Just visited this site and am amazed at how many people share their stories! Mine is also a sad one.... My boyfriend of 4 years and I just broke up. He came into my life at a time I was just getting over my second long term relationship (cheater #2). He came in like a knight in shining armor, said everything to get me to trust him. To make a long story short, he had bariatric surgery, lost 140 pounds and has now moved on due to my trust issues (so he says). Come to find out, he has been in touch with an old "friend" and they have started a relationship. His side of my bed isn't even cold yet. To have this guy do this after he knew what lying and cheating did to me in the past is the most devastating thing to happen. I can barely get through each day. He has a 5 year old son who is like my own so I still must have some contact with him because I still want to see the little guy. He honestly thinks he did nothing wrong!!! I found out that he had been hanging out with her now if it was so innocent why didn't he tell me? Why do guys (no matter how old, he's 50!!) think that it's ok to go from one relationship to another before the old one is even over!!!!!!!!