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Hey all i'm worried about me and my girlfriend cause we are going to separate colleges and i don't know what to do cause i won't be able to see her as much ... I don't know what to do ... -snowman-

Hello all well once again I have a delema and was wondering about the opinion of anyone willing to express them. Anayway my girlfriend and I were talking and she found it suprizing that I never look at porn (and I serously haven't in like 2-3 yrs) and I'm not saying it will cause any problem but I was wondering if it really was that unusual... anayways let me know with your opinions... -snowman-

Hey all I have a problem and I don't know what to do See I love this girl but theres one problem and thats that I can't get enough of her its not thats shes neglectful its just hard since we both go to different schools and I can only talk to her on the phone and aim but I just can't really seem to see her enough no matter what......... I don't know if this is typical of a new relationship (3 weeks) or what but I would like any help I think it might start to become a problem.... Or maybe I'm worrying over nothing.

8) Hey all Well i didn't get hauled off to the place with the padded walls and it actually went really well I was just confident and i said that i wasn't going to have sex with her and it really helped we never did... And now i think i love her even more so i want to thank everyone that helped me it really did pay off so thank you But i want to know is there anything wrong with foreplay??? cause there was some of that...... it wasn't anything huge just kissing naked and exploring a bit ... but it didn't feel wrong soo i was just wondering do you think i should feel bad that ,that much happened??? -snowman-

Hey I also have had this to a few of my friends and i asked the dudes they were dating why and the reason is simple there just afraid to go forward in a relationship... and they fear losing whoever there with, i know i went through that for a month before i just said this is stupid and went for it just tell him that he won't regreat going through with it and they will work the rest out themselves. Best of luck -snowman-

Hey man well first off congrats on finding a girl ya care for and second don't sweat the erection problem cause i used to do that for about he first week i was dating my girlfriend and she found it such a turn on ....i know it seems strange but i got more kisses that week so jsut don't sweat it and try to look on the positive side of it best of luck -snowman-

I'm with crystal333 on this one i don't think its cool to just go around kissing who ever and when ever but if you really wanna just make a good first kiss just take her somewhere away maybe darker than the other rooms or what not then just sit next close to her and put your arm around her if she leans on ya your in the green so to speak so you can just go about it as you see fit .... and if she pulls away don't try and redeem yourself ..... thats a pain if you do but just play off her actions and you will be fine -snowman-

It's sooo hard to explain when you actually fall in love but you will know your heart will feel likes its breaking your ribs and to won't be able to stop thinking about them... it's great once it comes so i hope you find it one day -snowman-

well no problem just do whatever feel natural i mean on your first kiss you will go into a different mode and you will know what to do but on a more consous level just wait for him to put his tongue in your mouth once that happens ya can rub it and go into his mouth or just stay back and let him come more to you and then as ya get more tries you will learn what works and what doesn't

thx mar i will do it i've got a plan and i really think it will work and soo i will let everyone know how it works out thx alll -snowman-

???NERVOUS??? well first calm down its not really gonna help if ya kiss the guy and your teeth are chattering ....... but as far as your hands / positon just make sure there comfy and probably touching him or wrapped around him or something... if you guys kiss just relax and let him make the move if he goes for a cheek or suthing then moves around to the lips just wait it out .... if he goes straight for your mouth just take it slow and easy.... so don't act like your tongue is jet propelled in other words... and so just sit back and enjoy at that point and don't worry about after it either he will pull out eventually lol ooo and remember to breathe! if ya wanna know nething else just ask.... -snowman-

Simple question simple answer guys don't know what they want..... soo if they loose sommthing then they realize it was better with it and try to get it back sometimes and if they get it back they think something else would be better ...... i don't know if that makes a lot of sense but thats the best reason i could come up with .... -snowman-

I personally think its just a matter of your unique style some people don't move their mouts and just exploering with their tongue and others use the whole mouth but you can try using your mouth or just stick with him using his while you use your tongue, btw a little biting wouldn't hurt him it actually might make the kiss a better one good luck

Well i don't think that would be cheating cause you did show resistance and didn't kiss him but thats wasn't a great idea with the holding hands thing i would just stay away from him or at least don't sit by him anytime soon... -snowman-

87 means she would be 16 ..... and ya i know what ya mean cause i start everything but from time to time my girlfriend starts it ...... AND AT THAT POINT YA CAN PUT A FORK IN ME AND CALL ME DONE cause any straight guy loves anything you do to them (thats my opinion) But ya you can always kiss the neck and the ears and you can't go wrong there and then work around to the front of the face he will be falling all over the place then you can also do w/e and just see what gets a more intense kiss in return ... anyway good luck -snowman-