How much does size matter?

[justplaying5050]

To state my question better, im 16 years old and curious to how much more my body is gonna grow, im 5'9'' tall, and about 5.5 inches? i dunno ive never measured, anyways, im just curious as to how much ive gonna grow, i also noticed that i "grew hair" in places later then the other kids in my grade. ANYWAYS, second question, how much does size matter to you women, and how small is "small" ?

[monkey1]

It shouldn't matter to your partner. If it does, and she complains, then she's not for you.

 

All that matters is that you know how to work it!

[FCTex]

And whats the deal with knowing other kids got hair where you don't?

 

I wouldn't worry about it.. if you've got enough to shake at 'em- your ok.

[orgasmictofu]

How much your body is going to grow? You can count on some more height in the next few years, maybe not another foot, but you will definitely grow a bit more.

 

How much does size matter? Are you talking about penis size? I think you'll find that the collective response you'll get here is that "it's not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean".

[yeawutever]

Unless your growth hormones are completed then you won't grow anymore, it depends mainly on your genes. But if you do get to grow more, then it'll probably be a few inches more, around 4 inches the max., or just 2 more inches. Anyways don't worry about it too much.

[phishgirl]

Your length is probably pretty respectable...I doubt it will grow more unless you think you're getting taller too. BUT, I agree with the other posters that it's not size that matters so much, it's the way you use it.

[Anna.]

I disagree. Size does matter to an extent to some women. I guess it depends on the woman, too. You can somewhat make up for it with good moves. But 5.5 is respectable.

[itsallgrand]

You're fine even if you don't grow anywhere anymore! There are few women who would complain!

 

You still have some good years of possible growth ahead of you. When you are about 25 or so: then that is pretty much it. Some men do in fact grow in their 20's.

[yeawutever]

If the girl you find, cares about you enough as for who you are, then she won't complain at all about your size.

[justplaying5050]

not sure if anyone is still reading this, but ive been sexually active before, and we used condoms, but the condoms we used my dad baught me cause he wanted to make sure i was protected (smart move) and anyways, when me and my gf broke up i was heart broken and what not and i threw them out along with some other things. my question being how should i go about attaining more condoms? im afraid i would blush uncontrollably if i went to go buy them myself... so should i just build up the confidence or what?

[FCTex]

Go buy them yourself.

 

Why would you blush? Like I tell guys.. Who cares if people look at you while you browse the condom selection. Whats the dude that rings you up going to say.. "Haha, dude, your buying condoms.. How funny."

 

Yeah, it's funny, that your having sex, and he isn't. It's funny your smart enough to use them.

 

There's no shame in buying condoms. None. Grab some lube with them too, and anything else.

 

When I used condoms, I'd buy random funny stuff and find the oldest women to ring me up. I'd get a economy box of 36 condoms, some lube, some peanut butter, marshmellows, chocolate syrup, some wash clothes, some candles, and washing machine detergent.

 

Now tell me I didn't get some looks? It's fun. Don't worry about it!

[007]

Hell yeah, that's what I always do! I walk up there like I'm the SH*T, and I'm like "Say something...."

 

That's the EXACT train of thought you have to have. You're gettin' some booty, and most people aren't! Forget what others think/say/do. That goes in life, as well as the condom isle/register operators.

 

-007

[scott4321]

Justplaying5050,

 

Your question, "How much does size matter to women?" is flawed. It assumes that all women feel the same about the matter. They don't.

 

Some care a lot, to where it is a "must have" for them; while others don't care at all. It's the act that they are excited by... the sharing and togetherness.

 

Bottom line: Being large is rarely seen as a problem by any girl, while being small is definitely seen as a problem by some of them.

 

Doesn't sound as though you have anything to worry about, though.

[nottoogreen]

4" + is technicaly enough.

 

You will be above 6", it will be fine.

 

Seriously, attitude matters. Read the forums, learn to understand a girls feeling and needs, learn to give good oral. You will be a great lover.

[orgasmictofu]

im afraid i would blush uncontrollably if i went to go buy them myself... so should i just build up the confidence or what?

 

Seriously, I used to be the same way you are. Not only with condoms, but with tampons and the like.

 

The place sells them, people will buy them. They have no business making fun of you.

 

I was a cashier in a grocery store that had a pharmacy. I never judged anyone based on what they were buying. They were buying condoms? "You go guy/girl!".

 

Just go and buy some. Don't fret.

[Jonboy582]

Go buy them yourself.

 

Why would you blush? Like I tell guys.. Who cares if people look at you while you browse the condom selection. Whats the dude that rings you up going to say.. "Haha, dude, your buying condoms.. How funny."

 

Yeah, it's funny, that your having sex, and he isn't. It's funny your smart enough to use them.

 

There's no shame in buying condoms. None. Grab some lube with them too, and anything else.

 

When I used condoms, I'd buy random funny stuff and find the oldest women to ring me up. I'd get a economy box of 36 condoms, some lube, some peanut butter, marshmellows, chocolate syrup, some wash clothes, some candles, and washing machine detergent.

 

Now tell me I didn't get some looks? It's fun. Don't worry about it!

HAHA thats very funny, and put a brighter outlook on things to me.

 

I have always got my girlfriend to buy them OR paid very high prices from public toilets or bought them off the internet. I really am not worried now about going into a shop. Although I will stick with trusted sites on theinternet myself, saves me a bundle.

 

As for your penis size. I personally between ages of 16 and 18 saw no growth in length. But did see growth in girth. And the only thing to do with size that matters above a penis of like 4 inches is the girth really.

[FCTex]

There really is no reason to be embarrassed to buy condoms.. Or lube. Heck, my girlfriend bought a vibrating ring thing the other day, from somewhere... Who cares. Loaf of bread, and a * * * * ring. Cool.

 

I'll go into an adult store, and I'll be with my girl, and we'll toss up a vibrator, some fancy lube, some other random toys, and stuff you'd be mortified if someone you knew saw you buy. But guess what?

 

I don't care. Everyone in a porn store, is there for SOMETHING. And who cares if I'm getting painted with body paint tonight, and that I am handcuffed to a chair with a blindfold on that I bought..

 

Go me. Thats what I think.

 

 

In any case. for the topic. Don't worry about your penis. It'll work just fine. Just know how to use it right and it'll be all good. I used to tell girls I had a small penis before I slept with them. Just being humorous about it. I don't think I'm anything un ordinary, but I've never been told I was anything but great. I've been told numerous times I'm the biggest they've had, or plenty, etc.. Any woman worth your penis, should compliment you regardless. Thats how I see it.

 

and as far as condoms... Just using them up, and thats all you should ever worry about.

[randiandriien]

I can buy sex toys and I can buy feminine products and I can even buy those oh so naughty books! I can't buy condoms though! haha Thank God he has to problems doing it! lol

[TheRedQueen]

Yes, build up the confidence and buy them, in the scheme of things your temporary embarrassment is a small price to pay for let's say living the rest of your life with HPV or some other sexually transmitted disease.

[doyathink]

HA ha, this is TOO funny. You go dude, I love it !LOL

 

And who cares if I'm getting painted with body paint tonight,

[charley]

ages 21 to 24. That was my last growth spurt. My hat size also went from small to large during this time. So aparently my skull got bigger too. Hopefully, I added some brains.

 

I've noticed that my cousins have grown in their early 20s too. Say from ages 20 to 24. They typically went from 6" tall to 6'3" or 6'4" or some to 6'5". I was the family runt at 6'. Now I'm really the runt after an accident left me 5'10".

 

I think late body growth and maturity runs in my family. We are late bloomers.

 

I also know of several non-related guys I went to high school with who also grew from 1" to 3" in their 20s. All guys of Northern European ancestry like my family. So perhaps late growth is common in Scandinavians? I kept getting harrier until age 25, except on my head, which started losing hair at age 21. All my blonde hair fell off the top of my head, only the brown hair remains on sides and back.

 

What runs in your family? How does your body size comare to your brothers, cousins, dad, etc? Ask them when they last grew taller and/or huskier (fatter doesn't count). This will give you an idea of your potential for later growth and other things.

[mainone]

im 14 and 6 inches woot

[OceanEyes]

I believe that size matters, but so does a knowledge of how to use your penis in the first place. Having a big shlong doesn't help if you haven't a clue how to use it.

 

The 'girth' matters much more than length. This is why I am always so confused as to why guys always measure the length, but not around the shaft.

 

As long as you know how to use what you've got, it shouldn't be an issue. Every woman is different, and although many will say "size doesn't matter", I believe that it does to some extent.

[Day_Walker]

Of course size matters but that means that you have to know what to do with it. Each woman is going to have her preference as to what she likes in bed.

[Dragonflyz]

Just go shop at Target or Walmart or a drugestore and buy several items altogether, no one will say anything or probably even notice. Also planned parenthood has baskets of them just sitting around, so you can stroll in grag some and leave, no biggie.