rajorani Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 can someone please reply to my post! (#980), i'm feeling quite lost!! Link to comment
willsma Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 I read this about 10 minutes too late! I saw my ex husband a couple of weeks ago and every emotion came rushing back. The floodgate had opened. So, I wrote an email (there was stuff that needed to be said that I couldn't say or see back then). He was so not happy and asked me to disappear. It was kind of awful. So, I am thinking that the email was misconstrued as a he said she said thing. I bit the bullet and wrote back that I was still not over him. Talk about torture! We have been divorced for a year and a half and I still am in love with him. Make it stop! Link to comment
SuperDave71 Posted May 11, 2006 Author Share Posted May 11, 2006 Willsma, If you want to get better ....you can do it. Write letters or post how you feel. We can help you along the way. I wish you the best, -SuperDave71 Link to comment
willsma Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 thank you. I just want my life back. Everyone else seems to be passing me by...we are both online at match - sometimes at the same time! It just hurts so much and the pain is still so intense. When will it subside? When will i be able to let someone else in? Will he ever want me back. Link to comment
mikeca Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 My pain subsided after a few months...NC has helped it even further...I'd use to break down at work whenever I'd hear certain songs but now I'm stronger and I realize that without this pain we would not cherrish the happiness. Link to comment
BONO Posted May 12, 2006 Share Posted May 12, 2006 SD, I would love this this thread to get to 1000 posts as it was one of the first threads I ever read,so without sounding like a stalker I have a question for this thread. ... How did you get your ex back and avoid certain doom ??? 1) NC was broken - although you have said you were in a position that was healthy to do so. How did you know that ? What are the signs/feelings 2)Even so "being in a healthy situation" how can you really know this will never happen again 3) What was the framework from NC to a sucessful reconcilation 4) Have you avioded certain DOOM Link to comment
BONO Posted May 14, 2006 Share Posted May 14, 2006 Superdave, Just bumping this to the top, just in case you missed it mate, with all the new threads that have been posted. Still would love to know the above , given the forum of "getting back together " I will understand if you cant, but let us know one way or another - I hate NC from a fellow enotalone member xx Thanks SD, Scruffy J Link to comment
SuperDave71 Posted May 16, 2006 Author Share Posted May 16, 2006 Scruffism, I will try and answer your question as soon as I can ok? I haven't forgotten about you. Your Friend, SuperDave71 Link to comment
BONO Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 Scruffism, I will try and answer your question as soon as I can ok? I haven't forgotten about you. Your Friend, SuperDave71 Excellent ! Thanks Scruff Link to comment
BONO Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 Scruffism, I will try and answer your question as soon as I can ok? I haven't forgotten about you. Your Friend, SuperDave71 How we doing out there SD ?? ! Scruff Link to comment
SuperDave71 Posted May 17, 2006 Author Share Posted May 17, 2006 I will try to get this don tonight for you ok? I haven't forgotten. -SuperDave71 Link to comment
BONO Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 I will try to get this don tonight for you ok? I haven't forgotten. -SuperDave71 I know mate ! Just chomping at the bit. Ha ha !! Scruff Link to comment
melrich Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 super dave?? did u read the first post i made at the end of page 98..i really really would like to know wat u think..im goin crazy over here :sad: likewise same page. can someone please reply to my post! (#980), i'm feeling quite lost!! Hi Guys, You will get more responses to your queries if you post your questions as new posts on the main forum. Link to comment
mikeca Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 I support the 1000 post quest this is a great topic for all to read. Link to comment
BONO Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 I support the 1000 post quest this is a great topic for all to read. It would be good to get this to 1000 - but even better if Dave was the person to post the 1000th Scruff Link to comment
pablovblack Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 Come on Dave your next man!!! Link to comment
SuperDave71 Posted May 18, 2006 Author Share Posted May 18, 2006 I am almost thru....Hold tight! ha ha ha -SuperDave71 Link to comment
SuperDave71 Posted May 18, 2006 Author Share Posted May 18, 2006 Oh what the heck!!! WOOO HOOOOO 1000 replies!!! and going strong! Thank you everyone for keeping this going and I hope this has helped.. -SuperDave71 Link to comment
majord23 Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 Oh what the heck!!! Haha....yeah, like you weren't waiting for that at all Good thread mate. Link to comment
BONO Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 SD, I would love this this thread to get to 1000 posts as it was one of the first threads I ever read,so without sounding like a stalker I have a question for this thread. ... How did you get your ex back and avoid certain doom ??? 1) NC was broken - although you have said you were in a position that was healthy to do so. How did you know that ? What are the signs/feelings 2)Even so "being in a healthy situation" how can you really know this will never happen again 3) What was the framework from NC to a sucessful reconcilation 4) Have you avioded certain DOOM Please .... with sugar on top pal ??? Thanks Scruff Link to comment
mikeca Posted May 19, 2006 Share Posted May 19, 2006 figured I'd reply to this thread...had a bit of a down day today.. 3 weeks nc 3 months since breakup. Thought of her alot today..I work with one of her best friends so that and the music we play at work reminds me of it alot..i guess i shouldnt forget anniversary would be next week. ahh time to goto the gym.. Link to comment
painterchic Posted May 22, 2006 Share Posted May 22, 2006 wow i too wish i read this earlier. i finally told my fb last week (see previous posts) that i cant see him again that ive had enough the sick part of me wants him to see what he has missed and changed his attitude) Link to comment
finsjm Posted May 25, 2006 Share Posted May 25, 2006 New to this - but just posted something and I agree 100%. I think space and time to miss someone is the ONLY Way the will know what they want. That being said - I hope it works for me!! lol Jenn Link to comment
SuperDave71 Posted May 25, 2006 Author Share Posted May 25, 2006 Hey Jenn, Welcome to eNotAlone.. You can do it. -SuperDave71 Link to comment
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