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[Pooja44]

We both are not happily married. My bf is younger than me by 7 years. We are in physical relationship since last 1 year.  I have a doubt that he is having another affairs. He pays me intention in intervals. 

I don't trust him but I love him alot. I not able to separate from him because what I get from him and don't get from husband.

Should I continue physical relationship with him?

[Wiseman2]

10 minutes ago, Pooja44 said:

We both are not happily married. . I not able to separate from him because what I get from him and don't get from husband.

Do you work together? Is divorce an option? Is this an arranged marriage? It's unclear why you're with your husband.

[Pooja44]

7 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

Do you work together? Is divorce an option? Is this an arranged marriage? It's unclear why you're with your husband.

My bf and me was working together, Divorce is not option open for us

[kehratha]

8 minutes ago, Pooja44 said:

 Divorce is not option open for us

If this is a cultural thing, I guess you and your guy play a dangerous game, let aside the morals...

[Kwothe28]

1 hour ago, Pooja44 said:

I not able to separate from him because what I get from him and don't get from husband.

Because he gets you attention your husband doesnt, not because you particularly love each other. Otherwise you would both divorce first and then date.

[Cherylyn]

You're playing with fire.  He'll fool around on you, too. 

I fail to understand how you can love a man whom you do not trust.  ☹️  He most likely doesn't trust you either. 

Both of you are using each other. 

 

[catfeeder]

It’s not an age gap problem, it’s a trust problem. But since you both have front row seats to view one another’s disloyalty to your spouses, what’s to trust, exactly?

[shouldhavelearned]

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[lovergal]

go find another guy to fool around with

[Capricorn3]

2 hours ago, lovergal said:

go find another guy to fool around with

Really?? 😖 Instead of finding another guy to fool around with, she should maybe think about marriage counseling instead.

[boltnrun]

10 hours ago, lovergal said:

go find another guy to fool around with

So never mind about her husband? She should just continue having affairs and lying to her husband?

[lovergal]

14 hours ago, boltnrun said:

So never mind about her husband? She should just continue having affairs and lying to her husband?

divorce isn't an option for her.

guys don't change.

she can have a convo with him and explain how she feels but one foot is already out the door for him

[lovergal]

21 hours ago, Capricorn3 said:

Really?? 😖 Instead of finding another guy to fool around with, she should maybe think about marriage counseling instead.

She can do that too. If the guy is willing to change.