sooawwesome9 Posted January 12, 2018 Share Posted January 12, 2018 I had gotten into an argument with a crush. by argument she screamed and yelled at me publicly and i just watched her do it lol. few days later, I get an apology text.. and I made it known when she was ready to talk about the situation to message me, months later no response. I finally say something, b/c I want closure and answers. She reads it and never responds........... someone please explain? what am I missing? does she not want to talk and grow past this hurdle? Link to comment
SweetGirl28 Posted January 12, 2018 Share Posted January 12, 2018 Why rehash an issue that happened months ago? Maybe she felt her apology was enough, and she didn't want to discuss it. She definitely does not want to now, so let it go. If it mattered to her, she would respond. Link to comment
j.man Posted January 12, 2018 Share Posted January 12, 2018 Forget female logic, what's your logic in still having any investment at all in her? Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted January 12, 2018 Share Posted January 12, 2018 Well, what was it you two fought about? And I would say that no, she's not interested in getting past this if she didn't reply to you. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted January 12, 2018 Share Posted January 12, 2018 Unfortunately this is your closure:months later no response. Link to comment
JaggerJim Posted January 12, 2018 Share Posted January 12, 2018 I had gotten into an argument with a crush. by argument she screamed and yelled at me publicly and i just watched her do it lol. few days later, I get an apology text.. and I made it known when she was ready to talk about the situation to message me, months later no response. I finally say something, b/c I want closure and answers. She reads it and never responds........... someone please explain? what am I missing? does she not want to talk and grow past this hurdle? She obviously was super pissed, and you thinking it's funny probably didn't help. She apoligized for her melt-down, but whatever you did, she ain't forgiving! Link to comment
DancingFool Posted January 12, 2018 Share Posted January 12, 2018 The logic is simple. No response = don't want you in my life. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted January 12, 2018 Share Posted January 12, 2018 Nothing to do with women. She does not care enough to respond. Also, why would you want deal with someone who disrespected you like this? Move on. Link to comment
reinventmyself Posted January 12, 2018 Share Posted January 12, 2018 Nothing 'female' about it. She chooses not to relive a dramatic episode and has apologized for her part and has moved on from it. Sounds pretty straight fwd to me Link to comment
Jibralta Posted January 12, 2018 Share Posted January 12, 2018 does she not want to talk and grow past this hurdle? Sounds like she grew past it without you. You should catch up. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted January 12, 2018 Share Posted January 12, 2018 Your "closure" lies in her silence, which in turn carries the loudest voice. Maybe it's time to turn this around, and focus on your life/future, etc? Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted January 12, 2018 Share Posted January 12, 2018 does she not want to talk and grow past this hurdle? SHE has clearly passed "this hurdle". YOU have not. This happened months ago. She apologised. It's done and dusted. So where is YOUR logic in still harping on about something which is over? Link to comment
Imho Posted January 13, 2018 Share Posted January 13, 2018 This has nothing to do with female logic. "months later no response" "she reads it and never responds" She's not interested and that means the same thing if a female does it or if a male does it. Link to comment
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