Jalys

A good friend of mine. She basically told me to be a bit strong as far as feelings is concerned. Why? not sure. It did made me kind of upset, we ended up arguing lol.

I'm in love... been in a relationship with my gf for about 5 1/2 months (3 online where I met her) (2 LDR after I met her on person) I miss her so horribly much, that makes me so miserable. But my real problem is the fact that I'm having such a hard time expressing my feelings fearing it might make me look 'weak' as I have been told that I have to be a little 'stronger, but sometimes just can't help myself. Sometimes can't help but feel somewhat insecure after I tell her exactly how I feel... I personally don't know why. I admit being a sensitive and passionate person, so many feelings and emotions (as far as love is concerned) Just don't know what to do, should I just go let myself completely go, hold it in like I have been doing (I always let her know that I miss her) We plan to spend the rest of our lives toguether, I'm moving in with her in december. I live in the States and She overseas.

Does it makes me weak missing someone so much it brings me to tears? Does expressing your feelings towards that person makes me weak? Does the fact that its very difficult to deal with the pain of her being so far away makes me weak? Does expressing any feeling or emotion no matter how little makes weak? Does being sometimes highly sensitive makes me weak?

1st time with my ex-wife, when I was 21.

I'm puzzled.

Sorry to hear Todd... I agree with what some_guy said. Trust is gone, it won't same as it was before.

So, the majority of women like 'tough - bad' guys from what I understand. Maybe I should start being a little cold to my girlfriend, maybe tell her a few hurtful things, that would be more than enough challenge right?

I miss it horribly. Its been so long. Just needed to get that off my chest.

Thanks NJRon. I could have done that, as a matter of fact I refused to 'online date.' I just do not know what happenned, we were friends at first, but we ended up falling in love with each other. I did not want this, but it happened. I do plan to visit her very soon, and hopefully things will turn out great.

I'm aware of that, but thats not entirely the point. I'm in Houston, Texas and shes overseas (Caribbean) which I'm from as well. We plan to meet as soon as some personal agendas are taken care of (I want to visit my daughter before going).

Perhaps the fact that I miss her? Perhaps because I wished I was right there with her? Perhaps because when she is in her low's I'm not there to comfort her? Or when problems arise I'm not there to stand up for her or protect her? Or take care of her when shes sick? I could go on... It maybe temporary, but I miss her, and I miss her every minute, every hour, and every day.

We've known each other for about two and a half months, but we go back longer than that. We haven't met yet, odd I admit, but we both feel so horribly familiar to each other, its like we are the same person... I don't know, it is very confusing sometimes. For awhile I kind of refused to believe in all this, and was kind of skeptical about it all, but lately I started to believe, more each day. I love her, and frankly, words aren't just enough. Never have I thought I could feel this way.

This is so hard for me, I'm not the kind of person who would talk about this in public, but I need advise. I'm in love (met her online) to cut the story short, lately I've been missing her horribly, all I can think is about her, even if I try hard not to. Everytimes we say 'goodnight' tears run down my face, sometimes I sit in front of the PC to just think about her (or something) Sometimes I text message her, and if I don't receive a SMS back I get horribly sad, why? Is this normal? What is happening to me? We plan to be toguether, we share the same feelings towards each other, I just don't know know cope with all this. I miss her so much (and she feels the same towards me) that it hurts. Nothing seems to work, I try to be strong, I work long hours to make this happen, even at work I can't stop thinking about her. I need advise, perhaps from someone who is going through the same. -