Atlantis Posted March 18, 2018 Share Posted March 18, 2018 Hello, Me and my fiance had a good sexual relationship before we got engaged and pregnant. It was so stressful for him to deal with both pregnancy and engagement that he was sexually uninterested for a while since november of last year. I am now 30 weeks pregnant. And our sexual life still isn’t great. When I ask, he says my pregnancy doesn’t affect his sexual desire for me. Yesterday, I tried to initiate it, and he pretty much said he was tired and wanted to sleep. Other than sex alone, his hands are on me all the time. He hugs and kisses me, wants to cuddle with me, always have some trype of physical contact with me. But I do know he watches porn and that I start to think is affecting his actual desire to have real sex. So now, I dont know what to do. I have always had very high drive to sex. And the lack of it really messes with me. I don’t understand how people who sexually abondon their partner expect them to be loyal to them. What do I do about this? I already brought this up many times and nothing changed. Last time we had sex was a week ago, lasted 5 min and was initiated by me.. I am legally married to him now. But I feel so betrayed as this is not how he presented himself before baby. Now I feel like I am stuck in a sexless relationship. I do love him, but if he cannot answer my sexual needs, then who will? Link to comment
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