angrybeaver

well my first 6 month anniversary is around the corner with the girl of my dreams and i was just looking for some ideas to make it as special and memorable as possible and stand out from the many more anniversarieswe hope to come. Any suggestions are welcome keep in mind it is on a tuesday night and we both have to work in the morning lol so nothing to to elaborate.

1/2- the signs wont appear for a few weeks maybe 2 that is when you can take the test 3- there will be no signs by the time you have take the morning after pill by 4- there has to be cum in side of you ie."vagina" so if he did not cum there or just before he put it in there is very little chance of you begin pregnant and 5"my own" if you are planning on having sex at all i would suggest you go talk to your doctor and get on the pill and use condoms. besides have have fun but stay safe.

Truthfully i think that dreams can mean something not 100% sure if all of them do or not some are just flights of imagination but i do know some do. The tricky thing with dreams is trying to read/understand them. Some dreams that seem to have a very obvious in meaning can mean something completely different. as for your situation, it is great you guys can share your dreams so openly with each other. However you should also be open to share your feelings openly and if his "certain" dreams are bothering you should say something. Dreams are an escape from reality and are not for one to control. I personaly love my girlfriend to death however i have and do dream about other women on occasion so do most guys it is just the way of things.... but that does not change how i feel or act in real life towards her in real life and never will. So i would not worry to to much about it and just tell him that you love sharing you dreams with him it is just that the idea of him with another women is making you uncomfortable. I am pretty sure at one time or another you have dreamed up the "perfect guy" or a movie star and had some fun and that is what dreams are for

well might aswell start at the beginning.........i met this girl online a few months ago and well we hit it off from day 1.......we started seeing each other after about a week of talking online everything has just come so easily between us........we have alot of the same likes, dislikes, intrests/hobbies........the same sense of humour, we always has stuff to talk about, the same religious beliefs, political views, same goals ect.........everything between us has just seemed to click. heck we have already went away on vacation together. now to my issue... i have never really been in a relationship before and well she has.....she lived with her last bf for 4 years......also taking into account she is 3 years older then i am 21 and she is 24 "which i can live with". however the relationship has gotten very serious very fast to the point we have even started talking about getting a place together in the near future. and us making plans for like 2010.......the thing is i can see my self with her doing all of these things with her and loving every moment of them it is just that i dont know exactly what i am feeling........we say we love each other........which i do care about her alot and would never want to see her get hurt and would do anything for her but i dont know if it is "love" since i have never experienced anything close to this at all. in her past she has got messed around alot by guys and has been in councling and such.......i just dont want to lead her on by saying i love you and making all of these plans to be together forever and then sticking around just because i dont want to hurt her. so yeah........i am not sure if there is a question in there but comments are welcome

okay well i met this girl about a week ago and we really hit it off which is great!......and well i am still a virgin and have not really done alot of "Stuff" per say but last night we were fooling around for a couple hours and well lets just say i was very hard for most if not all of that time.......then it got to the point were i was getting a blow job / head and OMG it felt amazing! i had never felt anything like that before even when masterbating.......but nothing, i could not have an orgasm and eventualy it just went soft this was after a GOOOD while of trying and it being hard alllll night......most times when i masterbate it comes out pretty quickly but last night it did not come out at all and i dont know why..........and now i feel really because the head felt amazing and hell i still feel it all tingly and down my legs........and i dont want her to feel bad like she did something wrong or i did not like it because she did a GREAT job! any suggestions or comments would be great!

well okay might aswell do some history..........met this girl online.......we had alot in common and seemed to click.....first time we met we went to a concert which was about 2 weeks ago.........and well seem to click even more...........holding hands and what not then we have seen each other 3 or 4 times and progressivle got closer "however she is pretty shy"..........this sat she called me at work during her break because she was having a bad day so i went up and we walked around for a bit and it was great!.............later that day her msn name was all lovey dovey and well basically asked me to a dance at my school and was flirty as hell.......of course i i accepted and we made plans to go............we have conflicting time scheduals between work and school so it is hard to see each other.........so for the past 2 days we have not talked then she comes we talk for bit.....and well her cousin has been having problems and is coming to live whith her.....which is the day of the dance and says online and her msn name is when i am alone i feel so much better and when i am around you i dont feel.........which are lyrics to an avril song "together" link removed and reading them well dont give me much hope......if you read them you will see why........ so yeah lol just overly confused and not sure whats going on. any suggestions or ideas?

okay well long story shot i met this girl online and i like her alot..we have been out 3 times and everytime had a blast........ we talk basically everynight on msn "late at night" and so on but our schedules just dont seem to mix...... between school and work its like and so we dont get to see each other very offten . basically once a week or so...........our last date was this pased tuesday and now the next time we can meet up is next friday so looking for any ideas people might have to make this "thing" work

just looking for some good ideas on a first kisses ie, situation, location, what the other person did ect.

hey guy/gals i am just looking for some new ideas when it comes to holding hands/each other when walking. Dont get me wrong the good old fashioned hand in hand is great lol but just to change stuff up a bit and make it more interesting

okay well i met this girl online and we hit it off really well sooooo much incommon then last night we went to a concert and well seemed to hit it off aswell lol but she is pretty shy and hard to read and i am not sure how forward to be for our second movie date........like we held hands and stuff but i dont want to scare her and i dont want to go to slow to make her not think i am interested...so yeah any tips, comments or ideas are more then welcome

lol well she most certainly does last night went very well if i do say so myself and there are plans in thw works for going to the movies on tuesday lol so thx again for all your help

hahahaha lol yeah i should not have said "first date" but in general never sure when to do thoes things lol and thx for the help

hahahaha lol yeah i know it is very true you never know unless you go for it. I just never know when to go for it lol and well what to go for......lol well i "know what to go for " lol but like on a first date say.......i never know if i should go for or when i should go for her hand........hold her........kiss her........ect lol YEAH for awkwardness

hahahahaha lol that sounds all to familiar lol so the next question is how to be more aggressive without being overly aggressive?

a little history first........i dont think i have technicly ever had a gf sad i know lol, yes i have went out on dates and what not but they have been for only like 2 or 3 times.....then we just kinda become friends.....story of my life....basically all the girls i have really liked in my life have become good friends instead of gf's.......and i just dont know why. One of my thoughts is that i just dont know how to be a bf only a guy friend. i have been talking to this girl online and tomorrow me/her and a bunch of friends are going to a concert........so basically i am just looking for some tips from people on how to end this cycle of just friends.

lol okay.....first a little history...i was bored one day so i was searching msn profiles....i came accross this one that was well GREAt it looked like we had sooo much in common...but it had a funny cartoon pic lol.....and no actual pic of her....so i email her and asks if she wants to chat...she said yes and well it is almost scary how much we have in common and it turns out she is like a big nerd like me lol and loves the same online roleplaying game as me and like web design and stuff......lol.....sooooo we start talking and plan to meet tomorrow with a bunch of friends to play pool or something and maybe just us go see a movie later.......the thing is i have never seen a pic of her....so me and my friend went to her work today"a fast food joint" and well i am pretty sure i saw her and well OMFG she is hot!!!!!!!! nothing what i expected at all we did not talk i dont know if she saw me she was working in the back but DAMN....now i am all nervous about tomorrow because well i am not horrible looking i am soooo not in that league.......also now i am thinking about age difference...which is not to to bad lol i am just 2 years older but still......so my question is i guess WTF should i do! lol any help....guys/girls welcome

question.....just looking for some points of view on kissing on the first date....good idea or bad? mainly from fairer sex but all comments welcome.

i know this is a hard one to answer but just looking for some females opinons on the subject..........is it better for the guy to take the initiative on the first date to hold hands or to put his arm around a girl or should the girl lol.....and if the guy should are their certian signs to look for.........i know it depends on the girl......personaly i have experienced both. sometimes a girl would just grab my hand and so on........and sometimes i would go for hers....."with mixed results" they would either go with it, or get uncomfortable and then it makes the rest of the date "weird" lol. i will admit i suck at reading girls so just looking for tips/opinons from the fairer sex

basilcy just a question on meeting people/flirting edicate in different places. First off say at school: college/university you see a person you you would like to meet: just walk up to her and start talking? accidently bump into her? other? "and what if with friends?" Bar: just walk up and say hi can i join you? wanna dance? "even thought i suck at dancing" other? at work: ask for number? or ask out?

thanks for the advice i think i might just try it.....but the thing is sometimes i am 100% sure just friends but then sometimes....i get the feeling there is more... she has never said just friends per say but that "relationships between friends is not a good thing". Sooooo basically the same lol. However i am getting sick and tired of putting myself through that so i am going to close it and try to put it behind me. lol but maybe leave a crack open lol anywho i will ask some of my female friends what hey think about setting me up lol and thx again for the help

if only it was so easy... lol the one i really like we go out ALL the time and hang out all the time and play fight ect.....but she has made it clear she just wants to be FRIENDS!

Okay here it is people...... i need all the advice i can get. I dont have any problem making FRIENDS that HAPPEN to be GIRLS.....but girl friends is a different story altogether........it seems that all the girls i know i either A. dont have any intrest in or B. are just friends.......which sucks because there are 2 that i really like .....anywho i have accepted we are just friends and have moved on.........kinda lol. It is just starting to really get to me grrrrrrr. yes having friends is nice and all well and good but well, you know lol okay so basically my question what is the trick to or what am i missing to go from either friend that is a girl, to "girl friend" or to stop a girl from becoming "just friends".

okay well i have never been much of a "bar" person and well all the girls that i know are either my friends or i have no intrest in dating........so i am just wondering some good ways to broden my horizons so to speak lol.

i have been doing alot of thinking recently......and i am pretty sure i will just stick with just friends.......at least for now. i guess you could call it the wait and see aproach. however i am not going to put my life on hold just waiting around if another oppertunity comes along i will take it......not just to make her feel jelous that would not be fair to anyone involved. i dont know if i will ever fully get over her but who knows if the planets align in just the right way there may be a "we" but as of right now i am content with being good friends and dont want to risk that. thanks for everyones imput it has helped me sort alot of stuff out.

i have a feeling i already know what the answer is =(......i have known her for about 2 years.....we go to the movies together all the time, sometimes to the bar or something but mainly just hang out......she is very easy to get along with funny and a dumb sense of humour like me lol......i donno when she went to go get her nose peirced she called me.....to go with her....i donno we are just good friends......i would hate to ruin that and i would rather be her friend then nothing at all......but it is hard just not knowing =S