HurleyBabe6917 Posted November 20, 2006 Share Posted November 20, 2006 So, there's this thing called "LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT." Do you believe in it? Link to comment
MetallicAguy Posted November 20, 2006 Share Posted November 20, 2006 No. I don't believe that you fall in love on sight, but I believe that you can look at someone and believe that you'll have a "future" like a year down the road with that person if you pursue, and it can build up to that. So I guess that counts? Wow, I feel stupid haha. Link to comment
AwdreeHpburn Posted November 20, 2006 Share Posted November 20, 2006 Sort of - But I think it's closer to lust than love personally.... Link to comment
quietgrl Posted November 20, 2006 Share Posted November 20, 2006 Hmm i don't know but i hope soo Link to comment
HurleyBabe6917 Posted November 20, 2006 Author Share Posted November 20, 2006 Sort of - But I think it's closer to lust than love personally.... yeah I agree. You can't fall in love with someone the second their face/body meets your eyes. Love takes a while. I just doesn't work like that. Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted November 20, 2006 Share Posted November 20, 2006 I think it is more of an attraction at first sight. Once you get to know the person, that attraction can turn into love. Hoping that will one day happen to me. Link to comment
iwishiknew Posted November 20, 2006 Share Posted November 20, 2006 I kind of believe in it..Hurleybabe where in Michigan are you at? I used to live in Michigan for 8 months until I got laid off Link to comment
Baby Carrot Posted November 20, 2006 Share Posted November 20, 2006 No. There are other things called "unicorns" and "faeries" and they´re pretty cute, but ya know, they don´t exist either. Plus I think the so called "love at first sight" is so OUT by now, maybe it worked well in silly movies and songs in the 80's but now? I don´t think so. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted November 20, 2006 Share Posted November 20, 2006 Sure it can but it takes time to get to know whether the love feelings translate into a healthy long lasting relationship. Link to comment
madcar52 Posted November 20, 2006 Share Posted November 20, 2006 The first time I laid eyes on my perfect man...I was 17 years old...I saw him and said to my girlfriend I was going to marry him...no I didn't stalk him:0) We were friends in HS and now have been together 10 years. I believe in love at first sight...I am such a romantic! Link to comment
AwdreeHpburn Posted November 20, 2006 Share Posted November 20, 2006 madcar - that is a sweet story. And I believe in those stories more in the sense of proof of determination than love BUT I digress. Your avatar creeps me out so I concede to you..... (I'm kidding of course) Link to comment
Slagar Posted November 20, 2006 Share Posted November 20, 2006 Myself and one of my exe's fell in love at first sight. Our relationship lasted nearly two years. Looking back, I can't believe we stayed together that long tbh lol. Link to comment
smilelikeyoumeanit Posted November 20, 2006 Share Posted November 20, 2006 I believe in love at first sight. Some may aruge that it's lust or an attraction, but it's more then that. It's that single instant when you look into someone's eyes, you see past their outward appearance and you know, you just know, that you were ment to be together. It's more then a longing or a wanting. It's when you look into them and find something inside which you know belongs to you. It's love. Link to comment
Agathon Posted November 20, 2006 Share Posted November 20, 2006 I don't believe it in one bit. Relationships and love are an experience, and take alot of time and effort on both parts to make it work... unless you keep it simple. Here's the kicker. My current and only relationship started with the "love at first sight" feelings. Took 2 years of glances in the halls, a year of friendship, but now we've been together for about 6 months. I don't think there is an answer, I don't believe in fate either, but I also believe that played a part. Gosh none of that makes sense... but it's true. Link to comment
Shadows Light Posted November 20, 2006 Share Posted November 20, 2006 I believe in the Attraction at first sight. Lust at first sight.... but Love??? dunno. Am trying to redefine what "LOVE" really is at this point in my life.... so I can't say that I truly buy Love at first sight. Link to comment
strwberryshortcke Posted November 20, 2006 Share Posted November 20, 2006 No, it's logical that love takes time... I've been in many predicaments where I fall totally head over heals for a guy...I become absoultly smitten. This is simply infatuation, a strong one. If I have the hots for someone it can last a very, very long time. This provokes me to have feelings of jealousy, possessiveness, and even hostility. This doesn't mean it's love though because it's natural for somebody to feel protective toward someone they feel extremely attracted too. I like to be in control, and when I finally loose that control... I'll know it's more than a feeling. Link to comment
HurleyBabe6917 Posted November 21, 2006 Author Share Posted November 21, 2006 I kind of believe in it..Hurleybabe where in Michigan are you at? I used to live in Michigan for 8 months until I got laid off I live in Brooklyn Michigan. No one knows where that's at because, well, lets just say it's so small I dare you to find it on the map. It's only got two stoplights in it. But, as a way to give you an idea of where it is, it's the home of MIS [ for all you NASCAR fans that's MICHIGAN INTERNATIONAL SPEEDWAY .] MIS is like 5 miles from my house [right in Brookyln]. I work there in the summers and can hear the cars at my house while they're racing. Link to comment
HurleyBabe6917 Posted November 21, 2006 Author Share Posted November 21, 2006 The first time I laid eyes on my perfect man...I was 17 years old...I saw him and said to my girlfriend I was going to marry him...no I didn't stalk him:0) We were friends in HS and now have been together 10 years. I believe in love at first sight...I am such a romantic! aww. that's really cute. and yeah, i agree with the other person, your avatar scares me too. lol [don't take that offensively. it's a creepy picture. lol ] Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted November 21, 2006 Share Posted November 21, 2006 I don't know if I believe in "love at first sight" but I know the night I met my b/f-when we looked at eachother for the first time, it was literally like time stopped and everyone else disappeared. I believe that people "grow" in love, not "fall" in love. Link to comment
charley Posted November 22, 2006 Share Posted November 22, 2006 How can there be such a thing as love at first site? Lust at first site for sure. But love requires an attachment and appreciation for the person's personality. That takes time together. Anyhow, that's my opinion and I'm stickin to it. Link to comment
sighs Posted November 22, 2006 Share Posted November 22, 2006 well, what is love? really? i'd like to believe there is, but then again i think it's often confussed with "lust at first sight" because (this coming from someone who's never felt love before) I believe love is something that develps with time... it's lust that is the first attraction.... that said the feeling for lust/love at first sight is very true, iv felt it... Link to comment
HurleyBabe6917 Posted November 23, 2006 Author Share Posted November 23, 2006 How can there be such a thing as love at first site? Lust at first site for sure. But love requires an attachment and appreciation for the person's personality. That takes time together. Anyhow, that's my opinion and I'm stickin to it. true dat. lol Link to comment
AnotherBrokenDoll Posted November 23, 2006 Share Posted November 23, 2006 I beieve in it... But in rare cases. Like i don't believe everyone who says they experience it does. But i still think its out there. Maybe, not "love" at first sight but knowing that you will fall in love maybe... I'm confused lol! Link to comment
nomoretears4uboo Posted November 24, 2006 Share Posted November 24, 2006 How about love at first sight again? I say this because, I used to work with this guy. I had a bf at that time and he had a gf but I thought he was hot. We both left that work place. More than a year a later, we find each other thanks to myspace. Then we hung one day, it was love at first, seeing each other again. It was the most amazing thing EVER!! We both feel the same way about that day. he was the one who said that, to me right as I was thinking it.We werent complete strangers. But, we did work together and had a few conversations. It turns out he had a crush on me when we worked together and always kept wondering what happen to me. So since there were some feeling before. That's why I said, love at first sight again? Do I make sense? Link to comment
HurleyBabe6917 Posted November 24, 2006 Author Share Posted November 24, 2006 yes. you make sense. cute story. Link to comment
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