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Iggy5129 last won the day on January 4 2014

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  1. Block him and delete his number. He's not your friend.
  2. The grass is greener where you water it...not on the other side. Pretty sad that you'd rather live your life boxed in my some societal norm about men's sex lives than be with the woman you love. In my experience once she gets over you it's done forever, so I wouldn't count on her sitting and waiting for you while you f#@k your way around the world.
  3. John is wrong and he sucks. I agree with all the people saying he's controlling.
  4. Why do people think they have to give a detailed account of their past love life to their current partner? You don't, in fact I would say you shouldn't. I've never gone through a list of my past bfs with a current bf. I really dont see why he would need to know the name of every guy I've had sex with.
  5. How is this so shocking to you? Do you live under a rock?? And the AIDS thing, really?? People barely even get AIDS these days and HIV is very controllable with medication. I think you need a sex ed class Sex has risks involved, if you're not willing to take that risk, you shouldn't have sex.
  6. Try putting vitamin E oil on your face at night. It really helps with the scars. I'm 33 and still dealing with acne but washing my face with apple cider vinegar and using vitamin E oil at night has really helped. As for how you feel about yourself, that will take a lot of work. It takes a long time to convince yourself that you're no longer that acne ridden teenager. I bet your skin isn't as bad as you think. When I look back at pictures from me in my 20s I am shocked at how clear my skin was compared to how I felt it looked at the time. Body dysmorphia is a real thing. It takes time and t
  7. I would bet money that he has other girls locally or online like you. This is really sketchy.
  8. I have one implant because I had to have a tooth extracted. It's not that bad, but it does hurt. You will need a day or 2 to recover because you will be on pain killers. If you're having multiple done that would be tough but it's not like having major surgery.
  9. I'm exhausted reading this! Why are you doing all these mental gymnastics?? When a guy likes you and it's right there's none of this uncertainty. No anxiety, no need to check up, it just works. Whatever this is doesn't work. That's the bottom line. Stop going around in circles. I think you know what to do. Drop this guy, get back on the apps and find a guy that lives in your area and wants a committed relationship. They're out there. I found one and you can too.
  10. Check out the blog Ask A Manager. Lots of good advice there. Come to the interview prepared with 5 questions. You can even write them down to make sure you remember, I did that at my last interview (got the job 😁). You can ask a few generic questions but try to think of 1 or 2 specific to the job. An interview is a 2 way street, you're also trying to figure out if you want to spend 40 hours a week with these people doing this work. Don't waste your opportunity to interview them. Good luck!!
  11. Go to community college. I took out a ton of student loans to go to university and it's probably the biggest regret of my life. If I could do it over again I would go to community college and transfer. You sound really smart, I wish I had been as smart as you at your age. You are setting yourself up for financial success by taking this path. Dont let your parents discourage you. You're an adult now, you don't need their permission.
  12. Phone plans are not hundreds of dollars. You can get one for $45 a month. Stop making excuses.
  13. You definitely need to leave this guy. He's abusive. You shouldn't have married him in the first place. It's pretty obvious that he's the one who's a cheater. Your relationship began with him cheating on another woman with you!! Cheaters always acuse their partners of cheating. I guarantee he is cheating on you.
  14. Maybe use this as an opportunity to practice yoga, the non physical side. Practice non attachment. Maybe this is the universe's way of teaching you this lesson. Basically, what I'm saying is go back abroad.
  15. Dude you need to break up with her. For your sanity and health and your child's well-being. Block her from contacting you. In a month you will feel so much better. You have to walk away. She is abusive and it's not going to change. It's been 3 years and she's still the same. Please take care of yourself and leave her.
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