luisannalui Posted March 15, 2017 Share Posted March 15, 2017 The moment the pain went away, shes back. And that's how thing goes....they always come back and this is the reason why I always say " getting back together its easy, keeping them its the hardest part". We started talking Saturday, I went out with my best friend and she called so that I speak with "J". Than Sunday she told me that "J" was sick (sent me pictures from the hospital) ask me for my new number to keep me updated about him. & the rest is history. She saw my pictured with my new looks. Ive been losing weight. She told me that talking to my best friend was a way to keep me close to her and that I knew what she was up to. We are not back together. Getting back together now it's falling into the same pattern. I told her, I want you to work on yourself. I want you to get to know yourself in order to be able to control your emotions. I don't know about the future, but what I do know its that I won't go through that pain again. In regards to baby daddy, she told me that she dont want to be with him. She told him to leave her alone. That he some how manipulated her in terms of the baby and that hes the only person she can count on. She have evidence that he is doing witchcraft to keep her. As sometimes she feel sick and doctors can't find anything. That she doesn't want him close to her but still accepts him. Including his mom that he asked her where to go to do a job for her. Our relationship collapsed the moment he came to the USA. Hes so obsessed with her with me. This its not breadcrumbs from her or that she wants to talk to me to see where I am to boost her self-ego. Shes back. Yesterday, was snow day. She wanted us to be on camera all day, yes- she gave me her all attention. I even felt overwhelmed. She wants us to meet this weekend. All I want its to see my "J" I have no words to explain how happy he felt to see me via camera. I feel now in full control of my emotions. I know what to say what not to say. Lets see how it goes. As mentioned before, Please keep in mind that I also share my story to help those that went and are going through the same situation as me. Link to comment
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