Rawksteddy Posted February 3, 2018 Share Posted February 3, 2018 Had plans with girlfriend for last night. She told me she got off work at 9 and then had to go do something with her dad quick and would be ready at 10. I checked what time her work closes and it’s 8, and she doesn’t have to stick around once they’re closed; she just leaves. I told her that I would come pick her up from work because the weather is so bad and will see her at 9. She responded and told me that her dad was picking her up (he drinks a lot on the weekend and there was absolutely no way he was going to be driving). Then I told her “no need to inconvenience your dad, I got you” (the time is already around 8). She replies that her and her friend Tammy are going for drinks. I’m with my friend at the time, we were playing pool having a beer. I said “awesome! I’m down for some drinks, where are we meeting?” She told me that they were going to BPs or maybe somewhere else. I told her sounds good I’ll see you there. Then she responds by blowing up at me, telling me that I’m “smothering her”. I responded by telling her that I wasn’t smothering her, I was just exposing her lies, and that I don’t care if she hangs out with friends, but I do care when she’s dishonest. Anyway, my gut feeling on it is that she was with another guy. What’s weird is that she creeped outside my house later that night and texted me that I have an “unusual amount of lights on”. All my lights were on lol. I was like , closed my blinds and turned my lights out. She’s done this a few times over the past couple weeks where her story doesn’t seem true, and there seem to be unaccounted for blocks of time. I just took it at face value before, because I want to trust her. Last night I pushed to catch her in a lie 1) because I knew she was lying, and 2) because it seemed to be turning into a pattern of behaviour. I think the best thing to do is quit talking to her and walk away, but I also feel really hurt and it’s hard. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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