RKYoung Posted May 11, 2017 Share Posted May 11, 2017 Annon post. What would you do. Been together two years married to a veteran. When we first met we went to a burger place and movies and then I went to his place weeks later he just moved he had nothing but a twin bed and a laptop. I didn't care because I don't care really about money and stuff, Im very accepting and he says that's why he liked me so much. We used to watch movies on his laptop and i never complained or anything. He moved me in his place and we built together and now in a two bedroom with two kids and make a lot of money now. I used to work I stay at home with the 1 year old because he can't deal with him so it's just his income. He watches our son like a "babysitter " can't leave him more then a hour. I have the child all day while he just plays the game , I feed him , bathe him, take him to doctors , I take care of him. He stated he didn't like my hair because he felt like it wasn't much to do with it (I have locs and he just wanted something different ) so me being compromising I got weave over $500 worth of weave and wigs changing it up. I try to keep the spark in our relationship lingerie and surprising him with pictures. I'm not a good cook not really confident in the kitchen but I try to make a effort even if my effort comes out disgusting I still try again had a bad situation growing up so didn't have much kitchen teaching ( I look up recipes and YouTube cooks and look up cooking classes ) , I clean and do laundry , watch his stupid games and stupid shows I try to be interested in what he's interested in. I don't cheat. I believe I am a good girl and very different. The problem is that he has never been emotional type and I'm not asking for flowers or anything just simple cuddle with me kiss me once in a while. I ask for simple things let's do something for our anniversary or birthday , show some appreciation for what I do, no porn ( I know that's hard but I wouldn't have a problem with it if we was having sex ) , lets change up positions in sex ( tired of missionary ) , and don't disrespect me. He has the nerve to say you can't cook so if I cheat it's not my fault I feel offended because I make my effort and he has made NO EFFORT. It's always been one sided I make so much changes and I get nothing but cursed out all the time , called stupid , and demeaning. I'm aware I can't cook but I try. He won't be emotional (says he would feel like a punk and I assume his mother didn't love him maybe he doesn't know how too just like I don't know how to cook ) I'm just like am I crazy ? Like I could've cheated with someone who would want to still "date " me even though we are married that never came to mind when I'm not getting what I need from my husband. I just feel like I just want a divorce, I feel unappreciated. Link to comment
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