Wanderboy Posted May 20, 2017 Share Posted May 20, 2017 So my girlfriend is planning on having her friends over for a party in the next month or so and she does have limited sleeping space. Nothing about bringing an air mattress or any other arrangements were not mentioned. What was said to me was that her gay male friend would be the one sharing her bed that night. It was just casually mentioned without asking if I was okay with it, so this seems to be the plan. It honestly makes me feel disrespected and upset that it wasn't thought of to ask me about this in any capacity. Even if he is gay, it still makes me uncomfortable to have another man share a bed with her. I find it very intimate and should be something reserved for significant others and close family members. There's the other fact that they used to "date" in middle school before he came out, but I have no way of knowing if he's bi at all. Which I don't think that should be the issue. I think regardless of orientation that it's still inappropriate. She has mentioned that her ex did not like this guy either because they used to do the same thing it seems while they were dating. I don't think she would actually cheat on me with him or anyone, but I just don't understand how I'm supposed to accept this. I'm going to talk to her about this before the party were to take place, but I wanted to make sure that what I'm feeling isn't too crazy or that i'm being overly jealous. I just don't think she would tolerate something like this if the roles were reversed and I planned to have a girl sleep in my bed and pull me close and have her arms around me while we slept next to each other all night. Link to comment
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