Lifelustlostadvice Posted February 22 Share Posted February 22 Is it possible for a girl to be so impulsive that they would have sex with someone they are not even. Attracted to emotionally or physically. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted February 22 Share Posted February 22 Yes it's possible for a person to consent to sexual intercourse impulsively. I would think it wouldn't be so pleasurable if there is no physical attraction but maybe at that moment the person felt like it. 1 Link to comment
tattoobunnie Posted February 22 Share Posted February 22 7 minutes ago, Lifelustlostadvice said: Is it possible for a girl to be so impulsive that they would have sex with someone they are not even. Attracted to emotionally or physically. Yes. Same goes for boys. 1 1 Link to comment
Coily Posted February 22 Share Posted February 22 Yes. There are also nymphomaniacs and sex addicts out there. Link to comment
Lifelustlostadvice Posted February 22 Author Share Posted February 22 I mean as a man I could see it but even I still need to be physically attracted Link to comment
Coily Posted February 22 Share Posted February 22 Just now, Lifelustlostadvice said: I mean as a man I could see it but even I still need to be physically attracted People get horny, simple as. 1 Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted February 22 Share Posted February 22 37 minutes ago, Lifelustlostadvice said: Is it possible for a girl to be so impulsive that they would have sex with someone they are not even. Attracted to emotionally or physically. Are you dating her? How old is she? Did you have sex with her? Was alcohol involved? Please be careful with double standards. Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted February 22 Share Posted February 22 Yes, it is possible. Why do you ask? Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted February 22 Share Posted February 22 Could a guy be so impulsive? Is it possible for a guy to be so impulsive that they would have sex with someone they are not even. Attracted to emotionally or physically? Link to comment
Batya33 Posted February 22 Share Posted February 22 5 hours ago, Lifelustlostadvice said: I mean as a man I could see it but even I still need to be physically attracted Yes that's you - individually. People choose to have intercourse for a variety of reasons including for money. Link to comment
Lifelustlostadvice Posted February 24 Author Share Posted February 24 I asked because my gf of almost 10 years and fiancee of 6 cheated on me with one of my friends . Now my ex friend . And it was someone that is not in her league. Looks and maturity and financially. And she stated she did out of impulsivity. and that he made a move and by time she was able to think about what she was doing and the consequences it was too late. Link to comment
Lifelustlostadvice Posted February 24 Author Share Posted February 24 Me personally yes if im not attracted I don't get aroused it repulsed me but if i close my eyes and don't think then sure maybe Link to comment
Lifelustlostadvice Posted February 24 Author Share Posted February 24 On 2/22/2024 at 12:58 PM, Wiseman2 said: Are you dating her? How old is she? Did you have sex with her? Was alcohol involved? Please be careful with double standards. I am dating her she is 30 yes we have kids together and together for ten years no she was sober.and double standards I belive have a place in society in certain things i.e why we on cheat vs men and why generally speaking a women cheating is worse than a man due to usually if a women cheats its more emotio ally driven if a man cheats its usually physically driven Link to comment
Batya33 Posted February 24 Share Posted February 24 1 hour ago, Lifelustlostadvice said: I am dating her she is 30 yes we have kids together and together for ten years no she was sober.and double standards I belive have a place in society in certain things i.e why we on cheat vs men and why generally speaking a women cheating is worse than a man due to usually if a women cheats its more emotio ally driven if a man cheats its usually physically driven Is that what you plan to teach your children too? People move towards pleasure and away from pain. She had sex because to her the pleasure was more important than any consequences. It’s really that simple. Doesn’t depend at all on gender. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted February 24 Share Posted February 24 1 hour ago, Lifelustlostadvice said: my gf of cheated on me with one of my friends . And she stated she did out of impulsivity. Sorry this happened. Hopefully you realize the reasons people give for cheating are usually nonsense. Drunk, impulsive, just happened, etc, etc etc.. It's only to not take responsibility and gaslight you into thinking it was some sort of "mistake". 1 Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted February 24 Share Posted February 24 3 hours ago, Lifelustlostadvice said: double standards I belive have a place in society in certain things i.e why we on cheat vs men and why generally speaking a women cheating is worse than a man due to usually if a women cheats its more emotio ally driven if a man cheats its usually physically driven I'm not sure if you're being serious here but if you are, I find it rather disturbing. Cheating, no matter what gender, is equally wrong and equally bad. No mistakes and no excuses. It all comes down to the same morals and values with both genders (imo). 1 Link to comment
Lifelustlostadvice Posted February 29 Author Share Posted February 29 On 2/24/2024 at 5:24 PM, Capricorn3 said: I'm not sure if you're being serious here but if you are, I find it rather disturbing. Cheating, no matter what gender, is equally wrong and equally bad. No mistakes and no excuses. It all comes down to the same morals and values with both genders (imo). Like no I agree its equally wrong. But when I say worse I mean that men can cheat out of primal instinct aka horney and that be it with Wemon there is usually an emotional component to it so likely have bonded to another I.e men cheat and be nothing g more but when wemon cheat its more of an affair then cheating 1 Link to comment
Coily Posted February 29 Share Posted February 29 38 minutes ago, Lifelustlostadvice said: Like no I agree its equally wrong. But when I say worse I mean that men can cheat out of primal instinct aka horney and that be it with Wemon there is usually an emotional component to it so likely have bonded to another I.e men cheat and be nothing g more but when wemon cheat its more of an affair then cheating Strongly disagree on that. Having read through many many posts on this forum, and from knowing people who had affairs, women and men will have an affair for what ever reason the feel like. Acting as if one reason to cheat is slightly less bad than the other is just as specious. Your GF acted scummy, the question is do you want to deal with the possibility she'll just get all horny again and throws her self on anything that gets her excited? 1 Link to comment
tattoobunnie Posted February 29 Share Posted February 29 On 2/24/2024 at 1:35 PM, Lifelustlostadvice said: ... she stated she did out of impulsivity Sounds like this was the only time she was caught. Sorry, dude, but people cheat for a myriad of reasons, and sometimes it's just selfishness, and not always an emotional investment with either sex. I know you are probably feeling low, and looking for reasons, but I guarantee this is someone you don't want in your life or ever marry. 1 Link to comment
Lambert Posted February 29 Share Posted February 29 On 2/24/2024 at 1:42 PM, Lifelustlostadvice said: double standards I belive have a place in society in certain things i.e why we on cheat vs men and why generally speaking a women cheating is worse than a man due to usually if a women cheats its more emotio ally driven if a man cheats its usually physically driven this is your own double standard that supports your own rationalization of why you were cheated on. 1 1 Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted February 29 Share Posted February 29 4 hours ago, Lifelustlostadvice said: Like no I agree its equally wrong. But when I say worse I mean that men can cheat out of primal instinct aka horney and that be it with Wemon there is usually an emotional component to it so likely have bonded to another I.e men cheat and be nothing g more but when wemon cheat its more of an affair then cheating We'll have to agree to disagree. This is clearly your own double standards (imo). 2 Link to comment
Lifelustlostadvice Posted March 1 Author Share Posted March 1 16 hours ago, Lambert said: this is your own double standard that supports your own rationalization of why you were cheated on. 13 hours ago, Capricorn3 said: We'll have to agree to disagree. This is clearly your own double standards (imo). 16 hours ago, Lambert said: this is your own double standard that supports your own rationalization of why you were cheated on. 16 hours ago, tattoobunnie said: Sounds like this was the only time she was caught. Sorry, dude, but people cheat for a myriad of reasons, and sometimes it's just selfishness, and not always an emotional investment with either sex. I know you are probably feeling low, and looking for reasons, but I guarantee this is someone you don't want in your life or ever marry. 17 hours ago, Coily said: Strongly disagree on that. Having read through many many posts on this forum, and from knowing people who had affairs, women and men will have an affair for what ever reason the feel like. Acting as if one reason to cheat is slightly less bad than the other is just as specious. Your GF acted scummy, the question is do you want to deal with the possibility she'll just get all horny again and throws her self on anything that gets her excited? I belive its wrong weather men or women cheat . I just belive While generalizations are difficult, research shows there are some gender differences when it comes to infidelity and its impact on relationships. Statistically, when men engage in infidelity the relationship ends less frequently than when women do, around 61% versus 39% of the time according to available data. However, it is important not to overgeneralize or make assumptions about any individual based on broader trends. So when I say worse I. Mean worse for the relationship statistically speaking due to the odds of the relationship ending Link to comment
Batya33 Posted March 1 Share Posted March 1 21 minutes ago, Lifelustlostadvice said: I belive its wrong weather men or women cheat . I just belive While generalizations are difficult, research shows there are some gender differences when it comes to infidelity and its impact on relationships. Statistically, when men engage in infidelity the relationship ends less frequently than when women do, around 61% versus 39% of the time according to available data. However, it is important not to overgeneralize or make assumptions about any individual based on broader trends. So when I say worse I. Mean worse for the relationship statistically speaking due to the odds of the relationship ending I'd lose the statistical perspective in your particular situation -certainly if you choose to pursue and academic career related to this subject or some other objective analysis or read books about it for general interest it might be very interesting. You're lying to yourself if you think this is a productive way to deal with this situation. Look at your relationship on a basic, common sense level - just yours- no one elses -and if this subject fascinates you pursue it in a different context. 1 Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted March 1 Share Posted March 1 On 2/24/2024 at 1:35 PM, Lifelustlostadvice said: my gf of almost 10 years cheated on me with one of my friends . she stated she did out of impulsivity. How did you find out about it? Was it just a one time physical fling for her or was she having an emotional affair? Have you been to couples counseling? Are you hoping to reconcile or preparing to end things? 1 Link to comment
Lambert Posted March 2 Share Posted March 2 13 hours ago, Lifelustlostadvice said: I belive its wrong weather men or women cheat . I just belive While generalizations are difficult, research shows there are some gender differences when it comes to infidelity and its impact on relationships. Statistically, when men engage in infidelity the relationship ends less frequently than when women do, around 61% versus 39% of the time according to available data. However, it is important not to overgeneralize or make assumptions about any individual based on broader trends. So when I say worse I. Mean worse for the relationship statistically speaking due to the odds of the relationship ending List your source. lol Link to comment
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