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  1. kate111
    I don't know. You could change his number to a swear word so you are not tempted to answer it.
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    No worries. I understand. Good luck.
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    Vimora, I think you should go on the dates. Why not? Just explain the situation with them and offer to be friends. Who knows, maybe later on down the track you may like one of them and will have a friendship already in place.
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    I wonder how Shaker is doing.
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    Good post.
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    I'm rereading old posts. Hey What happened to Michael2? I liked his posts alot.
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    Yes you are right. It is better to move on and if they come back, bonus. Is this what happened to you? Your ex came back wanting to be there 100%?
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    No silence cannot be interpreted. The list you made covers the possible interpretations but the ex will not be able to work out which one applies. They could never be certain, and as you can see from your list, the possible reasons for silence are vastly different and range from being dead, to hating them, to having moved on. That's pretty wide ranging. They may not miss you if they have someone else that's true. But you never know, after the glitter and gloss has faded from the new relationship they may start to think about what they had with you. Who knows.
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    ^ Yes true. Very true. Silence cannot be interpreted.
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    I think I'm about 46 days.
  11. kate111
    Yes I would avoid friends. Or if you do see them make sure you act like you are happy about the break up.
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    Make sure you exercise too. That's what I need to do too. I should take my own advice.
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    Accept that it is over for now at least and try to concentrate on you. Have you got some good self help books?
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    I had a very intense relationship like this when I was 23 or so. In the end I thought of his more as a friend. I broke up with him and it took him ages to get over it. I broke his heart. But I NEVER forgot him. Even though I did my exploring and even fell in love again, I often think of him and know that in some ways we had to break up, but in others, yes, I was a fool. Just letting you know my experience from the other side.
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    Has anyone read this: "Getting back Together, How to reconcile with your partner-and make it last" Is it any good?
  16. kate111
    It's been almost 2 months. The silence is deafening.
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    Maybe it is just us that is horrible. Haha. *cries*
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    I got dumped by the nice guy. Yes the one that I got together with and everything was perfect and the exex became a distant horrible dream. Now this one is turned out to be horrible. Ahhh my partner in pain. I shall order that book.
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    I need the part about the impaired lover! How do I get a copy?
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    Superdave, can I ask you a question? Do the exes usually at least call some time after the break up? If you leave them alone? I've left mine alone for a few months. I begged etc the first couple of days. But after that I stopped contacting him.
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    Hi Shaker, Thanks for asking. It's so hard. For some reason I don't find not contacting him hard. Perhaps I have alot of pride, or perhaps I know that I prefer to give him space if he wants it. Maybe it's a combination. I ruminate about the idea of contact sometimes but maybe I am too gutless to do it. Had nightmares about it last night. I seem to get these a few times a week. I just can't believe after 3 years he has disappeared. Kaput. How are you going Shaker? Your ex came back didn't he? How long did it take? How do you feel lately? How's the new neighbourhood?
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    It's been about 48 days.
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    It might be too late though. This was awhile ago.
  25. kate111
    Are you supposed to not reply to emails etc they send you. I'm wondering if I did the right thing by not replying.
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