Questions for men about 3somes...

[shygal2008]

Would you have a 3some with another GUY and a random hot girl....would you with girlfriend even?

 

What would you think of a girl you liked or are dating having slept with 2 guys at once BEFORE she met you?

 

Just curious..my friend is in this sitation with her boyfriend and he's having issues with her past

[Vince99]

Would you have a 3some with another GUY and a random hot girl....would you with girlfriend even?

 

 

No........

[Lucius]

Would you have a 3some with another GUY and a random hot girl....would you with girlfriend even?

 

Nope. That holds no appeal for me whatsoever.

 

What would you think of a girl you liked or are dating having slept with 2 guys at once BEFORE she met you?

 

I would avoid condemning or labeling her, but I'd be lying if I said it wouldn't bother me. It's not necessarily rational, and I wouldn't be punishing her for it, but it would certainly give me pause, and it would turn me off a bit. I look for (and have) the kind of person who values monogamy, and for whom this sort of thing would hold no appeal. It's not a question of morality (for me) - just compatibility.

[bertdru]

Hmm I don't think I have the guts to have a threesome(MMF or FFM). I have too many body image issues.

[stingray]

I would definetely not be open minded on this one!

[JonasWaingaro]

Nope. That holds no appeal for me whatsoever.

 

I would avoid condemning or labeling her, but I'd be lying if I said it wouldn't bother me. It's not necessarily rational, and I wouldn't be punishing her for it, but it would certainly give me pause, and it would turn me off a bit. I look for (and have) the kind of person who values monogamy, and for whom this sort of thing would hold no appeal. It's not a question of morality (for me) - just compatibility.

 

^^^This. This is exactly what I would've written.

[shygal2008]

I would never engage in 3somes OF ANY KIND its just not me!!!!!

 

I know i don't have it in me but the subject came up with my friend and her boyfriend..it was in her past over 12 yrs ago when she was really young and stupid!!!

 

Now she's in her 30's and in a stable relationship, educated and has a great career and is such a different person now!!!!

[itsallgrand]

Why would they even have to know unless she told him. What good can come from telling if you are in a committed relationship and only want to be with that one now.

[zzprometheuszz]

it depends on the guy she's going out with

 

it seems like she is a lot more "open minded" than he is

 

there might be a problem

 

since I never done a threesome before (and i never would), i would be uncomfortable if a girl i am dating did that

[BMP2CPM]

NO. I wouldn't have any interest in such a woman, unless.... she's a famous porn star.

[katsumi]

Um no. Menage trois are not my thing

[In the Dark]

I had been offered this situation in the past.

I was in a relationship and was asked to have a threesome.

Turned me off and changed my perception of the person's psyche.

To be honest I was disappointed that she wanted to.

Made me feel like I was not good enough.

 

If I knew the woman was this way inclined I would be very apprehensive of getting to know her more regardless of who she is in a non sexual manner.

[Samedy]

Would you have a 3some with another GUY and a random hot girl....would you with girlfriend even?

 

The Devil's Threesome... Nope.

 

What would you think of a girl you liked or are dating having slept with 2 guys at once BEFORE she met you?

 

I would probably treat it the same way I would if a girl told me about a bad bowel movement... It's just something I wouldn't want to know or hear about...

[regular joe]

First of all, you should never ask a question you do not want to know the answer to. He asked, she was honest about it, now he has issues with it. I would be more bothered if I asked, she lied and I found out the truth later. Second of all, I have been involved in a few threesomes in my youth too. So I can't say it would bother me. That would make me a hypocrite. Everyone has a past and if you can't handle it, you shouldn't go looking.

[Chris Knows]

I don't slap no nuts. So no.

 

Not my cup of tea. Just don't think I would A) Want to do that with another guy present AND doing the same. B) Don't want anybody else doing that with the person I care about.

[Brownstone322]

I would love to give the stock "No way, I'm above that" reply, but some years ago a friend of mine and I tried like hell to double-team a girl we knew. She had been a cheerleader at the University of Indiana, no less.

 

It was close ...

[Salicia]

I don't slap no nuts. So no.

 

LOL!!!!! That was my hard laugh for the night! Thanks Chris!

[Day_Walker]

I have no desire to be involved in a threesome with another guy.

[Chris Knows]

LOL!!!!! That was my hard laugh for the night! Thanks Chris!

 

No problem

[lv22irl]

Thats a major turn off for me and I'm pretty sure most guys feel the same way.

 

Guys don't want to think of their GF's like that. It would drive me insane and I couldn't deal with it I'm sure.

 

I have had a 3some with my current GF and her friend before we started dating, and while there is a possibility that it might happen again I have no drive or enough interest to pursue something similar now that we are dating.

[none2good]

There's always two sides to a story. Having been tagged teamed by two sisters in my youth, I could hardly hold it against a gal if she had something similar happen in her life.

Of course, this is the first time I have ever mentioned it since it happened and I would advise her to zip her lips with any future guy she may be interested in seeing.

[Brownstone322]

There's always two sides to a story. Having been tagged teamed by two sisters in my youth, I could hardly hold it against a gal if she had something similar happen in her life.

Two sisters?

 

Damn ... livin' the dream.