florida1995 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 My boyfriend and I have almost been together 2 years. We are both juniors in college now and started dating the summer going into sophomore year. After 5 months of dating, I broke up with my boyfriend for not spending as much time as I wanted with me, I admit pretty stupid. We were working things out for like 3 weeks, when one night we got into a really big fight and I told him he was stupid, gross, etc (I admit I WAS WRONG). The next day after the fight, he came to talk to me and I told him I didn't want to. SO he ended up going out that night, got drunk, and had sex with someone he had sex with previous to us being together. He never told me this, until this past weekend because he felt that our relationship was at the best place it has ever been and he finally thought I should know. I am so heartbroken and pretty distraught because I can't believe he lied for so long. He told me he was just scared I was going to leave him and never talk to me again and that he has changed so much and thinks that him going through all of that, has helped him realize how much he loves me. I will admit, that my boyfriend the last couple of months has been everything I've ever wanted him to be, I can't name one thing wrong with him except the fact that he lied to my face, which hurts. I know he has changed, and I (and him) are 100% he would never do that again. He tells me its that we were only dating for 5 months and he never thought we were going to be this serious and he just did not care as much as he does now, which is understandable I guess. I love him so much and I am just scared I won't be over to get over this because I am overthinking too much, or making it seem like he did the worst thing possible. Please help, and give me what you would do in this situation. And maybe GUYS tell me what probably was his perspective on all this? He was 19 when this happened by the way and he had just moved to FSU and just joined a fraternity (which I think was getting to his head lol). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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