adam1998 Posted March 7, 2017 Share Posted March 7, 2017 Hey! I have had an issue with my girlfriend recently. The problem is that when we go out to the nightclub to dance, she likes to dance with everyone, including strange men. Her style of dancing is strictly nonsexual(only social and for fun) and I do trust her fully to not take it any further. What I do feel is though that it hurts me anyway to see her dancing with other men, especially knowing many guys intentions out dancing with girls in night clubs. I tried to expressed this to her, that she crossed a line and that it hurt me, hoping that she would understand and immediately stop. The problem is, I think she understands where I am coming from, but she still has a hard time of completely letting go of dancing with other men, especially since she feels as though I am trying to control and restrict her, which is not at all my intention. I just don't want to keep getting hurt. I really want to be in this relationship, but this just doesn't feel good for me. It makes me feel anxious and unloved basically, that she doesn't want to sacrifice something as insignificant as dancing with other men, for my sake. Shouldn't she feel as though my feelings and well-being comes before that? I would really appreciate all the help I could get in this subject, cause I'm really feeling quite helpless. Thanks in beforehand / Adam Link to comment
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