poorlittlefish Posted March 30, 2017 Share Posted March 30, 2017 I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months and pretty much every time we have sex I end up with an irritation that is akin to burning, which can take 3-4 days to go away. I have absolutely no other symptoms and I've not spotted anything unusual with him. He lasts for quite a long time and has to go very fast to be able to climax. We don't use condoms because he's had a vasectomy (and they are likely to make him last even longer!). Could it simply be that I'm being "roughed up" down there because the longer the sex goes on the less lubrication I have left? Allergic to his semen? Is he harbouring something from his ex that is infecting me, even though there's no redness/discharge etc? As I'm 45, is it a sign of impending menopause? He's very difficult to talk to about sensitive topics. At the weekend he wanted sex a second time and I said it would have to be gentle as I was already sore. Unfortunately for me he soon went into jackhammer mode and I felt forgotten about. He was sorry afterwards but by then the damage was done. I said I experience soreness and burning most times we have sex but got no reaction. I don't want to stop having sex with him because I love him but knowing I'm going to suffer for days later every time is really getting me down now. Link to comment
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