TryeLove2016 Posted January 22, 2017 Share Posted January 22, 2017 My ex did start contact me after 3 years with no contact at all. I wrote an letter to her for about 6 months ago, and I didn't hear anything from her, until recently. In the letter I formulated that I wanted to try one last time. When she contacted me, she said she didn't know why she wrote me, but that she wanted to be friends with me. She also mention that that I can write her at anytime I want to her. Since the weeks have passed I have notice that she never initiate contact with me, but she always replying me. Another thing is that she keeps her answers very short sometimes. She told be that she wasn't sure what to write me or that she didn't have so much to tell from her side, and that she is busy. I asked also if she wanted to meet sometime, maybe before this new year, but she told be can't cause she don't have the time. I didn't want to push or force her or anything like that. Maybe it was too early to ask if she wanted to meet? Maybe she isn't ready to meet me, but on the other hand, it has gone 3 years since we meet. I am confused what she want, she contacted me for a reason probably, but I am still do not know reason why yet. That she say we can be "friends", can mean anything I imagine, but I am not sure. Does she want me back? Why would she contact me in the first place if she doesn't want to write me, or do not want to meet me? Maybe I am too needy and annoying, I don't want to hurt her or anything, but I do care for her and I do miss her. Maybe she is afraid to ask me things, but she shouldn't be. I have maybe not be clear with that, I have just told her that she can contact whenever she want. I haven't write her anything for 22 days, and she haven't write me anything either. Should I ask her why she contact me in the first place? and should I tell her my feelings for her? Please help me guys. I really need some advice of what I should do? Link to comment
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