askdan Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 So I logged in to my old laptop today, and, lo and behold, noticed that my ex-wife still has me on her contact list for Skype, LinkedIn and Twitter. We have been divorced for 2 years and we are not on speaking terms. It’s funny, we are both online on Skype but we don’t communicate. I have initiated No Contact on July 1st. I was so sure that she didn’t wanted to have anything to do with me and blocked me on everything. Am I reading too much into this? Is her behaviour normal or is this out of the norm? Link to comment
abitbroken Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 you are reading too much into this. I have people on my list that i haven't talked to in years --- or were a random business contact and talked to them once. She probably just didn't delete it. Honestly, Twitter doesn't have a contact list, no? Link to comment
boltnrun Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 My MySpace page is devoted to the guy I was dating during the time that MySpace was still a viable thing. No, I am not still in love with him. BTW, are you still engaged? Does your fiancée know you are hoping your ex wife comes back to you ("comes to her senses")? Link to comment
SherrySher Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 It could just mean that she didn't want to completely let go. Possibly down the line you could even become friendly enough to say hello with no intentions behind it. Divorcing can be harsh and you do lose a huge part of your life. It's not always easy to completely erase everything but at the same time, it doesn't mean there are any romantic connotations connected to it. Link to comment
SGH Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 This means absolutely nothing. A lot of people don't go through some grand overture of removing an ex off every social media/communication platform. I still have an ex's number in my phone who I dated in high school. I can say for sure that I do not care about him at all. Stop looking for reasons to hold on. Instead, acknowledge her unwillingness to reconnect with you or work at your marriage, and any of the other very concrete, very real actions she has taken over the years that show she doesn't care. Work on grounding yourself in reality and moving on. Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 Yes, you are reading too much into it. I have plenty of people (including an ex, I think) on my Skype contacts that I actually haven't spoken to for a long time. I just never got around to deleting them. Link to comment
Bigboss29 Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 I have my ex wife on whatsapp but only to communicate about our daughter.... we not friends on facebook for example so yeah don't read into it much..... Link to comment
SherrySher Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 Wow, there's a current fiancee? Op, you really need to get over the ex wife. You are being no where fair to your current partner by continually looking in the rear view mirror. If you truly want to move on and be fair to your current fiancee, delete the ex wife off of Skype, and let it go. Link to comment
No1 Posted August 2, 2018 Share Posted August 2, 2018 Who in the heck still uses skype? LOL. I probably have tons of people on there I don't talk to anymore. Its easier to choose not to talk to them over figuring a way how to delete them. You are reading too much into it. Link to comment
askdan Posted September 14, 2018 Author Share Posted September 14, 2018 She is very active on Skype, but the cool thing, is that I just stopped caring. And that made me so relaxed. Link to comment
No1 Posted September 17, 2018 Share Posted September 17, 2018 So Dan, asking you because there is still some confusion. Are you still with or engaged to someone else who is not your wife but a completely different woman? and I will define it. Are you 'an item' in a committed relationship, exclusive, engaged, or seriously dating this same woman who is not your X wife? And before you ask of that matters to how one responds..yes it does. Link to comment
boltnrun Posted September 18, 2018 Share Posted September 18, 2018 So Dan, asking you because there is still some confusion. Are you still with or engaged to someone else who is not your wife but a completely different woman? and I will define it. Are you 'an item' in a committed relationship, exclusive, engaged, or seriously dating this same woman who is not your X wife? And before you ask of that matters to how one responds..yes it does. He was engaged to an entirely different woman, but he said on his other thread that relationship ended recently. Link to comment
No1 Posted September 18, 2018 Share Posted September 18, 2018 He was engaged to an entirely different woman, but he said on his other thread that relationship ended recently. I saw that post and it was just a brief lets get it out of the way mention. But he said that he ended it over the summer but was still seeing her as recently as Aug 24th. So I just needed some clarity. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted September 18, 2018 Share Posted September 18, 2018 Then why keep track of her activity rather than delete and block her?She is very active on Skype, I just stopped caring. Link to comment
askdan Posted September 19, 2018 Author Share Posted September 19, 2018 I removed my Skype app as I no longer use it. Link to comment
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