Apex122 Posted October 19, 2023 Share Posted October 19, 2023 Me (21M) and my ex girlfriend (21F) broke up about 3 months ago and are now wanting to give it another go. We were both each others first partners and hadn’t had sex with anyone else. However she has admitted that during the 3 months we were apart she slept with 20 different guys and I don’t know how to move past it. Link to comment
Jaunty Posted October 19, 2023 Share Posted October 19, 2023 In that case it's best if you don't give this another go. Link to comment
lostandhurt Posted October 19, 2023 Share Posted October 19, 2023 Wait what? In 90 days she had sex with 20 different guys? So she banged a different guy every 4.5 days? Did she start a new job as a porn actor? This all seems pretty unlikely. If it is true then she is not ready to be in a relationship with you or anyone else. Lost Link to comment
boltnrun Posted October 19, 2023 Share Posted October 19, 2023 Entirely possible. My ex dumped me for a 24 year old woman who said she'd had sex with 75 men. Presuming she started when she was 15, that's 8 men a year or a new one every 1.5 months. That's not quite up to 7-ish men per month though! I would find that pretty off-putting. I mean, can you guarantee these 20 men used condoms? Major ick factor there. 1 Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted October 19, 2023 Share Posted October 19, 2023 57 minutes ago, Apex122 said: broke up about 3 months ago and are now wanting to give it another go. we were apart she slept with 20 different guys and I don’t know how to move past it. How long were you dating? What was the breakup about? Refrain from sex until you both get tested and then some. If you can't get past it, and especially if the reasons you broke up are still there, it's going to be rough going. This is why on/off relationships are generally unstable and unhappy. Try to reflect if moving backwards rather than forward is the best decision, or you're just lonely. Link to comment
tgodeboy Posted October 19, 2023 Share Posted October 19, 2023 Such a difficult situation brother, personally, it's a tough pill to swallow for me. Did u ask her what was the reason that she had felt like doing this. Yes it's tough again, when you have feelings, one main thing recently I learned , which I will carry for lifetime is, "regardless of how we feel we need to make right decisions" More power to you. Everything will come good Link to comment
SooSad33 Posted October 19, 2023 Share Posted October 19, 2023 Yeah, not sure how much I believe of this. She could very well be testing you ( in an immature way), for a response. Nope, not a good thing to do! Either way, whether it was 2 or 22, and she wants you back, are YOU okay with this? My Question is: You two broke up for a reason(s), what was it? And has it been fixed? If not, it's likely the problem still remains, so you'll end up back in this position. Think wisely. 2 Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted October 19, 2023 Share Posted October 19, 2023 1 hour ago, SooSad33 said: Yeah, not sure how much I believe of this. She could very well be testing you ( in an immature way), for a response I wonder that, too. Why did you initially break up, OP? 1 Link to comment
catfeeder Posted October 19, 2023 Share Posted October 19, 2023 Who initiated the breakup, and why? Link to comment
Kwothe28 Posted October 20, 2023 Share Posted October 20, 2023 I dont think its real but its possible. Its easier for a woman to find a sex partner. And with hookup apps its even easier now then ever before, she doesnt even have to go out from her own room. So, there is a possibility. OP, you dont have to be fine with this. If she had a "D carousel" and now wants back, you dont have to take her back and be fine with it. 1 Link to comment
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