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ok, to cut a long story short, there is this guy who has been keen on me for awhile now, i'd say give or take a year, anyway, we have been in my opinion 'good friends' you know texting eachother every so often, the usual... I decided not to make a big thing about the under lying fact that i knew he kind of liked me because i thought he would never act on it or anything (as he's really shy and because that is how it has been for ages, even with all my suttle hints that i'm NOT interested and that i only like him as a friend). well, anyway, this is where my problem comes in, today while i was at work,he texted me saying hes going to give me a christmas present... (he often visits me at work, i just though it was cute that he visits, until today that it) i was alittle taken back by this, but it didn't really worry me, i was thinking chocolates or something small like that... but NO! he come's into work, and infront of all my work mates gives me this huge bouque (??) of red roses! i mean what is this? talk about telling everyone what he honestly thinks, and now, to make it worse, its even harder to say no!!! He also told me (infornt of every1) how he feels about me, and how he'd love for nothing more than to be my boyfriend!!! what do i do know? how do i let him down gently without hurting him, our friendship or being horrible :S -espically when i kind of have feelings for someone else... (though he doesn't know about it) thx!!!!! :S:S:S

well, what is love? really? i'd like to believe there is, but then again i think it's often confussed with "lust at first sight" because (this coming from someone who's never felt love before) I believe love is something that develps with time... it's lust that is the first attraction.... that said the feeling for lust/love at first sight is very true, iv felt it...

well, i guess i'm more of a ( b-c ) not because i won't go out another race, it's just i feel it's easier when dealing with issues such as upbring, religon, etc. i mean, in the end of the day, you can't help who you fall in love with, but looking at my current trend i generally fall for males of the same race as myself.

been there, done that... well, at the time i didn't know he was like that, but through our relationship there were some diffinate tell tale signs, but it's interesting though, because we broke up (obviously) and he knows i know his secret and now we're really good friends as dealing with this issue for a 17 year old can be very difficult espically when it comes to his guy mates. at the time of me going out with him, i don't think he excatly knew he was gay, but being with a girl (me being his 1st gf) confermed for him that he was, which was ok i guess as he was open about it with me and we ended the reli before it got serious

ok, here's the thing, i'm 18 (almost 19) and i've only ever had one boyfriend and i ended up driving him away. well, ever since we broke up, which was a year ago now, i've lost all confordence in asking out guys and dating, it's like i'm scared of being rejected again! Well, anyway my problem is, i REALLY REALLY like this guy at uni, but i'm WAY to shy, talking to him alone is a mission as i just freeze up. He has lots of female friends and is really smart. I'm generally friends with his friends, but with him, i just can't relax and talk easily. i think it is because we don't have much in common (except for maybe our degree) but i don't know, i'm just shy. Well, anyway, I was just woundering, what are some signs that a guy is interested in you, and what do you reckon is the best way of approaching him? Thanks

Hey, i was just woundering, what excatly is sexual tention and how do you know you've felt it with someone? (is it always returned?)

hey if it helps any, i know excatly what you're going through, i've liked this guy at my uni for AGES! he's doing the same papers as me, and i'm slowly getting the courage to talk to him... but its hard, because i'm really shy (well, no, i'm not, only when it comes to guys i actually like, then i just freeze up) but yeah, anyway enough about me and my stupid love life haha! um, i reackon you should just go up and talk to her, say something like "Wow, we just keep bumping into eachother now, and i don't even know your name. i'm _____ *shake her hand* (so it's like a formal introduction)" then prehaps strike up a casual convosation on what she does and prehaps suggest getting coffee or something casual, that way you won't come on too strong and scare her and you never know, you might jst win her heart (i mean you've already won her with your witt as she's laughing at everything you say which is awsome!!!) have fun!!! and be strong but just make sure u make the coffee suggestion light, prehaps through in some jokes (as that seems to be your strength)

hey i've been a regular member of a gym for the past 4 years, and i can't say i've ever felt 'angry' before (unless i get the stitch or something equally annoying while exercising). though, that said, i have left the gym on many ocasions where i've felt fired up, for me, the feeling usually is more engery, like i could run and jump around and just generally pumped. prehaps what your feeling is something like that, only because its a different feeling, you don't quite know how to handle it so you feel angry... i don't really know sorry. well, how do you generally feel about the gym? is it a possitive thing (like before you go to the gym, are you happy to exercise, or is it like a chore) because it is possible that the anger you are feeling could be related to doing something you don't reallly want to do, you know what i mean.... ...well, i hope this kind of helps...

Well... we havn't spoken much... as i'm really shy, but when we do speak its usually good, we mainly talk about our assignments... um, as for what i've noticed about him, is he looks at me alot, and.... i donno, it's weird, like he's randomly became good friends with my mates (even though we usually hang out in different groups) and his bestie has just randomly become really good friends with me, and she asks me all these random questions about me and my life (like if i have a bf, etc)... i donno if im being alittle paranoid and wanting there to be something when there isn't but im just unsure... also, i've noticed little things like, when he's talking to in a group and he says something funny, he always looks to see if im laughing before he laughs... I donno, what do you guys reckon?

ok, i know this might sound kind of lame, but i've never really had a proper boyfriend before... and I was woundering, what are some tell tale signs that a guy likes you? ...i really like this guy and i was just courious to see if the feelings returned, as i'm shy and can't just ask him out... please, any help would be great

hahaha too true, it's interesting that, i've never actually read a post about someone who is happy either, it's generally always about the negative, or in other words a place for people to have a good moan, that said, i only post if i actually have a problem lol!

Ok, where do i begin? well, i'm in my first year of uni this year, i've previously had two bad relationships and have been single for the entire year, anyway, that kind of beside the point... in the beginning of the year, i met this lovely guy, he's smart, kind, lovely and generally just a great guy, only problem is, whenever i talk to him i go red it's annoying because i really like this guy and want to get to know him better, but my nerves get in the way, i don't excatly understand why either, i mean i've had boyfriends before, so there is nothing new there... But it's weird, because i know he's not a particualy talktive person either so making convo is hard, I don't know, is he even interested in me, I mean i've noticed him looking at me and just really dumb things like that, but we hardly talk and he never makes convo with me, i'm the one that has to do... i'm just confused... it's frustrating!!! ARGH! what do u suggest i do? what are some good convo starters? (btw, we're both in the same degree)](*,)