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so i prety much have one friend who is a girl. mostly becuase i dont like girls cuz they cause way too much drama and im not into all that. I love the girl to death... shes like the sister i never had.. but lately i feel like im overshadowed by her.. like more ppl like her, and all these guys are constantly telling me how pretty my best friend is.. and its not that im ugly, its just it almost lowers my self esteem being around her... i dk if this is stupid or like unhealthy..

okay so, my boyfriend and i of 7 months just broke up and i feel like a royal bitc*. For some reason all of the sudden my feelings sort of slipped away and now are almost completley gone. He still has strong feelings for me and is a wonderful guy who would never do anything to hurt me. One of the reasons why i didnt want to break up becuase i didnt want to hurt him.. but i guess the best thing would be what we did so i didnt toy with his emotions and confuse him any more... i just feel horrible. Its what was right tho and i think we both know that.. its just so hard because he still has extremely strong feelings for me and mine are almost completley gone. I asked him about staying friends and he said that would be weird for him. I see where hes coming from but at the same time i dont want him to be completley out of my life. its gonna be tough without him but i kno this was the right thing to do. . ...i think What should i tell him to make him feel better?... and myself, becuase the last thing i wanted to do was hurt this guy, but i knew it was a lose lose situation.. it sucks..and how am i supposed to go about the whole still hanging out and being friends part of this? cuz that is what i really dont want to lose is the amazing friendship we created..

okay so, we just broke up and i feel like a royal * * * * *. but its what was right and i think we both know that.. its just so hard because he still has extremely hard feelings for me and mine are almost completley gone. I asked him about staying friends and he said that would be weird for him. I see where hes coming from but at the same time i dont want him to be completley out of my life. its gonna be tough without him but i kno this was the right thing to do. . ...i think

ah thanks everyone! that pretty much summed up the feelings i couldent exaclty gather and put into words and yall made it make sense! thank god. ha i think at this point we are just going to stay together and see how it goes but it almost makes me feel uncomfertable knowing that HE knows that my feelings have lessened.. i feel like now i cant sho affection towards him without confusing the poor boy!

maybe this. i dunno, im not therapist or anything but coming from personal experience try helping others with the same problem and it will turn out to be self theraputic... if that makes sense? ..in the past 2 weeks at my school there have been 3 suicides. no words can explain how much hell my school and my friends have been thru in the past 2 weeks. suicide effects soooo many ppl and angers and confuses everyone. it sucks. self pain.. thats somethin that can be hidden obviously and i personally cant help on that topic much becuase i cant really say i kno wut im talkin about. but suicide is so painful to everyone. soo think about it and i hope everything gets better!

so me and my boyfriend of 7 months are deciding that we have come to a weird point in our relationship where my feelings arent as strong as his and taking a break was somethin we thought about but neither one of us knows exactly what that is. im at a dead end with this one i dont know what to tell him....

i dont know if u have ANY idea how bad your gonna hurt everyone who loves you and tho u might think thats nobody. i promise u there are atleast a few ppl out there if not more, who would do ANYTHING for you.. there has been 3 suicides at my school in the past 2 weeks.. reading this posts upsets me so much becuase the past 2 weeks at my school have been absolute hell. ppl who commit suicide hurt sooo many ppl they never thought they would. jus think about it suicide is a perminate solution to a temporary problem...

sounds like the parent thing to do.. haha but i would try having ur parents meet him.. that might help. things will most likely work out wheather your parents want it to or not.. i mean. romeo and juliet. seen it? haha if u need any hope, watch that movie! haha no seriously tho if u both really want to be together and are meant to be everything will work out.. and as tough as that may be to just accept its the truth!

ha wow thanks. that seriously helped.. (and im almost 16.) but yea its everything you said.. completley. im glad someone out there understands! haha

yea, i mean were "exclusive" if u mean by that, that we are like going out ..boyfriend/girlfriend or whatever.. we have been for a while.. its jus i dont wanna hurt him but i dont feel like i have those type of feelings for him liek i used to.. that "spark".. and im starting to see him as my best friend more than anything..

okay so im in my first "serious" relationship i have been in. ever. the guy is great.. he never does anything to hurt me... i dont think he ever would either. Its been almost 7 months that we have been together now. I actually find myself liking this guy. I guess u could say that i have never really had a serious boyfriend before this. My longest relationships would be a month or so at the most and it was one of those things where u never really hang out.. you know how those are.. anyways. Im with this guy... he goes a dif school that is close by and most ppl from my school and his school are friends. The problem is im starting to have "best friend" kind of feelings for him. The is the kid is a completeee sweetheard tho.. and he always tells me how amazing i am and how much he loves me. I would feel horrible if i ever hurt him.. but its like when im around other guys i feel myself wanting to flirt and "date around" or w/e.. this is soo hard i just dont know what to do anymore, and i dont want to lose him as a friend.. i dont even know if i want to lose him as a bf this is rough