Blondiegirl Posted July 3, 2011 Share Posted July 3, 2011 My BF asks for sexy photos all the time. I sent him one photo of me lying on the beach and now he asks I send him photos of myself in a thong or in my bra. Is he that horny or does he like jerking off to photos of me?? Link to comment
annony Posted July 3, 2011 Share Posted July 3, 2011 umm, what else would he want the pics for? Just make sure you trust him not to go showing them off to your friends, and that he's not the kind of person that would use them to blackmail you if things go south. Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted July 3, 2011 Share Posted July 3, 2011 Be very very careful what you send him as you never know where these picures will end up and who will see them. Many many girls have been burned (after a break up) by sending nude/semi nude pictures of themselves and finding out their boyfriend has been showing their pics to all their mates or on the internet. If you do send him pics, make sure your face isn't showing or somehow "hidden" behind something. Who knows what he wants them for, but be careful. Link to comment
Blondiegirl Posted July 3, 2011 Author Share Posted July 3, 2011 I ask him for photos and he always says he is busy or somehow " forgets". Amazing how remembers everything else but when it comes to sending photos he forgets. Seems kinda hypocritical Link to comment
dramallama Posted July 3, 2011 Share Posted July 3, 2011 All of those nude photos/videos put on the internet were done by someone's boyfriend who would "never show them to anyone else because they love you and will be with you forever." If you couldn't show your grandma a photo, then don't give it anyone else or send it because most likely you WILL break up with your boyfriend one day or get divorced and the odds are not in your favour. However, if you have thought this through and want to, perhaps only send him a photo of you in MODEST lingerie (like a slip), with no nudity or cleavage or butt cheeks. A photo that you wouldn't be too ashamed if your boss saw it. Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted July 3, 2011 Share Posted July 3, 2011 I ask him for photos and he always says he is busy or somehow " forgets". Amazing how remembers everything else but when it comes to sending photos he forgets. Seems kinda hypocritical There ya go - that should tell you something, no? Link to comment
dramallama Posted July 3, 2011 Share Posted July 3, 2011 I ask him for photos and he always says he is busy or somehow " forgets". Amazing how remembers everything else but when it comes to sending photos he forgets. Seems kinda hypocritical Guys are mostly visual (which is why they won't read romance novels like women do), however, it should be equal. I also think women are more likely to be embarrassed if photos get leaked. Link to comment
Oneironaut Posted July 3, 2011 Share Posted July 3, 2011 My boyfriend asks me for sexy photos all the time, but, we've been together on and off for 2 1/2 years, so, I know exactly what he uses them for (heh), and I trust that he isn't posting them anywhere or showing them to anyone else. Go with your gut...if something tells you not to do it, then please don't. Link to comment
mouseno4 Posted July 3, 2011 Share Posted July 3, 2011 One MAJOR IMPORTANT thing to remember about sexy photos. DO NOT show your face in them. As unusual as it sounds, your face is your most identifiable feature on your body. If his phone get stolen, he uploads to the internet or sends them to friends, its not all that easy to tell they are you. Sooo many girls have given their bf of 1, 2, 3, 4 years sexy photos of their entire body - including face. And guess, what those photos are on the internet now, and that poor girl will have to live with people knowing what she looks like naked for the rest of her life. Link to comment
nsomnia912 Posted July 3, 2011 Share Posted July 3, 2011 Personally as a guy...I find it 10x more erotic if I get Bikinis or underwear....I love to see that more than just nudity...its sexy and still tasteful...plus it gets the imagination working.... I agree with the slip idea...or some underwear and bra with Colors that compliment you the best Link to comment
iamminzy Posted July 4, 2011 Share Posted July 4, 2011 Don't do it, I don't think he is the right guy for you. A guy would not go this far to ask for his gf to show him a sexy photo because if he was to get horny, then he can always watch porn and look at other sexy photos and not yours. Don;t let him manipulate you. If you do what he ask once, he will ask again. It's ok the first time around, but next time tell him no and tell him if he loves you, then he needs to respect you and your body. If he doesn't, then screw him! Link to comment
dali Posted July 4, 2011 Share Posted July 4, 2011 fact is even if the photos were leaked to net odds are 1 in a million that some one you know would see them & it could hurt you. But I guess that's the risk you take because there are some really vindictive people in this world. Link to comment
lavenderdove Posted July 4, 2011 Share Posted July 4, 2011 Nope, wouldn't do it unless the photo is such your face is not in the picture so no one can identify it as you. Way too many relationships end up broken up, and the pictures used to embarrass you somehow. He may send them to everyone you know, not just posting them on the web. I've know cases where they were emailed anonymously to everyone at school, or to people's parents and relatives! Link to comment
greywolf Posted July 12, 2011 Share Posted July 12, 2011 I have given people naked photos of myself. It's never been a problem. But I wouldn't just give it out to anyone. For me, a good indicator of what kind of person they are is how they treat their exes. But the thought of my photos getting out to people I know doesn't really bother me. It's just my body. *shrug* The only thing I'd be embarrassed about would be having trusted a douche. Link to comment
Blue Spiral Posted July 12, 2011 Share Posted July 12, 2011 I have a massive stockpile of photos like this that women have given me, and I've honestly never showed them to anyone. I'm too greedy. Link to comment
mouseno4 Posted July 13, 2011 Share Posted July 13, 2011 Just to add to an old thread - Photos that grace the internet, never go away. Photos ive taken YEARS ago and uploaded them to the internet... are still there today. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted July 13, 2011 Share Posted July 13, 2011 The internet is loaded with pictures of women, posted by ex boyfriends who would never do such a thing. Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted July 13, 2011 Share Posted July 13, 2011 The internet is loaded with pictures of women, posted by ex boyfriends who would never do such a thing. Exactly. Also a lot of these men who want these kind of photos often collect them like Baseball cards. I have seen way too many posts on this forum from women who were upset that they found naked photos of their boyfriend's various exs on his computer. So what was once love, now becomes part of a porn collection for the guy. Link to comment
Miss Firecracker Posted July 13, 2011 Share Posted July 13, 2011 Value yourself. If he wants nude photos, buy him a subscription to Playboy. Link to comment
Miss Firecracker Posted July 13, 2011 Share Posted July 13, 2011 Sprint Cup Girl Lost Job! I'm sure she trusted this person 100%. I'm sure he was a great guy that loved her a lot. link removed Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted July 13, 2011 Share Posted July 13, 2011 Never allow someone to have an ace in the hole on you. Link to comment
greywolf Posted July 13, 2011 Share Posted July 13, 2011 Sprint Cup Girl Lost Job! I'm sure she trusted this person 100%. I'm sure he was a great guy that loved her a lot. link removed This is what I don't get. She sent someone naked pictures of herself and she talks about it like she did something wrong and she feels guilty about it. Do people really care? I certainly don't. But if you do plan to be in the public eye, then yes, I agree that sending someone naked pictures of yourself could be bad. Link to comment
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