parents wouldnt mind us seeing each other

in answer to espirit yeah its sorta mean but i was hoping she would ditch him for me its just that she barely sees him at all and i think that maybe i should show her that i would maybe be a better bf than he could be and well the biggest problem is no matter what i do i cant get her out of my head..i start looking for other people but no one else comes close to what i see in her...because rite now she is trying to make a long distance relationship work...and well i would think she mite rather have someone she could frequently see

this girl i really like is going out with this other guy who goes to another school which is like 20 miles away and they see each other like maybe once every two weeks..and well we have become pretty good friends..and im starting to like her alot..i think about her all the time and i guess the question i really am asking is how would i be able to ask her out..what should i tell her..not trying to sound rude towards her bf or anything..just what can i do or say

ok im going to actually use names so its easier to describe everything *sigh* ok im going out with rachel and im starting to like her best friend alice..and she is going out with eric..the thing is that eric is from out of town and they see each other like once yer twice a week and alot of the people here dont like him anyways..and i guess everyday i talk to alice so much and we have so much in common and everything that i start thinking of rachel as more as a friend everyday and alice more as a gf everyday and i really dont know wat to do because...well i just dont *sigh*

well ive been going out with this girl for about..2 months but while i was getting to know her..i also met her best friend..her best friend already has a bf but i cant help but like her..even though she is going out with someone... i keep wondering that maybe she likes me and not her bf because we have loads of fun together...flirt alot (one of our teachers even commented on it once) and im not shure what to do..help please

lol girl take a chill pill! dont worry if he likes you first...become a great friend with him and share your sadness and happiness with him and after getting to know you, you will see a change in his online activity too! it also depends on how much he likes you, if he is crazy about you then wen he is at the computer he will message you like crazy, if he likes you sorta he may not message you and only talk if he has time or if you message him first, but if you want to find out on msn and he isnt away message him and if he messages you back rite away and you talk for hours or so then he prolly likes you, if on the other hand he doesnt message you rite away that doesnt mean he doesnt like you because i leave my aim on without away message wen i leave my computer so you never know! just make the first move and see his reactions

if she likes you enough she will break up with her bf and that is pretty much your cue to ask her out but until that happens you just be a good friend to her because to be a good boyfriend you first have to be an even better friend

if you think about it...yer a junior in high school (i think) you have less than 2 years left! make it the best 2 years you've ever had...sounds like she likes you to me! ask her! what do you have to lose? if you ask her and she says no you are where you were already but if she says yes then you would be one happy guy! there isnt reeli much to lose..wow haha i reeli should follow my own advice..i understand its hard for you to tell her...and if its too hard tell her on the phone..but not on aim or something like that...if she can hear your voice asking her out and telling her how you feel that will make a big difference..even mroe difference if you are there in person staring into her eyes...start off a conversation: you: hey her: hi you: there is something i really have to tell you her: yes? you: *look directly into her eyes* i just couldnt keep this to myself forever...i care about you alot...more than just a friend..i love you *say her name* referring her with her name is a sign of respect and you want to show you respect her alot look into her eyes say her name....its hard to explain..but when you are about to ask her...your heart will guide you in the right direction...i hope this has been some help

man its sorta hard for me to ask her because i feel like i'd be asking out my best friend and if she didnt say yes we might not be as close friends as we are now *sigh* but im taking advice from what ppl post on yours also

hm my opinion is try meeting someone else because you dont want to be addicted to her and never have her...that is probally the worst feeling you can ever have...to not be able to have wat you want after waiting for such a long time..

wow im in the exact situation right now...man i wish i could help in some way but i actually clicked on your topic because this topic is quite common among other ppl i think...well i think yer in the EXACT same as me...they like us but we dont think so... but if she reeli is a good friend..ask her out! she will notice the feelings for her that you have and will probally be touched...and if she likes to be around you all the time then that is a big clue to me...i hope i helped in some way..but i know how you feel its hard...but no one ever said life was easy!

ok...ill start with basic information..im 14 freshmen in high school..and so is the girl i like..well everyday in pe i flirt with her and she seems to flirt back i guess...well wen we line up against the wall i always rest my head on her shoulders...and she usually doesnt do anything but today she rested her head on my shoulder before i did and well i notice small things like that i guess but then like every 15 minutes the class goes back to the center of the room and sits down and everytime she sat next to me and we would rest on each other...and i guess she might like me but she is going out with this other guy...so should i ask her out anyway? or wait? or how do i reeli find out if its ME she likes and not him?