sargon Posted June 17, 2015 Share Posted June 17, 2015 What is there to update if you don't plan on contacting her? If you're serious about the no contact then why not block her number? Link to comment
mhowe Posted June 17, 2015 Share Posted June 17, 2015 Dude I know. Bolt, he still thinks you are a guy! And that I am a bitter woman who has an axe to grind! Dude, don't go to Vegas. Your gut instincts need a recalculation! Link to comment
boltnrun Posted June 17, 2015 Share Posted June 17, 2015 Bolt, he still thinks you are a guy! And that I am a bitter woman who has an axe to grind! Dude, don't go to Vegas. Your gut instincts need a recalculation! In his defense, I think that was in response to sargon. Link to comment
jssteele89 Posted June 17, 2015 Author Share Posted June 17, 2015 Yes I do. I went 4 weeks with NC and it actually felt good. This is so much damn drama. Spoke with friend and I really have nothing to gain from meeting, I'm aware of that. I show up, I get friend zoned!, and upset about the whole situation with her being with another guy, and back to square 1. So literally I have nothing to gain from this women cause I will not be friends with her. So, yes to answer your question I have the self control to never contact this person again. The relationship is so tainted at this point it wouldn't work anyways. It's like chasing a dead person. Link to comment
jssteele89 Posted June 18, 2015 Author Share Posted June 18, 2015 I received 3 more text messages from her number last night (who knows if it's her) the messages were like "what time are you coming", " I'm about to leave ", and " I'm sorry I'm going home, I feel awful ") I did not to reply to anything. I was dead to this girl 5 weeks ago, and now she is texting as if she is concerned about me coming...how ing weird. I wanted to text back " who the is this?" Ha. But I didn't. I do have to say ALL these text messages are during her normal work hours. So, unless her BF is at her work, I'd think it would be her. Either way I had a bad gut feeling. So yeah never responded and of course didn't show. Link to comment
Asher Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 This thread is absurd and OP does need to really stick to his guns this time and keep away from this person and implement proper NC. Why haven't you blocked her number OP? That said, Boltnrun and mhowe need to chill out as well. You two are sounding borderline bi tchy in your mockery of him. Cut that out. There is being direct with someone for their own benefit but you two are approaching nasty now. Link to comment
jssteele89 Posted June 19, 2015 Author Share Posted June 19, 2015 I have blocked her. Boltrun is fine. It must be that time of the month for Mhowe. She's gone nuts Link to comment
jssteele89 Posted June 19, 2015 Author Share Posted June 19, 2015 OK now I'm just being a . Sorry about that Link to comment
jssteele89 Posted June 19, 2015 Author Share Posted June 19, 2015 Thanks for the advice Asher Link to comment
blanco Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 It must be that time of the month for Mhowe. She's gone nuts Ugh. I'm a guy and I find this cliche ignorant at best, and sexist at worst. Hey, she's a woman and she's not happy. She must be ragging! Link to comment
blanco Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 Just say NO! Based on OP's posts, I would give his ex the same advice. Link to comment
tengu Posted June 20, 2015 Share Posted June 20, 2015 edit: oops i didnt read all the replies. ... this thread went all over the place Link to comment
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