shygal2008 Posted February 13, 2010 Share Posted February 13, 2010 I am just asking bcuz for the 3rd time this week there is this man i work with who really seems to like looking at my manicured hands (real, natural nails..no tips, no acryllics, NOT LOOOOONG) as i am talking he stares at my hands (or my boobs..lol) but lately i noticed its my hands..i have them painted a pretty red, along with my toes which i notice he looks at as well when i wore open toed sandals in the past. I do love getting my fingernails and toes done..it makes me feel good..i get lots of compliments when i do and i think they are pretty all done and VERY feminine! Just curious to what men think and if it is a sexual thing in any way? Does the color matter to you at all? Thanks Link to comment
Sanesoul Posted February 13, 2010 Share Posted February 13, 2010 My hubby loves my hands and feet. He will sit next to me and hold my hands, and stare at them. I asked him about it once and he told me that he loves how feminine they are, and it's very sexy to him that I take such good care of them. I can't say he cares whether they are painted or not though, I usually keep them natural, but well manicured and pedicured. Link to comment
annie24 Posted February 13, 2010 Share Posted February 13, 2010 i think most guys like nice feet. way better than gnarly looking feet. Link to comment
furiouspsych Posted February 13, 2010 Share Posted February 13, 2010 Hands and feet are a fetish for some guys, but personally I never even noticed when my ex would get her nails done, much less her haircut.. lol Depends on the guy...I try to notice these things more now. Link to comment
annie24 Posted February 13, 2010 Share Posted February 13, 2010 Hands and feet are a fetish for some guys, but personally I never even noticed when my ex would get her nails done, much less her haircut.. lol Depends on the guy...I try to notice these things more now. but you'd notice if her toenails were all yellow and gross, right? Link to comment
itsallgrand Posted February 13, 2010 Share Posted February 13, 2010 I find hands and feet very sexy. Ok, I'm a woman and I'm speaking about men's hands and feet. But it's no surprise that some men find hands and feet which are well taken care of erotic. I get quite a few compliments on my hands and have a bit of a swelled head now about it, lol, ok not really, but being a hand model for a while did expose me to becoming more aware of how erotic some men find hands and that taking care of your hands can have quite an impact on people in general. Looking at someone's hands can be a quick way to scan some personal info about them - what they might do for work, lifestyle, confidence about themselves, age. I have gotten a lot of compliments mostly because it sticks out in some people's minds and has become quite a conversation starter - - my line of work is very hands on and can be downright dirty and yet I take the time to take care that my hands and nails are taken care of. People do notice. And some have very specific tastes i.e. Particular colours, style of nail, shape of hand, length of nail. I guess for some it is for sure a fetish. For some women it seems to be a fetish (their own nails that is! lol). For the majority though I think it is just another pretty, and sometimes sexy part of the whole female package. sorry for going on when I am not even a man. lol. Whatever makes you feel good, it wouldn't surprise me that he does find your feet and hands attractive.. Link to comment
GoneCrazy Posted February 13, 2010 Share Posted February 13, 2010 It wouldn't matter to me long as you dont have toe nails so sharp you can cut through your so's skin Link to comment
pinkelephant Posted February 13, 2010 Share Posted February 13, 2010 i've always wondered about that. girls in porn usually have really fake long nails... and i'm like, how is that sexy? i like getting my nails done too. i love it when my hands/feet are all pretty up. Link to comment
annie24 Posted February 13, 2010 Share Posted February 13, 2010 some guys really liked it when i had long fake nails. others were ambivalent about it. Link to comment
jettison Posted February 13, 2010 Share Posted February 13, 2010 Love painted nails, love hands and feet. Link to comment
JusticeLaw9 Posted February 13, 2010 Share Posted February 13, 2010 Just love a woman who takes care of not only her mind, but her body and gives extra attention to her hands and feet. Especially if they're soft and silky smooth. One of my biggest pet-peeves is chipped nail polish. Link to comment
AbombSnowMan Posted February 13, 2010 Share Posted February 13, 2010 I'm a guy and hands are the first thing i notice on a girl, but not because I have a fetish its quite the opposite actually. I find fake or painted nails to be disgusting and I don't want any girl to touch me with them and I hate looking at them. I only like completely natural nails. Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted February 13, 2010 Share Posted February 13, 2010 i've always wondered about that. girls in porn usually have really fake long nails... and i'm like, how is that sexy? I wonder that too? How do they stick their fingers everywhere without hurting themselves? Lol. I've also wondered if guys do or don't care if a woman has her nails done. I took hours to do my finger nails and the bf didn't seem to notice or care too much. As with most other guys from what I've experienced. I always keep my toenails done though. I remember hearing from some guy friends that their dad's love women who really "take care" of themselves like getting nails and hair done. Maybe guys like a woman who has her nails done, b/c it makes them think she takes extra good care of herself and appearance. Link to comment
stingray Posted February 13, 2010 Share Posted February 13, 2010 I love hands and feet of women that are feminine! Link to comment
regular joe Posted February 13, 2010 Share Posted February 13, 2010 I think anything your partner does to make themselves more appealing to you is always a good thing. Whether it be for example tanning, a haircut or having their nails done. I personally think nothing is hotter than a partner taking taking pride in their appearance and how they present themself to you. Link to comment
shygal2008 Posted February 13, 2010 Author Share Posted February 13, 2010 ABombSnowMan...i don't think i have ever heard of that beforem HATING to be touched by a woman who gets her nails done??? What if she were the perfect woman in every way and you were reeeeeeeally attracted to her..would you still find it disgusting? Where do you think that comes from? Usually you hear the opposite like you said. Does/did your mom paint her nails? Bad experience with a woman in your past? Link to comment
Batya33 Posted February 13, 2010 Share Posted February 13, 2010 I would think some men get concerned about the potential "high maintenance" aspect. Link to comment
stingray Posted February 13, 2010 Share Posted February 13, 2010 I would think some men get concerned about the potential "high maintenance" aspect. Screw that! I will oblige! Why the heck would I not fork over the cash if she is trying to look good for me. Link to comment
shygal2008 Posted February 13, 2010 Author Share Posted February 13, 2010 I actually do my own manicures...i have all shades of pink and my favorite red...everyone thinks i get them done professionally Link to comment
AbombSnowMan Posted February 14, 2010 Share Posted February 14, 2010 ABombSnowMan...i don't think i have ever heard of that beforem HATING to be touched by a woman who gets her nails done??? What if she were the perfect woman in every way and you were reeeeeeeally attracted to her..would you still find it disgusting? Where do you think that comes from? Usually you hear the opposite like you said. Does/did your mom paint her nails? Bad experience with a woman in your past? Yes when my girlfriend got hers done I didn't want to hold her hand and I told her it was a turnoff to me so she doesn't paint them anymore. I have dated another girl in the past who always had her nails done and I tryed to just get over it but it always made me uncomfortable. But no my mom doesn't do hers and no bad experiences so i have no idea where it comes from. Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted February 14, 2010 Share Posted February 14, 2010 Ok, so today I was planning on ordering a nail art kit lol, and the topic came up with my bf. Turns out I was right, when he didn't pay much attention to my newly did manicure. He said his favorite look on a woman is clean, neat nails. Buffed, filed. I added clear polish but he would have even preferred none of that. He finds long flashy nails are erm... "ghetto" and trashy. I don't agree cuz... well I'm a girl lol! His dad is older and opposite. He loves women with manicures, etc. but doesn't get how women sit thru all those chemicals and smells. Interesting convo nonetheless. Link to comment
shygal2008 Posted February 14, 2010 Author Share Posted February 14, 2010 How old are you ABombSnowMan, if you don't mind me asking? Those poor girls..no hand holding bcuz they did something nice for themselves or to look good for you It seems older guys 30's, 40's, 50's like it on women..maybe the youngens don't care at all or just don't prefer it on their girls? Link to comment
metrogirl Posted February 14, 2010 Share Posted February 14, 2010 All this talk of nails, I think I should go get my pedi today. I wasn't going to but........ Link to comment
stingray Posted February 14, 2010 Share Posted February 14, 2010 It seems older guys 30's, 40's, 50's like it on women..maybe the youngens don't care at all or just don't prefer it on their girls? Hey! Hey! I am young too but I like them! Link to comment
shygal2008 Posted February 14, 2010 Author Share Posted February 14, 2010 ohh sorry..lol..i just know that there are men that do like it and some that don't care either way, just didn't know there were men that were disgusted by it though but thats why they call it preference right, we are not all expected to want or like the same things. Link to comment
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