KW7 Posted December 28, 2017 Share Posted December 28, 2017 I think I might be somewhat irrational with my thinking (and trust issues) here, however I think it would be good to get more perspective from others. I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years. We have a great relationship and I really do want to spend the rest of my life with her. We sit together quite a lot when relaxing, and yesterday as I came to sit down after making a drink I noticed her clearing her search history on her Twitter application on her phone. It isn't the first time I have seen her do this before, and it has made me think why she would need to do it if she had nothing to hide from me? It's not just Twitter either, I have seen her do this on Instagram before too, and for some reason I can only think it is to hide what she has been looking at from me in case I see it. I know a lot of people these days 'stalk' and look at others on social media these days, I just don't see why there would be need to delete search history really. I was going to mention it when I seen it, but I held back and wondered if it would be the right thing to do? To be honest, I've seen my GF looking at hot celebrities before on Instagram and the thought of her fantasising about them etc makes me a little insecure. I've posted about this before and the general feedback is 'she won't run off with them' and 'don't worry about it'. I do get that, however I am having a real hard time stopping myself from thinking about it. It has made me lose a little bit of respect and trust for her, and I have started acting a little differently around her. I don't know why, but the thought of the woman you love looking and thinking about someone else really turns me off. I want to be more relaxed about it, and I just can't for some reason. I do think I may be acting a little irrationally, i would just like some advice on how to deal with this or whether I should just leave it and try to move on? Link to comment
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