spongey Posted May 12, 2010 Share Posted May 12, 2010 I'm 28 yrs old, not married but with a loving BF who is 33 years old. Recently, I've discussed / asked my bf about having kids and "What IF I'm pregnant" because I suspected myself pregnant which I hasn't told him about. His respond is he do not want kids at all and he's determined about it. And IF I'm really pregnant, he got no choice but to terminate it because he said he cannot handle fatherhood. Now that I've confirmed myself pregnant, I do not know how to tell him and I'm in a dilemma to go for the single mother path or to abort it without telling my BF. Don't get me wrong, I do love kids a lot and has always wanted a baby with a proper family. While I live in Asia with pretty conservative parents, I'm really worried about how my parents and other family members view me and talking at my back. I'm really not sure if I should tell my BF about this or to abort it myself or to go through the whole cycle being a single mother. Link to comment
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