JoyceVib Posted May 14, 2017 Share Posted May 14, 2017 Dear readers, I'm looking for tips for this situation. I hope I can find people here who have gone through this as well, or who notice similiair things in the story.. So, the thing is that I finally met a guy I really really like after breaking up exactly one year ago with my bf (after living together for two years). I'm 23 y/o now and before the latest boyfriend I had no trouble meeting people and also no problems with dating. It's important to know that I have had really bad experience with guys, trusting them 100% and them breaking my heart after this. Since last summer I'm feeling very down and insecure, not like the girl I was before at all. I wonder if true love really exists and also what I really want in life. I tried dating different people, but I feel like I'm looking for someone really special, since me and my ex had this exceptional bond together and I don't want to settle down for less. I don't even kiss guys anymore, it feels really odd.. So came across this guy, who is (in my opinion) super attractive, funny and smart. Not like other guys I've met in a long time. I had this feeling that I should watch out with him, because he's really smooth in literally everything. We've been talking now for 7 months. Seen each other five times. When we see each other if feels kind of awkward, not really knowing what to talk about. Through messenger this is no problem and we talk a lot. He is actually the one messaging me since I had this feeling to keep my distance a bit because I didn't really feel good enough for a guy like that. So yesterday I visited him again after four months (we did talk a lot in the meantime on messenger). It was fun and all, but awkward at the same time for no reason. We never kissed or did anything, and this time we only cuddled in bed and he gave me some kisses. This felt really nice though. The next morning we didn't really had a lot to talk about and there was a lot of silence and watching movies. He then had to leave and this was a quick "bye" and kiss on my cheek. The thing is that I notice I really like this guy a lot. I'm afraid to get too close to him because he can easily get other girls and I feel a bit insecure about myself. Through messenger I love talking with him, in person this is different and more awkward. We didn't do anything but I also have a feeling he is a bit shy in this. I just hate the thing that I'm finally over my ex and falling in love with someone else, and now realizing this guy is probably not right for me. If it weren't for him still texting me I would have quit with this, but this is not the case. I just don't know what to do, so afraid to get hurt again when I'll continue with this. For some reason I fell in love with him deeply, thinking about him a lot and I only saw this guy for five times. He also doesn't talk that much and makes me feel uncomfortable at the same time. I can't really make up if he likes me or not. I don't know if he's dating other girls but my intuition says he does (for what it's worth). We still text but this also feels a bit weird now If someone can make something up out of this or is someone has any tips, please do share! I'm really lost at the moment and anything would be very helpfull. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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