Hey hun, looks like uve got urself into a bit of a mess..but when things get tough in our life and we are searching for something or someone..we can tend to get off track and resort to drugs, sex and alcohol..and all sorts of things. Firstly..you need to go to a local doctor and discuss things that will help you with your baby. I understand that your mum does not like the boy who got you pregnant, but she is trying to look after you. But she also needs to understand that it takes to people to have sex..thereforeeeeeee she cant blame it all on him. It is a VERY good sign of responsibility that the father of your baby is wanting to see the baby and you. But you have to marry for the right reasons..not just because of the baby. Sit down and talk to your mum and discuss what options you have for your future. Keep at school and dont give up. Goodluck sweety