cherryberry123 Posted May 27, 2010 Share Posted May 27, 2010 I'm sure everyone goes through a time after their breakup where they long for their ex, and have a desire to win them over again. For those of you who have healed after a breakup and moved on, what was the EXACT moment you realized "They aren't worth the effort and pain anymore. I'm moving on for good..." -Did something significant happen in your life to change your perspective? New job? New love interest? Health problems? etc. -Did your ex drive you away and show their true colours? I would love to hear some stories. For me,I thought I had one of those moments with my recent ex...but it was a false alarm. There was a time back in December when my ex told me he was starting to see someone new. I still tried to hold on to dear life. Even when he was out for a date, I asked him to call me in the evening. It tore me apart...but I held on. This one particular day, I asked him to call me in the evening after his date. He agreed. I waited and received a call at 10pm. He immediately said "I gotta go" and hung up. I was confused and kept trying to call, but he kept declining. I eventually get a call 2 hours later. I asked "Where were you?". "I was at her house" "What?...What were you guys doing?" "Nothing." After that conversation, I went NC. I couldn't torture myself anymore. I was healing, but he contacted me after 2 months. I broke NC and I'm stuck again. I'm waiting to get unstuck...I'm waiting for the moment I'll be able to walk away again. So, when was your EXACT moment? Link to comment
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