Lonely_Soul

I personally think you need to talk to someone with a degree.. because its a delicate issue... lonely Soul

thanks for ur advice evepm i saw my ex at school today.. and.. he walked straight past me like i wasnt there.. i nearly died..why do guys like to play around wiht girls? Lonely Soul

people tend to i guess go back in their shell once they break up with someone... like just becuase she broke up with you doesnt mean she is completely over you.. maybe she is trying to get over you and having you around doesnt make it any better i know when i broke up wiht my ex i tried everythign to avoid him even though i didnt want to break up with him.. but i thought it was better being the dumpee not the dumper... i guess if she is mature enough to be friends then she will come around.. or she is not saying nething incase she feels you will fall for her again.. or make the fire burn stronger? neways.. i hope i helped Love Lonely Soul

Ahhh has you have probably read before.. about my ex.. and yes this post wil yet still be about him.. I was jsut talking to him.. and he was saying how he regrets us breaking up and that he still loves me.. and that he still finds me attractive.. and we are going to the movies on saturday... and.. well he knows I have a boyfriend and so do i.. yet i still feel for him soo badly.. I still.. kind of.. really feel for him.. I know its nearly been a year.. well its been ten months since we first started to go out.. after we broke up we didnt talk at all.. he started to hang around the stoners at school.. and i lost touch with him.. and lately now we have been talking lots and I still talk to hes sister lots.. hes sister i soo differetn from him.. and.. i dont know what I should do.. should i go for the old flame which hurt me lots.. or stay wtih my new guy w ho never is there so i can talk to him and is awlays "busy" and i only see him for like ahlf an hour a week.. yet.. Ahh PLEASE HELP!!!!!

*note people that have read a previous post my me.. this is a different guy* My ex who we shall call N.. him and i were together for 2 months and everything was prefect.. ( even the 1293239487123 fone calls a nite ) and then he got to know these druggies.. and started hanging around with them and broke up with me because i wasnt cool enough.. and I didnt do drugs. and a few months later he comes back to me and says do i want casual.. and.. i was ok with it at first. .thinking ok we so can have a causal conversation ( i still felt for him at the time as well which kind of sucked ) and then i walk past him at skool and he just wont say hi.. he will look and look away. .even if its jsut him and i walking down the hall. I saw him once in wollies ( a super marker in australia ) with the guy that broke us up ( i was wtih a friend of mine ) and she said hi to them n stuff and we were being poliet and talking.. and he wouild no look or say a word to me.. yet he still talks to me on msn saying how he wants to get with me n stuff.. i dotn know if i should go with him and keep it a secret.. or should just tell him to go away..?

U have every right to hate her.. she lied to you over and over again and its unforgiveable especially with the things she said.. but you have to realise.. you deserve better then her..

I dont think there is any way you can get over her with quickly.. emotions arent like a TV where you can switch them on and off.. and being with her for so long an living with her its going to be soo painful.. but you have to keep urself healthy and eating and doing the things you would normally do to keep ur mind off whats happened.. I guess with in time you will understand why it happened and learn from it.. becuase everything happens for a reason.. but with some people poetry.. or writing songs can release the pain.. writing how you miss her.. but i guess you have to close the door and bring back ur diginity... i hope it helped.. ive never lived with nething that ive felt for.. but yeh.. lots of pop break up music.. or heavy metal!!!

I dont know... I think they kiss the same way or osmething.. when i thought of him i was like

Well my ex hasnt had a step dad.. not that I know of.. hes got an older sister.. who is like GOLD.. shes awesome her and I get along.. but .... hes changed... hahaa.. and now im ment to be with a new guy.. but when i was kissing him yesterday I thought of my ex.... thats really bad

Ive just come back from being out with my new boyfriend.. Things feel right.. but One time wen we were kissing. I was htinking about my ex... HP- Craft.. yeh thats exactly whats happened to him.. but i dont think i can change who he is.. because he prefer getting stoned and injuring himself and hes friends like burning each other with lighters....

Ive been through exactly the same thing as you are going through.. yeh i have depression too.. i used to cut.. but I went and saw someoen about it.. and she asked me.. and im asking you at this same time.. why punish urself for something you havent done? are you seeing someone about ur depression.. if not.. you really want to go see someone.. its something really good.. .its the best thing ive done.. and oyu may think that therpay is for losers.. but the people who say that.. are the ones who are afraid to open up and let themselves be happy again...

yeh i know they change.. but when im with him.. i see a totally different person in him.. like a light.. I know hes craving for a male figure in hes life... hes dad died when he was young.. it just hurts to see him go down this lane.. because hes soo much better then going off and getting stoned every weekend.. and skipping school..

Hi Im New to this board.. I came accross in a Google Search. Umm.. I was with the most perfect guy you could ever ream of having.. he was not only sweet, he cared about me, how we were, if ever i was down he tried to cheer me up.. Until he met this other guy who is a druggie.. and.. he turned my ex into a druggie.. Everything was so perfect.. Him and I.. everyone said we were a cute couple... We were in a river cruse and he was singing the words to KC and Jo Jo in my ear.. when we were on the deck i was freezing cold ( wearing a skirt ) he gave me hes jumper to wear.. but then after "HE" came along.. i lost the guy of my dreams.. but we have gotten with each other at parties n stuff.. yet I cant seem to get over him.. and I saw him last night with "HE"... How do I get over him.. I want him back though...