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  1. waveseer
    I don't mean to confuse you at all. It does seem that if your relationship died of neglect than fixing it would indicate doing the opposite.
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    I take it you'd like something a little more personal than a weekly email? Do you expect her to jump straight into taking a chance like that? I suppose it depends on the previous relationship dynamic, but usually the dumper has a good reason even if they have trouble communicating it. I am confused as to why you'd question whether she cares or not. Do you really think she might not care? What would lead you to believe this?
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    I am no relationship expert, but I do know this, if neither party escalates the consideration than there is no possibility for reconciliation. If you only want her back on your terms (which currently sounds like only if she does a, b, and/or c) then you are doing fine. If you ever feel like cutting her some slack then you might want to consider going the extra step first.
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    My perspective suggests that if you are busy then you send a short email saying, "I'm doing great and I hope you are too. I'm really busy and will get back to you in a few days." You don't even have to read her email first to send that.
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    It only matters what she thinks if you want her back. An early light-hearted chit-chatty response would probably get you further than a late too smooth response. While it's good to weigh your words, it looks guilt or pity driven when you put too much effort into it. She probably has no idea that you haven't even read her message until right before you reply, what would you think if the situation were reversed?
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    I wonder how the ex perceives your delayed responses though. Do you think they might be perceived as reticent, hesitant, or not particularly interested?
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    I know it doesn't work the same for everyone, but the less time the ball spends in my court the more clearly I can focus on other things. I don't like playing games so if I want a speedy response, I give a speedy response. It's quite simple really.
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    Wouldn't she hold less power over you if you read it and responded right away? I mean, if you're planning to respond anyway? If you're not planning to respond you may as well just delete it.
  9. waveseer
    That was really good!
  10. waveseer
    I'm not a self-injurer but I could really relate to this anyway.
  11. waveseer
    Simply beautiful.
  12. waveseer
    Nice, I like it.
  13. waveseer
    Thanks, ot!
  14. waveseer
    "So please think about all of your past relationships that have been left undone, and when you schedule your Karmic Session, please specify in the Notes section of the appointment whom you desire to complete with. If there are many relationships to work on, then I suggest the Clear the Slate program to address these, as there are often many, many layers that have to be removed and this is often quite intense. This is my favorite part. That's what ena is for me, my own personal "Clear the Slate" program.
  15. waveseer
    Now THAT'S real poetry.
  16. waveseer
    I think it looks good over there by the window, wait, no, how about over here by the table? lol
  17. waveseer
    Sure!.......
  18. waveseer
    Thanks whes, it does sort of stand there ...
  19. waveseer
    I don't want anybody but you I don't want anybody but I don't want anybody I don't want I don't I I want I want somebody I want somebody but I want somebody but not I want somebody but not you
  20. waveseer
    You may be a good guesser about who can change and who can't or who will and who won't, but as long as people are still breathing they will surprise you when you least expect it. Nobody can predict the future with absolute accuracy, remember that.
  21. waveseer
    Don't be so quick to condemn yourself based on your judgements of others. You may be just very good and quick at evaluating others. The wrong thing is condemnation, but judgement is essential to a life well lived. As long as you believe that people can overcome their present circumstances, it's more than ok to honor your perceptions.
  22. waveseer
    There are times when a kiss is just a kiss, and then there are times when...
  23. waveseer
    Man, I can feel that. Your words are truth.
  24. waveseer
    Nice, I like the cadence.
  25. waveseer
    I really like that. It's where I'm at on a good day.
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